r/limerickcity • u/Actual-Teaching-3048 • 3d ago

Any good psychic/medium recommendation

I understand it’s not everyone’s cup of tea but I’m stuck in a black hole in life at the moment and looking for some guidance. Any recommendations greatly appreciated

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u/Actual-Teaching-3048 2d ago

I hate that I know your 100% correct. I’ve tried different types of therapies. Nothing working. Maybe I’ll just never get better

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u/MarvinGankhouse 2d ago

Oh that, I had that for ages until I found the right therapist and until I was really ready. I have something you could try though. Give me a few minutes to type it up.

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u/MarvinGankhouse 2d ago

So you're going to play detective and look for something that you're strangely less upset about than seems normal. It's like when you replay the memory of something that mildly pisses you off, and that seems weird, that a big stage curtain gets pulled across in front of it and the announcer say "and then everything was ok."

Or, you're looking for a disproportionate emotional reaction to something. Something sets you off and you don't know why.

In one of those places is your answer. Thoughts are no good, you could have rewritten them but your emotions are out of your hands so focus on the feeling.

It might be a feeling you're familiar with and maybe even without knowing that. Get to know that feeling. When did it happen most recently? What was the time before? Trace it all the way back to the very first time you felt it and there you may find the root. Then look for any unfinished thoughts around that and process them.

If you have something from your past that's affecting you and keeping you from self actualizing that might be a way to find it. It worked for me.

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u/Actual-Teaching-3048 2d ago

Thanks so much for this. Not to get too deep into things but I remember very little from childhood, and I grew up in a very toxic hostile household with lots of abuse. I don’t remeber anything only maybe 5 memories from my childhood so tracing back is very difficult. As I’m typing this I’m realising I should put my energy and money into a therapy that helps with this and not looking for fake hope off a psychic. I do have some belief in psychics. I went to one before and so did a few of my relatives. At the time It was out of curiosity and not for any specific reasons and I have to say what she told me has come true and was oddly specific. Like she told me things about my grandfather that he didn’t even tell me a when I told him his jaw was on the floor. She Also told other family members somethings that were scarily accurate and all of it was good and I found I even got closure on things I didn’t know I needed. Thats just my previous experience but I do think I’m at a stage where I shouldn’t be paying someone to tell me what might or might not happen in my future. I also think this is a way of trying to get a grip on the outcome of things as I find not knowing the outcome drives me crazy. Okay this is turning into a therapy session now but thank you as I didn’t even think of these things until I started typing 😂