r/kaunas_lithuania 23d ago

Bad trestment at migration department

Has anyone else had rude or disrespectful experiences at the Kaunas Migration Center on Šv. Gertrūdos g. 7?

I recently had multiple negative encounters with one employee there regarding residence declaration. The issue was not the documents themselves, but the way she spoke to me and other foreigners. Belittling tone, scolding, making people feel embarrassed, and giving new requirements every visit instead of explaining everything at once.

I’ve also seen her speak similarly to other foreign visitors.

I’m preparing a formal complaint and I want to know if others had similar experiences at this center, especially foreigners dealing with declarations or migration documents.

Please comment or message me if you experienced something similar.

11 Upvotes

56 comments sorted by

29

u/Atra23 23d ago

Trust me its not only foreigners.... Lithuanians experience that too.. those karens call themselves queens. Probably 10 years till retirement...

2

u/-Nimpo- 20d ago

It's part of the natural experience

8

u/-_GIZMO_ 23d ago

Yeah welcome to Lithuania 😂 Lithuanians get treated like that too.

11

u/Maximum-Lemon-5999 23d ago

I experienced similar thing…even though I was speaking Lithuanian ( it’s not perfect, but decent..)

I even cried after that visit.. very rude attitude

3

u/Helpful_City5455 22d ago

Dont worry, even natives get that treatment lol

1

u/skuaskuaa 21d ago

If you were born in Lithuania, it would be just another casual encounter

5

u/YouW0ntGetIt 23d ago

All government services in LT are full of rude, entitled people. Sorry. This is "normal".

2

u/Inside-Rush6813 22d ago

Its pretty normal to be fair, especially for people aged 35-40+. Lithuanians have mentioned that they get the same treatment, and it is quite accurate that the locals get the same treatment. It is just how people behave. Its not common to in Baltics in general (for context: I’m from Latvia and I’m studying in Kaunas) to have happy smiley faces when it comes to client service. Its just how we are. Some people tend to change their attitude when you talk to them in Lithuanian and keep the smile up even after they spoke in a rude/grumpy manner, but generally, that is just us being us and our mentality.

2

u/Shoddy-Security310 23d ago

That's completely normal, even Lithuanian get treated like that

2

u/Bosca96 22d ago

You can always get back to your country :)

1

u/latenight-thoughts1 22d ago

are you fr? Guys I love Lithuania as a Ukrainian refugee. I work here, I pay my taxes, I learn your language and try to assimilate. But let’s be honest here - you’re 2.9 million, you NEED workforce in your country. What’s the problem?

1

u/Svirplys 21d ago

The problem is that if we say no, it means no. You have no say in this. As simple as that. It is not up to you to preach.

1

u/latenight-thoughts1 21d ago edited 21d ago

No question it’s not up to migrants to decide on your migration policy. But I was kinda hoping for a constructive response cause I’m genuinely curious. If it benefits your economy 🤔

1

u/Svirplys 21d ago

If people do not want foreigners to settle in our country, then that is the only thing that matters. No reports on benefits or proves based on economy gains are needed. No opinions by foreigners matter. It does not have to make sense to you. Locals decide how things should be going, because that's their country.

1

u/latenight-thoughts1 21d ago

Makes sense but it’s sad to hear you’re so against us. My family and I have always acted and will continue to act in Lithuania’s best interests because, in the end, we share the same values. Best of luck my guy

1

u/udarch 21d ago

Do not worry. Most people in Lithuania do not like anybody, even themselves. Also the weather here is always wrong in their eyes 😌.

1

u/Dan-ze-Man 20d ago

Dont take it personaly, Majority Lithuanians are rasist.  Imigration laws is down to ppl in goverment. 

1

u/Limp-Exercise-343 20d ago edited 20d ago

no we dont. how does the number of people imply needing or not needing extra workers? thats just plain stupid.

we have so many migrants theyre competing by lowering the wages to the point its funny

my god, refugee coming shouting "you NEED me", youre delusional to max

-2

u/Hefty_Order4332 22d ago

But instead he chooses to help fix our country:)

1

u/Bosca96 22d ago

We already have enough “doctors” and “engineers” fixing it.

1

u/Hefty_Order4332 22d ago

Why compare this person to them? I wouldn't compare you to a peasant. Have some decency

1

u/Svirplys 22d ago

For a person to "fix" a foreign country, he has to lead by example and "fix" his own one first; afterall he would hardly leave it if it is a good one to live in.

1

u/Hefty_Order4332 21d ago

That way no one would fix anything at all 😂

1

u/Svirplys 21d ago

A. One ne has to prove that he can fix things B. He has to be invited and welcomed to be fixing anything 😉

1

u/Hefty_Order4332 21d ago

A. Cap. B. I'm inviting

1

u/Emotional_Society381 21d ago

Depends upon your attitude and personality and your knowledge and various factors. You can't clap by one hand remember this

1

u/xX_mr_sh4d0w_Xx 21d ago

Yeah that's the normal service in government institutions. They're rude as fuck everywhere, doesn't matter if you're a Lithuanian or a foreigner or a minority.

1

u/Limp-Exercise-343 20d ago

welcome to lithuania, what do you want!?

1

u/Limp-Exercise-343 19d ago edited 19d ago

thats why we love it here. nobody pretends. people treat you naturally. no delusion.

sir, you look ugly today; bam, now you know. better than walking all ugly without knowing ;)

-1

u/molochas 23d ago

I'm Lithuanian, I've experienced grumpy treatment in Lithuania, Germany, Ireland and Netherlands, though did not whine about it. Deal with it and move one. No need to be a snowflake.

2

u/Limp-Exercise-343 20d ago

i dont believe they can stop. and its good. less snowflakes is always better, they get to move on to a country thats more snowflake oriented, we get to keep sanity. its a win-win

1

u/shelbalart 23d ago

It's rare to encounter rudeness in Lithuanian government offices. But it happens.

Just find another employee. No need to repeatedly contact those who don't like you.

Of course you may file a complaint, but I doubt it would make any impact. Better just deal with the fact that government people are just people, not robots, some have own traumas and demons. It's not because of you, it's because of them probably being bullied in their childhood or something. Forgive and forget.

1

u/ViciousBumblebee 22d ago

Complaints definitely have an impact

1

u/Limp-Exercise-343 20d ago

lol. you make good jokes, have a good evening

1

u/Careless-Car-5808 22d ago

Customer service is non existent in Lithuania, cashiers barely even say hello, autistic nation lol

1

u/Limp-Exercise-343 20d ago

thank you. i wish it was 5 times more of that, instead of snowflake mentality

1

u/Careless-Car-5808 12d ago

It’s just bad customer service, still soviet union in that respect

1

u/Limp-Exercise-343 12d ago

glad to have people that have your kind of opinions outside.

you have no idea how nice is for us, without a princess complex , to be around the same people. and how much this type bothers. one other reason to be rude

1

u/Careless-Car-5808 12d ago

You mean you are all in soviet autists club and are scared to even talk to other people when they are on on your screen but in real life

1

u/Limp-Exercise-343 12d ago

your argument is autistic itself.

what does anything have to do with soviets? were you a soviet slave, or are you an aged russian of some sort? youre not, so what do you even know about it? and how does any of this relates?

and where youre pulling the fear from? nobody is afraid to speak to you. nobody mentioned anyone being afraid of talking here either. 

boy did you got triggered or something? are you leaking?

1

u/Careless-Car-5808 10d ago

It has to do with soviets the fact that the culture is still the same when it comes to serving people. It looks like you are triggered yourself passionately defending something that is wrong wrong I suppose it’s people like you that provide this shit service hence you defend it. You lack basic understanding of customer service and human to human interaction

1

u/Limp-Exercise-343 10d ago edited 9d ago

and that experience comes from? pulled out of.. ?

anyways, glad to have you away, please stay delusional outside our country, thanks!

edit: i see you calling us racial slurs and got deleted the comment or moderator removed it. well, i would like to suggest that youre being racist yourself. you enter another country, and yet you push your beliefs and your country ruling. youre the one being nationalist here, and lets not confuse nationalism with german regime of ww2. it is good to keep your countries identity, and i too, like you, want my country to be its own distinguishable entity. were not russia nor UK, your expectations just dont match the countries mindset, and thats okay. you have so many options to travel elsewhere. just not back in time to soviet regime where i understand you came from

0

u/DeerThrone 23d ago

Complain in your own country. Dont like it - leave it. Snowflake.

0

u/Ok-Complex-7588 23d ago

Are you a muslim perchance?

-8

u/Sedulas 23d ago

Oh no! Well, I guess you better head back home

10

u/Grazhke 23d ago

Nah, bro those employees need to humble themselves a bit

-1

u/FluidReference9668 23d ago

Not with you

4

u/Far_Train_3054 23d ago

Per savo baubus nesugebat įžiūrėti net žmogaus kuris nori kad su juo elgtųsi žmogiškai

2

u/PoThePilotthesecond 23d ago

those motherfuckers act like that to anyone, including Lithuanians themselves. Shut up, retard.

-7

u/No_Distribution_8009 23d ago

You can leave if you don’t like it here

0

u/Flat-Echidna191 23d ago

That's not what they're asking.

0

u/namedgraph 22d ago

Film it

1

u/Limp-Exercise-343 20d ago

what u gonna do with the record tho? get the guy promoted?