r/motherlessdaughters • u/Dark-sapiosexual • 1d ago

People with toxic mothers who is controlling, self-absorbed and paranoid, how did you feel when she died?

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u/jdogmomma 22h ago

I had a very complicated relationship with my mother. I'm very sure she was a covert narcissist and had BPD but was untreated. I was 27, divorced and with a young child when she died. I grieved the loss of a parent, and my son's grandma but I didn't miss her for a long time. She's been gone since 1998, I miss what we might have had.