r/monodatingpoly 26d ago

How much

How much should I tell my poly partner.

I'm insecure in relationships regardless of mono or poly.

I'm jealous of anybody who had a great exploratory sex life, even more now with ED issues.

I'd be ENM/CNM if I wasn't so insecure.

I'm jealous of her ability to be a slut when I was fighting Asperger's and couldn't understand how to be one.

How honest are you all with your poly partner or are there things you will never discuss?

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u/Party_Economy8917 26d ago

Can't seem to get a handle on my emotions as an Aspie, either. One day, I'm totally fine with our dynamic, next day, I'm a wreck. It's def an emotional roller coaster as the mono partner.

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u/fool3d 26d ago

Hey what does aspie mean?

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u/Party_Economy8917 25d ago

Someone with Asperger's Syndrome( basically, high-function autism).

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u/fool3d 25d ago

I didn’t know, I hope I wasn’t disrespectful by asking but I hadn’t hear that term before so thank you!

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u/Party_Economy8917 25d ago

Nope. All good.