1. Age, Gender and Height: 29M, 5'8".
2. Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect: 20 - 29 years old.
3. Location: Dhaka, Bangladesh.
4. Are you willing to relocate for a prospect? No (for now).
5. Nationality: Bangladeshi.
6. Marital Status: Never Married.
7. Ideal Marriage timeline: Within a year.
8. About me: I'm an introvert who prefer deep and one-on-one connection. I'm naturally open-minded and understand different perspectives, even when they differ from my own. Yes, I am quite imaginative and used to be a poet, now it's all software glitches in my head. I'm an rational person but I believe I'm emotionally stable since I have sense of humor. I can sometimes be a bit of a perfectionist, occasionally leading to procrastination. Another thing I want to mention is that I'm grounded by a strong sense of responsibility and morality, and I work hard to turn my ambitions into reality.
9. What are you looking for in a woman: Similarity is key for me in a partner. I look for qualities like patience, loyalty, respect, peacefulness, non-smoker, non-alcoholic, maturity, honesty, support and good communication skills. On a lighter note, I tend not to show-off, so you might need good eye glasses to find me impressive.
10. State/specify your level of religiosity: Agnostic. I am very religious in my own way. My family is traditional muslim but I am lucky that they are somewhat open-mineded too.
11. Level of education, and what are you looking for? I have completed BSc in Software Engineering. I am looking for a partner who is studying for at least a BSc or equivalent degree, preferably in a compatible field.
12. Current Job Status: Worked on many companies as a Software Engineer. Currently trying to freelance.
13. Do you want kids? Yes (open to discussion).
14. List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time: Watching anime, reading skill books (I also enjoy brilliant minds), making softwares for my personal use.
15. Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out: I hum along to everything, even when I shouldn't.
16. Preferred method of contact: DM on my Reddit account.

1. ⁠Age: 23 Gender: Male, and Height: 5.6"

2. ⁠Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect: 19-22

3. ⁠Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect? Born and raised Bangladesh , willing to go abroad for higher education and business stuff

4. ⁠Marital Status - Single

5. ⁠Ideal marriage timeline: In 2-3 years

6. ⁠About me: Currently a Final year STEM student at DU, learning CS and AI by myself , willing to build career around it

7. ⁠Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect: Emotionally understanding, mature, hard worker, ambitious, down to earth.

8. ⁠State/specify your level of religiosity: Moderate, Try to follow all the basic stuff of Islam

9. ⁠Do you want kids? Absolutely but later in life.

10. ⁠List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time: playing chess(I have international rating), Reading non fiction a lot(Interested in Geopolitics, Economics, Business, Tech, Neuroscience), exploring new things

11. ⁠What are you looking for in a partner(Mandatory): Looking for someone mature and understanding and most importantly kind. Lives without judging others but also very spontaneous and loves exploring. Good at critical thinking ,logical. Introvert.

DM if you want to move towards a new journey.

1. Age: 20, Gender: Female, and Height: 5.3"
2. Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect: 21-25
3. Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect? Born and raised in Europe, willing to relocate within Europe.
4. Marital Status - Single
5. Ideal marriage timeline: In 1/2 years.
6. About me: Currently a 2nd year law student, finishing my degree in 2028. I plan on doing my masters after the bar.
7. Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect: Emotionally understanding, mature, hard worker, ambitious, down to earth.
8. State/specify your level of religiosity: Moderate, pray 5 times a day and dress modestly.
9. Do you want kids? Absolutely but later in life.
10. List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time: Exploring new places, travelling, Gym
11. What are you looking for in a partner(Mandatory): Looking for someone mature and understanding and most importantly kind. Lives without judging others but also very spontaneous and loves exploring.

DM if you're interested.

1. Age, Gender and Height: 30, Male, 5’5” (165 cm)

2. Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect: 24 – 30  

3. Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect? – Malaysia (Currently), yes will relocate for better future if the opportunity arrives.

4. Nationality: Bangladeshi

5. Marital Status – Single

6. Ideal marriage timeline: within 1 – 1.5 year(s)

7. About me: I have a calm and introverted personality and prefer meaningful conversations over large social gatherings. Because I am naturally reserved, I have focused much of my time on my education, career, and personal development rather than actively pursuing relationships.

8. Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect: 1. Responsible, 2. Respectful, 3. Empathy, 4. Trustworthy, 5. Principled

9. State/specify your level of religiosity: Practicing occasionally  

10. Level of education, and what are you looking for? – PhD (Ongoing), looking for someone who has already graduated or above

11. Current Job Status: Lecturer (On study leave), will join the university again after PhD.

12. Do you want kids? – Agree together with partner

13. List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time – 1. Watching movies/anime/web series/K-Dramas, 2. Listening to Music, 3. Playing video games

14. Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out! – I think you’ll figure it out after having conversation with me that am I really interesting or boring.

15. What are you looking for in a man/woman: I am looking for a responsible, respectful, and trustworthy woman who values honesty, integrity, and strong principles. Someone who stands by her words, treats others with kindness and respect, and is committed to building a relationship based on trust, understanding, and mutual support.

Preferred Method of Contact: Reddit DM

Can someone give ideas about the background of Holud night? The name and holud used to be written on Foam!

Is there any updated or standard new background which is trending?

Please suggest your ideas!

Thanks

আমার বিয়ের জন্য মেয়ে দেখা হচ্ছে বাসা থেকে।বাংলাদেশে ছেলেদের মত মেয়েরাও বেশিরভাগ কঞ্জারভেটিভ।তাদের চিন্তা ভাবনা বেশিদূর না।অবশ্যই এর পেছনে কারণ আছে।ছোটবেলা থেকে তাদের কন্সটান্টলি বুঝিয়ে দেওয়া হয় কতটুকু চিন্তা করা যাবে,কতটুকু যাবেনা।তাদের জীবন prohibitions এ ভরপুর।কোথাও ঘুরতে যাবা?পরে যাইয়ো,বন্ধুদের সাথে বের হবা?অবশ্যই না।বিনোদনের জন্য কিছু করবা?মেয়েদের আবার বিনোদন কীসের?আমি জীবনে দেখেছি মেয়েদের জীবনে তাদের ইচ্ছামত কিছু করতে পেরেছে এইরকম সুযোগ কম।

কেউ অতিরিক্ত prohibitions এ বড় হলে তাদের সাব্জেক্টিভিটি ঠিকভাবে গঠিত হয়না।তারা মনে করে,thinking is dangerous.কারণ তাদের চিন্তা ভাবনা সোসাইটি,ফ্যামিলি এবং ক্ষমতা সম্পর্ক দিয়ে বাধাপ্রাপ্ত হচ্ছে।এজন্য সে প্যাসিভ হয়ে যায়।অব্জেক্ট।

এখন আমার বিয়ের কথা চলতেছে এইরকম একটা মেয়ের সাথেই।সে স্বামীভক্ত।স্বাভাবিক ভাবেই তার নিজস্ব কোন মতামত নেই।কিন্তু আমি তাকে সারাজীবন ক্যারি করতে পারবোনা।It will be tiring and এখানে তার সাথে আমার রিলেশনশীপ স্বামী-স্ত্রীর না,আমি এমন একটা পারসন হবো যে তাকে carry করে।আর সে থাকে প্যাসিভ,কোল্ড। এজন্য বাসায় বলে দেই ওই মেয়েকে বিয়ে করা পসিবল না।

আমার কারো সাথে জমে না বিকজ বাংলাদেশের সোসাইটি মানুষের এমন হাল করে(খেয়াল করেন মেয়েদের হাল কেমন করছে)যে আমি নিজে নিজেকে সামলাবো না অন্য কারো চাইল্ডহুডের আন রিজলভড কনফ্লিক্ট সামলাবো।That's too much work.

একজন নাস্তিক মেয়ে হলে ভালো হয়,লেফটিস্ট হলে তো কোন কথাই নেই।এই গ্রুপে পোস্ট দিলাম।লাইজ্ঞা যায় যদি।

About me

I am 26(M)

Living in the UK,

আমার hobby হচ্ছে লেখাপড়া করা।

1. Age: 23, Gender: Male, and Height: 5.8"

2. Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect: 22-24

3. Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect? Dhaka, will move to Europe, NA after graduation.

4. Nationality: Bangladeshi

5. Marital Status - Single

6. Ideal marriage timeline: In 2/3 years.

7. About me: Completed my HSC from Notre Dame College (2022), pursuing BBA (Final Year) at University of Dhaka. Passionate about business and technology, someone who loves to study and lead a fit and healthy life.

8. Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect: Emotional intelligence, ambition, a good sense of humor, kindness, and someone who communicates openly.

9. State/specify your level of religiosity: Moderate, I practice my faith with balance and respect different perspectives.

10. Level of education, and what are you looking for: Flexible, I value curiosity and drive over degrees.

11. Current Job Status: Instructor at various education platforms, I love sharing knowledge and helping others grow.

12. Do you want kids? Open to the idea, it's a conversation I'd love to have with the right person.

13. List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time: Exploring new cuisines by cooking at home, following football & cricket passionately, and planning future travel adventures.

14. Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out: I'm the kind of person who shows up quietly but consistently. I believe in building something meaningful rather than chasing something flashy. I'm a good listener, a better cook, and I genuinely believe small efforts done daily matter more than grand gestures.

15. What are you looking for in a woman (Mandatory): I'm looking for a partner who feels like a safe place, someone I can talk to about anything without judgment. Loyalty and emotional maturity matter deeply to me. I'm not focused on looks or past; I care about who you are today and who we can grow into together.

16. Preferred Method of Contact: Reddit DM to exchange socials.

How are the dating conditions or Conditions to get marri3d again in Bangladesh for a Divorced man with no child(25M)?..Does women consider it as the biggest red flag?And does any divorced man find their love of the life afterwards?What are the chances?

NB:I always intended to date before marriage so that we can know each other better.That's why i am posting here...

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Assalamu Alaikum. I am a 4th year university student studying Mechanical Engineering in a public university in Dhaka. I'm 23 years old, 6'2" tall, and genuinely here to find someone worth having a serious and committed relationship with.

I'm a practicing Muslim, cautious of my health and fitness, and deeply enthusiastic about what's happening around me as well as around the world.

I'm looking for someone conservative, grounded, gentle and genuine. I value intellectual conversations, mutual love and respect, and decency above everything else.

I consider myself to be a loyal, caring and devoted man. I hope I can connect with someone compatible with me and strive towards something permanent together.

Dislike the idea of arranged marriage and I've got a very limited social life, so here I am!

1. Age, Gender and Height: 31, Male, 5'3

2. Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect: 25/26-32

3. Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect?: Dhaka, willing to relocate but that'll take time

4. Nationality: Bangladeshi

5. Marital Status - Single

6. Ideal marriage timeline: 1-3 years (flexible; ideally would like to get to know each other first)

7. About me: Was born and raised in the middle east and then moved to Dhaka in 2013. I'm into movies/shows, also books if they can capture me within the first few pages. Genres include sci-fi, thriller, action, adventure, definitely fantasy, medieval and zombies. Would love to chat more and figure each other out as I'm not good at talking about myself much unless I'm very comfortable or asked specific questions about myself. I definitely have trouble figuring out about myself from the top of my head.

8. Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect: Ambitious, Sarcastic, Friendly/patient, can hold a conversation, can sit together in silence

9. State/specify your level of religiosity: Muslim, previously theist (someone who believes in God but not religion), now I try to pray 5 times a day.

10. Level of education, and what are you looking for?

My level of education is up until O'levels.

- I have no preference on formal education for my SO but someone who reads or studies up on the topics they're interested in is something I look for. I'd love to hear about the last thing you read that you enjoyed or abhorred, even if it's not something I know or am interested in.

1. Current Job Status: Working in a healthtech company.

2. Do you want kids? Yes and no (Why? \*Points to the world\*) . Would love to chat about this though and we can come to a decision together. I'm conflicted thus far.

3. List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time: Gaming, watching series/movies, watching videos on history, medieval things, recipes or any other topic that takes my fancy, occasionally reading; attention span kome gese :( I do enjoy cooking off and on, if everything's is prepped xD

4. Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out!: I can cluck like a chicken :V but aside that, I've been told I'm a good listener and apparently I have golden retriever energy 😅

5. What are you looking for in a woman: Someone I can be myself around with no worries, someone I can talk to easily; an absolute clinger with independence (oxymoronic, I know); there are days I am quiet and distant and days I can't shut up for the life of me so eta tolerate korte parle, toh shei (hence the absolute clinger with independence); someone into different things and understands that we don't have to like the same things, we can find that out for ourselves and come up with our own hobbies. Ambitious, sarcastic, and does not look down upon others. Making up the wildest hypothetical scenarios is a plus (example: survival in a zombie apocalypse)

6. Preferred Method of Contact: Here on Reddit

Age, Gender, Height, Complexion:
29, Male, 5’8”, dark brown skin complexion

Preferred Age Range:
23–29

Location and Relocation:
Currently based in New York, USA. I plan to remain in the US long-term.

Nationality:
Bangladeshi. Born and raised in Dhaka.

Marital Status:
Never married

Education / Career:
I completed my Bachelors from BUET and am currently pursuing a PhD in a STEM field at an American university. After graduation, I plan to work in the same field.

About Me:
I am somewhat introverted by nature, but I open up around people I feel comfortable with and respect. I enjoy films, books, and thoughtful conversations about art, philosophy, politics, science, and society in general. I value clear communication, honesty, emotional maturity, and intellectual curiosity in a relationship.

Important Characteristics I Am Looking For:
I would be most compatible with someone who:

1. Values education and has strong academic or intellectual aspirations
2. Believes clear communication is essential for a healthy relationship
3. Is intellectually curious and enjoys thinking about big-picture questions
4. Enjoys art, film, literature, or similar cultural interests, and likes discussing them

Religiosity:
I am an atheist. I believe this is important to state clearly because compatibility on worldview and values matters in marriage.

Do You Want Kids?
Yes, in the future.

Ideal Marriage Timeline:
Ideally, I am thinking of a timeline of 2+ years, around the time I expect to complete my PhD. I am making this post early because I believe real compatibility is something that becomes clear through long-term interaction, not just through a short biodata or self-description. I would like to get to know someone properly over time before making a serious commitment, and I would appreciate someone who values the same approach.

Preferred Method of Contact:
DM on Reddit

1. Age, Gender and Height:
   24, Female, 160cm

2. Age Range:
   24-29 (flexible)

3. Location:
   Toronto, ON - Open to relocating for the right person

4. Nationality:
   Canadian (Bangladeshi heritage)

5. Marital Status:
   Single

6. Ideal marriage timeline:
   1 year+ - I believe in getting to know each other properly within halal means

7. About me:
   Mechanical engineer working in the nuclear energy industry. Practicing Muslimah (hijabi, pray regularly, read Quran) focused on continuous growth in Deen and character. I’m an introvert who loves reading (especially history and Seerah), meaningful conversations, and traveling to experience different cultures. Alhamdulillah, I grew up watching my parents be true partners and friends - affectionate through good times and patient through trials. That’s the foundation I want to build on.

8. Five important characteristics:

   1. Understands the temporary nature of this life and actively strives for success through effort, patience, and prayer
      
   2. Honest, kind, and hardworking in all aspects of life
      
   3. Actually wants to build a family and is willing to do the hard work that requires
      
   4. Views marriage as a blessing worth protecting, especially through challenges of parenthood
      
   5. Practices modesty and actively works on lowering gaze and maintaining good character

9. Level of religiosity:
   Practicing - I wear hijab, pray five times daily, read Quran regularly, and continuously work on improving my understanding of Deen and character.

10. Education:
    Bachelor’s in Mechanical Engineering. Seeking someone with STEM background (Bachelor’s minimum).

11. Job Status:
    Full-time mechanical engineer in nuclear energy industry.

12. Kids:
    Preferably one child raised with strong values and character

13. Hobbies:
    • Reading (history, current affairs, Seerah) and discussing ideas
    • Traveling to experience different cultures
    • Gaming

14. What I’m looking for:
    A true partner and friend. Someone who understands life’s temporary nature yet strives for a good life and death through hard work, patience, and prayer. I want someone who actually wants a family and will put in the work to build and maintain it, especially through challenges. Someone pragmatic, kind, respectful, and honest who sees marriage as a blessing worth protecting. A teammate who practices modesty, works on his character, and wants to be my partner as much as he wants me as his.

Salaam everyone,

we've recently launched an app called Ikhtiar — a platform built for Muslims who are serious about marriage,

Unlike typical apps, Ikhtiar focuses on:

* Respectful and Serious users from across the world

* Privacy-first options (including profiles without photos) for women

* A structured and serious approach toward finding a spouse

* Free for first 1000 users

The goal is simple: to make the process of finding a spouse more dignified, intentional, and aligned with our Islamic values.

If you or someone you know is looking for marriage, I’d really appreciate you checking it out and sharing it with others who may benefit.

JazakAllah Khair for your support 🤍

You can find the app here :

https://www.ikhtiar.app/download

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1. Age, Gender and Height: 27F, 5'7
2. Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect : 25-32 flexible if compatible
3. Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect? Dhaka. can consider relocating for a few years, but prefer Bangladesh, or somewhere like Medina, In shaa Allah
4. Nationality: Bangladeshi
5. Marital Status - Single, never married
6. Ideal marriage timeline - soon, In shaa Allah
7. About me:  i would describe myself as someone who is optimistic, full of ideas, loyal. I am a muslim, and so, it is very important for me to lead a life that aligns with my faith. I am an engineer by education. I love to learn about religion, about the world, about a lot of things! i can listen if someone needs to talk, or yap if someone needs to listen, but it's also nice to be quiet together, especially while walking in nature. i like to experiment with new food, new places, new ideas, as long as it's halal. i like people and socialising, but also need some time to do my own things.
8. Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect:
Practising muslim: prays the 5 times Salaah, fasts and maintains the obligatory duties. avoids the haraam and any riba based income. someone eager to remind and be reminded by his spouse to be better muslims In shaa Allah ..
Intelligent : someone who is educated, thinks critically, doesn't act on impulse all the time, considers implications before acting etc.
Kind
hygiene conscious
Masculine: someone who can make his wife feel safe being a woman
9. State/specify your level of religiosity: Alhamdulillah i pray the 5 waqt Salah, fast, and try to maintain the obligations. I wear hijab. I try to wear niqaab too, but I struggle with it. In shaa Allah trying to improve.
10. Level of education, and what are you looking for? I have a Msc from Europe. I would prefer someone with a Bachelors or higher qualification.
11. Current Job Status: Not working a job.
12. Do you want kids? In shaa Allah
13. List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time:  i like to cook, research interesting topics, or do creative projects.
14. What are you looking for in a man/woman (Mandatory)
Someone who is God fearing. someone looking to raise a family rooted in teachings from Qur'an and sunnah. In shaa Allah
15. Preferred Method of Contact (You can add your email address or a throwaway reddit that you would be willing to receive personal messages from)

dm with details. respectful and formal interaction only please.

(Posting on behalf of my sister)

1. Age, Gender and Height: 34, Female, 5’2”

2. Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect: Preferably 35–45 (Flexible)

3. Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect? Currently living in Dhaka, Bangladesh. Open to relocate.

4. Nationality: Bangladeshi

5. Marital Status - Single (Never Married)

6. Ideal marriage timeline: As soon as Allah wills.

7. About me: I grew up and spent my whole life here, although our ancestral home is in Barisal. I come from a close-knit and educated family. My late father worked at Biman Bangladesh Airlines, my mother is a homemaker, and my siblings are all well-settled in their respective lives. Personality-wise, I am quiet, soft-spoken, family-oriented, and a bit introverted. I genuinely enjoy peaceful company, meaningful conversations, and simple living. I love reading books and experimenting with cooking and snacks for my family, especially for my niece and nephew, whom I adore and help care for regularly. My goal after marriage is to build a peaceful, loving home and become a supportive wife and devoted mother with the right partner.

8. Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect: Kind and gentle nature, Values Islam, patient, Family-oriented and down-to-earth

9. State/specify your level of religiosity: I try to be a good Muslimah but still have a lot to improve in-sha-ALLAH.

10. Level of education, and what are you looking for? Completed HSC (Humanities background). Looking for someone educated, sensible, and well-mannered rather than focusing only on degrees.

11. Current Job Status: Unemployed

12. Do you want kids? Yes, In Sha Allah.

13. List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time

• Reading books

• Cooking and trying new recipes

• Spending time with family and children

1. Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out!

I genuinely enjoy creating a warm home environment — whether through cooking, caring for family, or the little thoughtful things that make people feel comfortable and valued.

1. What are you looking for in a man

I am looking for a kind-hearted, understanding, and emotionally mature man who values family, faith, and mutual respect. Someone calm, dependable, and sincere who wants a peaceful married life built on trust, companionship, and Islamic values. I appreciate simplicity, good manners, and a caring personality more than material things.

1. Preferred Method of Contact: DM on Reddit

1. Age, Gender and Height: 40M, 5’9”

2. Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect: 29 - 37

3. Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect? - Currently at Los Angeles, USA. Do not have any plan to relocate in near terms.

4. Nationality: Bangladeshi American. Born and raised in Dhaka.

5. Marital Status: Divorced with Kid (8yr).

6. Ideal Marriage Timeline: ~1 year

7. About Me:

Assalamu Alaikum.

I was born and raised in Dhaka and completed my undergrad from BUET. Then I moved to USA for Master's and ended up staying there. I work as an Engineer at one of the top US company.

I was married once but unfortunately that did not work out. I am a devoted father of a 8 year old.

I have one brother and one sister both are well educated and happily married. My brother lives in BD and sister lives in Australia. My parents are still alive (Alhamdulillah). Even though they have their own residence at Dhaka, my parents rotate their times among their childrens.

8. Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect:

a. Kindness

b. Family-oriented

c. Hardworking and Responsible

d. Physically Fit and Active

f. Believer

9. State/specify your level of religiosity: I am a believer. Muslim. I dont pray regularly but have plan to do so.

10. Level of education, and what are you looking for? - Master’s in Engineering. Looking for someone educated and intelligent

11. Current Job Status: Working as an Engineer at top US company.

12. Do you want kids? - Yes, In Sha Allah 2 more.

13. List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time: I like an active lifestyle. Workout around 5days a week. I do crossFit exercise. I am also enthusiastic about finance and working on Financial Independence.

14. Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out!

I think I am a balanced person. Eventhough I am considered to have a successful career, I dont focus too much on my job. Rather I think Family is the most important thing in my life and I try to design my life around my family. I am pretty health consious and try to stay away from. unhealthy habit. I can do 300lb+ on deadlift (added this just as a joke 😛)

15. What are you looking for in a woman?

Looking for someone who is good looking, educated, mature and who focus on the big picture of life. Not lookiing for anyone who thinks career comes before family.

16. Preferred Method of Contact:

DM at reditt .

Posting for myself, slightly awkward but here we go.

1. Age, Gender and Height: 26, M, 5'8"

2. Age Range in a prospect: 23–32 (flexible if we vibe)

3. Location & relocation: Based in Dhaka. Flexible if we genuinely click, open to discussing location down the line.

4. Nationality: Bangladeshi

5. Marital Status: Single, never married

6. Ideal marriage timeline: 2–3 years. Not in a rush but intentional about it.

7. About me:

I'm an ambivert, some weeks I'm out, meeting people, fully social. Other weeks I disappear into my own world and re-emerge as a slightly different version of myself. Depends on the week, honestly.

I work as a Senior Executive at a fintech in Dhaka. Engineering background but I ended up gravitating toward the business and strategy side of tech, which I think suits me better.

My idea of a great evening is a long documentary, good lighting, and silence. I binge-watch documentaries the way other people binge Netflix dramas, anything from true crime to geopolitics to weird internet rabbit-hole stuff. If you've ever fallen asleep watching a 3-hour doc about the collapse of some company nobody remembers, we'll get along.

I'm not a huge foodie. I eat to live more than I live to eat. But I appreciate a good meal when it shows up, and I'm not picky.

1. Five important characteristics I look for:

Patient and understanding (non-negotiable)

Emotionally mature, can communicate instead of withdraw

Open-minded, not rigid

Grounded in faith but not performative about it

Positive outlook, I don't have time for people who treat life as a permanent inconvenience

1. Education: Looking for at least a Bachelor's degree. What matters more is curiosity and how you think.

2. Current job status: Senior Executive at a fintech company.

3. Do you want kids? Yes and when the time is right.

4. Three hobbies:

Documentaries (already covered, sorry)

Long walks, especially late at night when Dhaka is finally quiet

1. Something interesting about me:

Engineering taught me how things work. Working in fintech taught me how people work. Somewhere in between, I figured out I'm more interested in why people do things than what they do — which makes me a decent listener and an even better overthinker.

1. What I'm looking for:

Someone Bangladeshi, born/raised here or abroad, doesn't matter, as long as the cultural connection is there. Emotionally available, kind, has her own life and ambitions. Someone I can have actual conversations with at midnight without it feeling like work.

1. Preferred Method of Contact: Reddit DM with a bio/intro about yourself. Happy to share more once we connect.

Hello everyone, I m posting this on behalf of a sister of mine.

1. Age, Gender and Height: 33F, 5’2”

2. Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect: 32 - 38

3. Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect? - Currently based in Tongi/Dhaka, Bangladesh.

4. Nationality: Bangladeshi born and raised

5. Marital Status: Single, never married

6. Ideal Marriage Timeline: 6 months to a year

7. About Me:

Assalamu Alaikum. I was born and raised in Dhaka and completed my Master’s in Pharmacy in 2017. I am a pharmacist by profession, currently working as an Assistant Manager at Renata Private Limited. I consider myself to have an adventurous yet emotional nature.

I would describe myself as calm, caring, family-oriented, and emotionally grounded. I enjoy travelling, photography, and spending time in nature, especially landscape photography. I also love animals and value kindness and empathy in everyday life. Family is very important to me, and I appreciate sincerity, respect, and emotional maturity in relationships.

8. Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect:

a. Respectful and emotionally mature

b. Family-oriented

c. Honest and responsible

d. Supportive and understanding

f. Religious with good character

9. State/specify your level of religiosity: Muslimah from a practicing family.

10. Level of education, and what are you looking for? - Master’s in Pharmacy (M.Pharm). Looking for someone educated, well-mannered, and professionally established.

11. Current Job Status: Working as an Assistant Manager in the pharmaceutical sector.

12. Do you want kids? - Yes, In Sha Allah.

13. List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time: Photography, Touring, Watching/admiring nature and landscapes

14. Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out!

I have a passion for landscape photography—I love capturing the beauty of the places I travel to as a way to reflect my emotional and adventurous side.

15. What are you looking for in a man?

Looking for a sincere, respectful, educated, and family-oriented man who values trust, communication, and mutual understanding in marriage. Someone who is emotionally mature, responsible, and serious about building a peaceful and supportive future together.

16. Preferred Method of Contact:

I will take DM's on behalf of my sister, then connect you through.

Age and Height: 23, 5'9"

Age Range: 21-25

Location: Dhaka. Planning to relocate to the US for postgrad.

Nationality: Bangladeshi

Marital Status: Single

Ideal Marriage Timeline: 3 years

About Me:

Hi 👋🏼 I'll be honest upfront. Never really considered Reddit to be the place to find a partner but a close friend put in a lot of work to convince me otherwise. Still slightly skeptical but would love to be proven wrong.

About me. Final year undergrad at a top university in Dhaka, currently working as a software eng besides uni. Plan is to go to North America for postgrad around Fall 2027-2028.

Personality wise, people say I have a strong personality and I ease into groups pretty naturally. I'm extroverted and like being around people. I've generally had attention from the opposite gender so I think looks are alright. Not a big believer in soulmates. I believe in choosing a compatible person and working together to build a cozy life.

Uhm another thing. As already mentioned in the timeline, this isn't for immediate marriage, but the plan is to seriously date with the intention to marry. Happy to connect and get to know each other, but if you're not serious about the eventual marriage part, pls let's not waste time.

Level of Religiosity: Muslim. Always working to be better.

Level of Education: Bachelor's degree with plans for MS/PhD. Looking for someone currently studying or above.

Current Job Status: Software eng at a remote startup.

Do You Want Kids? Yes

Hobbies: Adda w friends, writing, bathroom singing and football.

What Are You Looking For in a Woman? Passionate, loving and kind. The type who makes people around her feel at ease. Respect is important and I want that to go both ways. Good humour with a touch of goofiness wouldn't hurt. Ideally easygoing and a generally positive attitude towards life.

Preferred Method of Contact: Pls dm here

Age, Gender, Height, Religion: 30, Male, 5'4", Muslim (spiritual, not strictly practicing)

Education: BBA from University of Dhaka.

Currently working in marketing strategy at one of Bangladesh's leading mobile financial services companies.

Age Range in Prospect: Open to discuss — the right person matters more than the right number.

Location & Relocation: Based in Dhaka. Flexible for the right person and the right life we might build together.

Nationality: Bangladeshi

Marital Status: Never married

Ideal Marriage Timeline: 1–2 years, though I think the best timelines are the ones two people arrive at honestly.

About me: I think in systems, but I feel in stories. By day, I work in marketing strategy — understanding why people behave the way they do, how markets move, and how to build things that actually last.

But the version of me that feels most like me is the one reading at midnight, or writing an essay in Bengali at a slow weekend pace, or getting genuinely lost in a conversation about how one idea connects to another completely different one.

I have a personal library of over 117 books. I write in both Bengali and English — sometimes seriously, sometimes with the kind of humor that only lands if you're paying attention. Some of my writing found its way online and quietly drew the attention of people I deeply respect, which still surprises me a little.

I believe warmth is something you show over time, not something you perform upfront. I am someone who takes ideas seriously but holds them loosely. I love a long walk, a good argument about a book, and the comfortable silence that only comes when two people have stopped trying to impress each other.

Five important things about me:

I am a systems thinker with a humanist heart. I use frameworks to understand the world, but I know people are always richer than any model of them.

Writing is not a hobby for me — it is how I process, how I connect, and sometimes how I love.

I am building my career with intention and growing into the kind of professional I want to be. I find that honesty more meaningful than a polished title.

I am slow to open up, but when I do, I am genuinely there. The people who know me well, know me well.

My humor is dry and layered. It tends to arrive quietly, and then stay with you.

Level of religiosity: Muslim by identity and upbringing, spiritual in the way that actually shapes how I treat people. I have deep respect for all faiths and the many ways human beings find meaning.

Level of education and preference: I am drawn to someone intellectually alive — someone who reads, wonders, and is willing to change her mind when a better idea comes along. Curiosity matters more to me than credentials.

Current job status: Marketing strategy professional at a leading mobile financial services company in Bangladesh.

Do you want kids: Yes, someday. I think about it with quiet excitement — the kind of patient hope that doesn't need to rush itself.

Hobbies and Interests: Reading across systems thinking, social science, and literary fiction. Writing essays in Bengali and English. Building a personal knowledge system where Taleb and Humayun Ahmed somehow end up in the same conversation. Long walks. Podcasts that make the walk feel short. Conversations that wander far from where they started.

What I am looking for in a partner: Someone who has her own inner world — her own books, her own questions, her own quiet sense of who she is — and is looking for a partner to share it with. I am drawn to warmth that doesn't announce itself, humor that doesn't need an audience, and a kind of love that grows more interesting the longer you stay in it. I am not looking for someone perfect. I am looking for someone real.

Preferred mode of contact: Feel free to message me here on Reddit. I would love to start with an honest conversation. Thanks for reading.

Assalamu Alaikum,

Posting for myself.

• Age: 30
• Status: Divorced (short marriage, no kids)
• Profession: Senior Software Engineer at international companies
• Income: 300k+ BDT monthly, along with freelancing and investment income
• Assets: Own flat, stable career, long-term financial security
• Family: Educated and respectable family. Sibling currently pursuing higher studies in London. Parents live in the village.

Alhamdulillah, life is stable professionally and financially. At this stage, I’m looking for someone mature, feminine, understanding, and interested in building a peaceful and comfortable life together. I value emotional connection, loyalty, communication, quality time, traveling, good conversations, and mutual respect.

If you’re someone who appreciates ambition, stability, growth, and wants a caring partner to enjoy life with, feel free to reach out. I’m open-minded about background as long as the mindset and understanding match.

Serious inquiries only. Please inbox with a short introduction and recent photo if comfortable.

1. Age, Gender and Height: 28(almost), Male, 5’5

2. Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect: Preferably ≤ 23

3. Location: Are you willing to relocate for a prospect? Settled in Dhaka (Not possible to relocate)

4. Nationality: Bangladeshi

5. Marital Status - Never married. No romantic relationships either

6. Ideal marriage timeline—within 2026

7. About me:

Humble, calm and mild-tempered. Kind, soft-spoken and value patience. I'm from a traditional Muslim family, so my manner, speech and mentality has been greatly molded by Islam. As a good listener, I tend to speak less but I am observant and reflective and I consider myself emotionally stable.

I do have a strong sense of responsibility and commitment. I put great importance on trust and commitment to others and I expect the same in return. I've avoided free-mixing and non-Mahram company for all my life. I still do and would like someone who has lived the same way.

1. Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect

Values and abides by Islam

Strictly maintains Pardah

Modest and avoids free-mixing

Respects authority

Honest, soft-spoken, trustworthy

1. State/specify your level of religiosity: Strictly practicing Muslim. I make utmost attempt to perform all the daily prayers at the Masjid. I believe Islam as the complete code of life and try to live my life closely alligned with Islam.

2. Level of education, and what are you looking for?

No specific academic preference. I'm looking for someone with proper Islamic knowledge, especially regarding Pardah, Mahram etc. She would be knowledgable about the duties and responsibilites of a Muslim woman and be humble enough to observe them properly.

1. Current Job Status: Software Developer in an MNC.

2. Do you want kids? Yes InshaAllah

3. List of hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time

Working on side-projects, gaming, reading books and learning about things. Prefer active activities, as opposed to just passively consuming, YouTube videos, for instance. Do enjoy the occasional movie though.

1. Something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out!

Prefer being at home rather than staying out, so, more likely to enjoy home life and family time.

1. What are you looking for in a woman

   A traditional, strictly practicing Muslim woman. One who is aware how significantly important Pardah is and is willing to follow it. Is aware that Islam has made clear that responsibilities of a woman lies in her home and accepts it wholeheartedly. Values modesty and has kept away from free-mixing and unnecessary Non-Mahram interaction.

2. Preferred Method of Contact -

Email bio to mat_2026@proton.me. Kindly follow this format -
https://www.facebook.com/Neera.Rahma123/posts/pfbid02jYvbWz5y1kNqptJ2SpFf6yR7nmqFApSBDzsAc89oBiSQZbfPLzCpFoS2rhNX2f3pl

1. Age, Gender and Height: 28, F, 5'0"

2. Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect: 28-33

3. Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect? NY/NJ Area - not willing to relocate

4. Nationality: American

5. Marital Status: Single

6. Ideal marriage timeline: Within a Year

7. About me: Born and Raised in NJ.

8. Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect- Patient, Understanding, Open-Minded, Religious, Positive Mindset

9. State/specify your level of religiosity: I wear Hijab, pray and only eat Zabiha halal.

10. Level of education, and what are you looking for? I have a Masters in Marketing, looking for Minimum Bachelors / Preferred Masters+

11. Current Job Status: Working as a Senior Planner for a media agency in NYC.

12. Do you want kids? Yes InShaAllah

13. List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time: Try new food places, watch my TV shows, and spend time with my family.

14. Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out! I have a very positive attitude and always try my best to lift people up.

15. What are you looking for in a man/woman - Someone who is serious about taking this next step in their life and is understanding and patient.

16. Preferred Method of Contact (You can add your email address or a throwaway reddit that you would be willing to receive personal messages from)

-Please feel free to message me on here, happy to share information afterwards.

1. Height: 5ft 8+
2. Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect: flexible but ideally shouldnt be older than me (29)

3.Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect?
- would love to meet someone already in Germany/Europe that would save me the entire bureucracy of spouse immigration. 😔

4.Nationality: Bangladeshi

1. Marital Status: Single, never married

2. Ideal Marriage timeline: 1 year

3. About me: Ambivert. I travelled a lot in Europe during my studies and absolutely enjoyed it (would've been more fun with wife/gf though). Politically liberal-left. I would call myself religiously moderate. Loves equal right. More favoritism toward Bengali cultural flow than the Islamist flow. Financially, my family would belong to the middle-class. I have an MSc from DU.

I can cook pretty well by the way (learned a lot in last 2.5 years). If wife wants me to cook, I would cook for her 😊
I used to read books A LOT till, lets say, my college days. And then, like most of us, the attention span collapsed as most of us were investing more time in social media. Was a big fan of Tin Goyenda, and Sci-Fi from Muhammad Zafar Iqbal. Favorite Novels are কালবেলা, সেই সময়, জন-অরণ্য, Metamorphosis, All Quiet on Western Front. Favorite non-fiction is probably Yuval Noah's Sapiens and Dawkin's The Selfish Gene.
I have watched almost all movies in IMDB top 250 movies 🫣. Avid fan of HIMYM and Big Bang Theory.

***🚩 Red flags:***
• I have smoked cigerattes when I was in Bangladesh. Quitted it after coming to Europe.
• Social drinker.

1. Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect:
   • Ambition: I am gonna start my PhD next year. Would love to have someone who is similarly (or more) ambitious than me. I am not looking for a stereotypical housewife.
   • Values: liberal and progressive.
   • Relocation: She must be prepared to relocate to Europe/USA in coming years. I wouldnt settle in Bangladesh unless there is an extraordinary situation.
   • Education: at least bachelors and willing to pursue higher studies abroad. STEM is a plus.
   • Hardship: learning a new European language and adjusting to a new culture is pretty hard. She must be willing to accept that.

State/specify your level of religiosity
Moderate

Do you want kids?
- yes, I love kids.
Preferred method of contact:
- DM on reddit.