r/FormulaFeeders • u/Killer-Queen9 • Sep 29 '25
Rant / Vent 🫠 Why is the breastfeeding community so….insane?
My first baby is 11 weeks and EFF. Absolutely thriving and hitting all milestones, in fact, she’s ahead of a couple milestones. I’m very pleased with my decision to formula feed. But, I swear all I see online is moms talking about breastfeeding in such a passionate and condescending way. If anyone posts about formula feeding in a positive manner it seems that the breastfeeding community comes at them with a vengeance.
Why are they like this? From the outside looking in, it kind of seems like they are getting defensive to justify their misery? I’m genuinely starting to actually judge people who breastfeed at this point because of how insane these people act online 🤣
Anyway, I’m a better mom because I chose formula. I’m present, fully recovered, and well rested. I’ll never regret this decision. But again, just wondering why the breastfeeding community is so aggressive..?
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u/Past-Satisfaction672 Sep 30 '25
it has nothing to do with breastfeeding and everything to do with people who feel the need to one-up EVERY other person. I formula fed my first baby and breast fed my second. Guess what.. someone will ALWAYS have something to say no matter what you do, so do what is best for you and your family ❤️