r/limerickcity • u/Actual-Teaching-3048 • 2d ago
Any good psychic/medium recommendation
I understand it’s not everyone’s cup of tea but I’m stuck in a black hole in life at the moment and looking for some guidance. Any recommendations greatly appreciated
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u/MarvinGankhouse 2d ago
Licensed therapy. Psychics and media won't help and just take your money. They might make you feel better for a while but they're not in the revelation business. If you're stuck in a black hole you're not alone by any means and there are people with degrees that can help.
Most people's problems are things they know about. But sometimes they haven't fully processed something and/or are unaware of something that might be holding them back and there's a method to getting that to the surface and figuring it out.
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u/Actual-Teaching-3048 2d ago
I hate that I know your 100% correct. I’ve tried different types of therapies. Nothing working. Maybe I’ll just never get better
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u/MarvinGankhouse 2d ago
Oh that, I had that for ages until I found the right therapist and until I was really ready. I have something you could try though. Give me a few minutes to type it up.
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u/MarvinGankhouse 2d ago
So you're going to play detective and look for something that you're strangely less upset about than seems normal. It's like when you replay the memory of something that mildly pisses you off, and that seems weird, that a big stage curtain gets pulled across in front of it and the announcer say "and then everything was ok."
Or, you're looking for a disproportionate emotional reaction to something. Something sets you off and you don't know why.
In one of those places is your answer. Thoughts are no good, you could have rewritten them but your emotions are out of your hands so focus on the feeling.
It might be a feeling you're familiar with and maybe even without knowing that. Get to know that feeling. When did it happen most recently? What was the time before? Trace it all the way back to the very first time you felt it and there you may find the root. Then look for any unfinished thoughts around that and process them.
If you have something from your past that's affecting you and keeping you from self actualizing that might be a way to find it. It worked for me.
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u/Actual-Teaching-3048 2d ago
Thanks so much for this. Not to get too deep into things but I remember very little from childhood, and I grew up in a very toxic hostile household with lots of abuse. I don’t remeber anything only maybe 5 memories from my childhood so tracing back is very difficult. As I’m typing this I’m realising I should put my energy and money into a therapy that helps with this and not looking for fake hope off a psychic. I do have some belief in psychics. I went to one before and so did a few of my relatives. At the time It was out of curiosity and not for any specific reasons and I have to say what she told me has come true and was oddly specific. Like she told me things about my grandfather that he didn’t even tell me a when I told him his jaw was on the floor. She Also told other family members somethings that were scarily accurate and all of it was good and I found I even got closure on things I didn’t know I needed. Thats just my previous experience but I do think I’m at a stage where I shouldn’t be paying someone to tell me what might or might not happen in my future. I also think this is a way of trying to get a grip on the outcome of things as I find not knowing the outcome drives me crazy. Okay this is turning into a therapy session now but thank you as I didn’t even think of these things until I started typing 😂
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u/ahhereaherlow 2d ago
Even though you're 100% correct - a decent (but obviously fake) psychic might give the OP useful insights into their situation via cold reading etc. I'm not saying I believe in it (because I don't) but I think if you went into with the attitude of "what might I learn here that's obvious to a con artist but isn't obvious to me" it could be useful.
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u/MarvinGankhouse 2d ago
Sort of like some kind of well trained and licensed non-liar?
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u/ahhereaherlow 2d ago
I am absolutely sure any of us could learn a lot about ourselves from someone who is an expert in cold reading.
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u/MarvinGankhouse 2d ago
Cold reading has nothing to do with the person being (not) read, it's just a series of open bullshit questions and statements that work on anyone. It's a con. The 'experts' as you call them aren't doing anything specific to the subject.
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u/ahhereaherlow 2d ago
Ah here, the responses the OP gives to the open questions are what will give him the insight though. If they are asked about their childhood and the OP answers 'well, actually my childhood was interesting, my parents separated when I was 5 and I'd to move in with my aunt who lived in a haunted funhouse. I never thought much of it but a ghost train full of corpses rattled through the living room just as Home and Away used to start" type thing will give the OP an insight it where the block is occurring.
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u/wnolan1992 2d ago
Anyone who recommends a psychic to someone who claims to be "in a black hole in life" is an actively harmful person
Please, go to your GP and seek professional, trained, science-backed help.
Going to a psychic/medium for any other purpose than for fun is literally pissing money in the wind.
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u/Actual-Teaching-3048 2d ago
Yeah your probably right! I’ve tried the science backed help and unfortunately it just didn’t help at all. I do agree tho it is probably not a good way to go about it but if I’m being honest I think I’m just looking for someone to give me hope. I’m not in a dangerous situation I’m just kind of sick of my life circumstances and where I’m at in life and it’s very hard to get out of this rut. Thanks for the response tho !
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u/Ahshurgowan 1d ago
I stupidly wasted money on a woman in Angel Times in Limerick. Lovely woman but got nothing right about me..I just spent the hour saying no, no, no that's not right, no. In the end I just started saying yes to hurry it all along.
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u/Healthylight333 2h ago
Hi i do readings ! Pls visit my profile and if you’d like i can give you my instagram handle
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u/OutRunTerminator 2d ago
This guy is very good.
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u/MarvinGankhouse 2d ago
No, he preys on the weak and the lost.
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u/SeeYouLaterAligators 1d ago
OP I can highly recommend Pat Noonan. He's based in Co. Cork. +353 86 265 6162
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u/Grouchy-Pea2514 2d ago
They’re con artists, don’t fall for it!