Does Feeld actually work?

[u/Ginger_Gerl]

has anyone had luck with the free version of Feeld? I've been using it for a couple weeks now with zero luck. I dont want to pay for it just yet cuz I've had little success with online dating in the past. Maybe I'm impatient, or maybe this is another app that just wants your money....idk.

any advice?

we are being open and honest in our bio. maybe we arent using the right terms and such? we worry that some people might think we are looking for a "unicorn". but that's genuinely not what we are looking for.

If I've learned my terminology correctly then what I'm looking for is "a closed V, kitchen table relationship with a woman".

I (31F) want a girlfriend that is comfortable with polyfi. She doesn't need to be attracted to my man, but I'd like for them to get along so we can all hang out together.

[u/LVbyDcreed72]

I've been on a few dates through Feeld, but nothing worked out. People are definitely out there, but the majority of people I saw on Feeld was a couple looking for a third, and that's just not what most people are after.

V polys are difficult to maintain, and a hard idea to sell. I say this as someone who is currently in a V poly with my two GFs. You are asking for two people to give you all of their time in exchange for a fraction of yours. V polys tend to be something that just kind of happens naturally rather than people seeking them out. I expect you to have greater success if your poly structure isn't closed. Would you be open to your new partner also having their own relationships?

[u/LVbyDcreed72 → u/[deleted]]

Glad things are working out for you! Love to see it.