Dating 40+ in south Jersey.

[u/SpareEducational5920]

Seeing all these South Jersey dating posts from the 20-somethings made me realize… where are the 40+ people at?

Surely I’m not the only one whose ideal date now includes decent conversation, no games, maybe tacos, maybe a Target run, and being home before midnight because lower back pain is undefeated.

South Jersey has to be full of people who still like music too loud in the car, random late night Wawa trips, horror movies, tattoos, sarcasm, and pretending we’re “just browsing” at HomeGoods.

Single, divorced, separated, emotionally exhausted… whatever your status is, how are people over 40 actually meeting anymore around here?

And yes ladies, there are still some normal straight dudes around. We’re just harder to spot now because we blend into brewery crowds and garden centers.

[u/apexxin]

Sorry; we only do “in bed by 9:30” after 40