r/Unemployment • u/Suspicious_Issue4155 • 3h ago
[North Dakota] Question [North Dakota] My boss retaliated aganist me for telling upper management that a co worker made me feel threatened and afraid.
First let me say what i think i did wrong here
- I quit, i had to quit because this is my 2nd time being retaliated aganist for calling upper management (the managers above mine which is basically HR) Yesterday we were supposed to have a "meeting" about this hostile co worker. however the moment me and the two store level managers sat down in a private room my main manager IMMEDIATELY started getting agressive with me. raising his voice. his hands were shaking out of rage. he kept repeating "so give me an example of why u felt your life was threatened" i never said my life was threatened. i told the upper management that i felt like my co worker could strike me because of his unpredictable anger outbursts.
my manager never looked at the cameras. yet he kept threatening me to look at them to "prove that im lying" he refuses to give me the benefit of the doubt at all. i dont understand how me saying a co worker is making me feel threatened means i am just out to get the guy. it was a very unfair meeting and i was too scared to think about specific examples. also it was two managers that WERENT EVEN AT THE STORE WHEN THIS HAPPENED. so why am i alone with two people who literally have ZERO idea what happened at work that day.
Also this manager doesnt do "write ups" he told me this. he likes to solve everything "with conversations" which basically means he can cherry pick shit to get u in trouble but since he doesnt do write ups there isnt any proof of anything.
- i was late sometimes. this is unexcusabale. but, this job NEVER gave me a schedule. even when HR asked for one. i was NEVER given a schedule. i was made to work 9-5 the first month there. and than randomly i was working 3-11 next month. of course im gonna show up late to work im exhausted and i dont even have a SET schedule.
do i have a case here? or did i screw myself by quitting and not collectinf enough evidence?
TLDR: My co worker is hostile and makes the work enviorment toxic. my boss is saying im lying and that im just making things up. he says "you are just saying whatever sticks"