r/vulvodynia • u/Big_Total_1416 Provoked vestibulodynia • Apr 05 '26
Vent Giving treatment one more year
I think I'm going to give treatment another year before getting surgery. I have had pelvic pain (from endometriosis and vaginismus) for the last 5 years. I don't want to drag this out anymore than it has to. My gynecologist hasn't been listening to me and pelvic floor therapy has been the biggest waste of time. This condition is so isolating and depressing, I don't know how long I can stand it.
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u/AfterAd4616 Apr 06 '26
Invasive question: has a doctor checked your testosterone levels? I’m wondering about what might be causing the dryness.
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u/Big_Total_1416 Provoked vestibulodynia Apr 07 '26
No and it has frustrated me that she told me to retry estrogen cream instead of trying something else
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u/AfterAd4616 Apr 07 '26
Ooh, so galling. Definitely worth at least checking. That’s something any PCP or gynecologist could order for you - it’s just bloodwork. Also, if your doctor truly hasn’t checked your hormone levels yet, if you can, I’d shop around for someone else.
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u/LibrarianExcellent80 Apr 09 '26
Yeah I would get those checked! I had a vestibulectomy with Dr. Irwin Goldstein and like the first thing he did was check my testosterone. He’s very thorough but also doesn’t waste your time on doing treatment for a year. A year SUCKS that’s a long time, Dr. G gave things like 3 months at most! And from his research and book I read it seems like conservative measures seem pretty ineffective as of now from the treatments we know of :( I had provoked acquired neuroproliferative vestibulodynia.
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u/vicariouslyhaunted Apr 05 '26
What have you tried? Also, this is very isolating. It sucks