r/BangladeshMarriage • u/Big-Fisherman-4267 • 11d ago
29M | BUET Grad, PhD Student in the US | Atheist | Looking for Long-Term Compatibility
Age, Gender, Height, Complexion:
29, Male, 5’8”, dark brown skin complexion
Preferred Age Range:
23–29
Location and Relocation:
Currently based in New York, USA. I plan to remain in the US long-term.
Nationality:
Bangladeshi. Born and raised in Dhaka.
Marital Status:
Never married
Education / Career:
I completed my Bachelors from BUET and am currently pursuing a PhD in a STEM field at an American university. After graduation, I plan to work in the same field.
About Me:
I am somewhat introverted by nature, but I open up around people I feel comfortable with and respect. I enjoy films, books, and thoughtful conversations about art, philosophy, politics, science, and society in general. I value clear communication, honesty, emotional maturity, and intellectual curiosity in a relationship.
Important Characteristics I Am Looking For:
I would be most compatible with someone who:
- Values education and has strong academic or intellectual aspirations
- Believes clear communication is essential for a healthy relationship
- Is intellectually curious and enjoys thinking about big-picture questions
- Enjoys art, film, literature, or similar cultural interests, and likes discussing them
Religiosity:
I am an atheist. I believe this is important to state clearly because compatibility on worldview and values matters in marriage.
Do You Want Kids?
Yes, in the future.
Ideal Marriage Timeline:
Ideally, I am thinking of a timeline of 2+ years, around the time I expect to complete my PhD. I am making this post early because I believe real compatibility is something that becomes clear through long-term interaction, not just through a short biodata or self-description. I would like to get to know someone properly over time before making a serious commitment, and I would appreciate someone who values the same approach.
Preferred Method of Contact:
DM on Reddit
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u/JudgeAdventurous8886 7d ago
I know this isn't a group to discuss religion, but I'd like to know what made you an atheist.
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u/allstarzzlight 7d ago
Ahh holes atleast he is being honest about his skin tone instead of being ashamed of it or dodgy like some of yall 🫶
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u/Individual_Gas_2594 6d ago
Tawhidi Janatas started attacking him for his skin color after knowing he is an atheist.
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u/ProduceUseful9090 3d ago
So why do you want a woman 6yrs younger than you? To control? At 23 no girl would be financially independent in this country. Pretty clear signs of financial abuse setup here. Why not over 29?
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u/anonlooks4friends 1d ago
Its so hard to find non religious people in this country, so glad to know there are some. But alas!! I am childfree.
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u/Business-Finding-598 45m ago
Atheist ei term ta ami bujhte pari na. Agnostic/Deist hote pare keu!! But ateist!!
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