r/openmarriageregret • u/LeoDragonBoy • 10h ago

🔗Cross-Post🔗 First time poly blew up, advice needed

/r/polyamory/comments/1ttfx7g/first_time_poly_blew_up_advice_needed/
18 Upvotes

100% Upvoted

28 comments sorted by

View all comments

16

u/wenchywitchy 9h ago

You are not poly, you are actually a selfish cake eater!

5

u/Turms70 8h ago

The problem that many have, who want live that poly lifestyle, that they miss the crucial point, that poly is a free choice! Like you chose your career or what car you drive.

You are not poly, you want to be poly! This is different from being homosexual, or bisexual. This is given by nature and not a free choice.

Since I am very curious and very open-minded, I tried to find any valid scientific publication, that would prove that being poly is not a free choice of a lifestyle. All who say differently do not even come near any reasonable scientific standards.