Bit of a weird one. When I was 17 I planned on enlisting basically straight out of school. Was convinced by the grandad to not do that, he gave his experiences and convinced me otherwise.
Cut to around 22, went to one of those “come look at what we do in the barracks” open days with my girlfriend at the time and it was a fun day, but the moment passed when I was offered a higher paying spot in the current job. The girlfriend convinced me to take the raise and save a bit so we could do a big blowout holiday, and there was always next year’s recruitment.
The itch has been there on and off ever since, but along the way we had a kid. So 10 years into the relationship, 6 into the marriage, and we have a 5 year, all as I turn 30 this year.
If I was still young and single I’d be out on the hills tomorrow getting in shape, but the toughest part of this might be convincing the family. She of course knows I have always had an itch for it, but the 22+(?) weeks away to get up to that 3* and finish training is a tall ask for her to manage, and an even harder one to ask of the little one. As the preferred parent for homework, playtime, bedtime reading, it is a tough one.
So I suppose in a big way, it is quite a selfish concept to want for now, but when it comes to her priorities in life, her number one target has already been a stable and reliable life of income and routine. Now to me and anyone else here, spot on alignment, ticks the box perfectly. But for someone who hears the words army or military, and immediately jumps to Israel Iran Lebanon America etc etc, it feels like a hard talk to have.
Would really love some input from anyone in a similar spot or has been in that spot. I’d say those training months are the biggest hurdle by far, especially when phones are typically an end of night thing, so it’d already be past bedtime and the sort when it comes to it.
Cheers.