r/monodatingpoly • u/dick_dalek • 26d ago

How much

How much should I tell my poly partner.

I'm insecure in relationships regardless of mono or poly.

I'm jealous of anybody who had a great exploratory sex life, even more now with ED issues.

I'd be ENM/CNM if I wasn't so insecure.

I'm jealous of her ability to be a slut when I was fighting Asperger's and couldn't understand how to be one.

How honest are you all with your poly partner or are there things you will never discuss?

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u/Party_Economy8917 26d ago

As an Aspie, who has a partner who is both bi AND poly(I am mono), I csn also relate to your feelings. My problem is not ED-related, however; it's all the sex she's having with THEM and not ME. I feel replaced and rejected.....

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u/Party_Economy8917 26d ago

Can't seem to get a handle on my emotions as an Aspie, either. One day, I'm totally fine with our dynamic, next day, I'm a wreck. It's def an emotional roller coaster as the mono partner.

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u/dick_dalek 26d ago

I hear ya there

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u/fool3d 25d ago

Hey what does aspie mean?

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u/Party_Economy8917 25d ago

Someone with Asperger's Syndrome( basically, high-function autism).

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u/fool3d 25d ago

I didn’t know, I hope I wasn’t disrespectful by asking but I hadn’t hear that term before so thank you!

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u/Party_Economy8917 25d ago

Nope. All good.

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u/Nervous_Kangaroo5910 22d ago

Tadalafil is a miracle for ED. Seriously chat with your doc