How Did You Decide to EFF?

[u/Time-Milk-5377]

FTM, 35 weeks so preparing for all things baby.

I’m wondering how people decided to EFF? Or combo feed? I am not terribly inclined to BF, pregnancy has been really hard on me mentally and I want to have my bodily autonomy back as much as possible. Also the thought of BF gives me the creeps in a way I can’t describe. However, I’m not 100% sure and am open minded so I’m wondering if I should just try in the first days and see how it goes.

I guess I’m looking for perspective on how folks decided to formula feed if you were on the fence going into labor. My hospital really pushes breastfeeding so I feel like I need some idea of what I want to do before going in.

Is it possible to just breastfeed for like a month to establish immunity benefits, then fully switch? Or is it advisable to just go formula straight from the start?

Thanks for any input- this has been giving me a lot of anxiety.

[u/momofchonks]

I have sensitive nipples and the thought of having a screaming potato sucking and biting my nipples made me cringe. I told people the thought of it made me imagine chucking my baby, so no thank you. I did try to pump, but it was probably already too late, and I wasn't knowledgeable/ambitious enough to try getting a supply back in. It was far more valuable to me to share the responsibility of feeding than it was to kill myself for hypothetical benefits.