Does Feeld actually work?

[u/Ginger_Gerl]

has anyone had luck with the free version of Feeld? I've been using it for a couple weeks now with zero luck. I dont want to pay for it just yet cuz I've had little success with online dating in the past. Maybe I'm impatient, or maybe this is another app that just wants your money....idk.

any advice?

we are being open and honest in our bio. maybe we arent using the right terms and such? we worry that some people might think we are looking for a "unicorn". but that's genuinely not what we are looking for.

If I've learned my terminology correctly then what I'm looking for is "a closed V, kitchen table relationship with a woman".

I (31F) want a girlfriend that is comfortable with polyfi. She doesn't need to be attracted to my man, but I'd like for them to get along so we can all hang out together.

[u/hot-fudge-sundae116]

My partner (39M) and I (47F) met on feeld a year ago (Monday was our first date anniversary). I was hesitant to swipe his profile. It said solo poly which is what I was looking for. But it also said he was looking for a FWB. Ok with occasional one night stand. And open to something more for the right person. I was 5 months out of a horrible breakup with a partner that lived with me and husband (46M) and figured if nothing else we’d flirt and move on. Well turns out we are crazy in love and got “engaged”. I asked him on Easter on a vacation to join my forever family with a ring. He said yes. Then Monday he gave me a ring in return on our anniversary. 🥰 he and my husband get along famously. And I’m incredibly happy. (I never paid for the app, he did as men tend to get less swipes, but when we met he didn’t have paid version). We are a very functional V.

[u/hot-fudge-sundae116 → u/hot-fudge-sundae116]

He’s a daily scuba diver, so he has since switched to a silicone band. But this is the night he said yes. Haha