r/monodatingpoly • u/SnowDance2309 • 8d ago

Spiraling

I am so emotionally and mentally exhausted.
Does it happen often that one moment y’all feel okay with the fact that your partner is poly and theres an instant switch where you arent able to handle it at all? Why cant the first feeling stay, so tired of not being understanding. It has started reflecting in my relationship with them, I have become so sad in life, that I keep upsetting them for no reason, I am always irritated, and I am not this person at all. The only time we get together, we spend that in crying.
I tell myself all the time to be happy with the fact that they love me so much, my focus should be on that but something or the other would trigger me and I fall back into a spiral.

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u/StankoMicin 6d ago

I am going to sound like s typical redditor here. But damn, if it is that hard on you, then I suggest you leave. Life is too short to torture yourself like this.