r/transgendercirclejerk • u/eldritchpussymaggots sexterrorist hermaphro-cannibal • 11h ago
Hi space for nonbinary people here is some helpful terminology and such so we can avoid reducing people to their AGAB!
[Long post with good non-gendered shorthand for bodies, transition, hormones, etc, a couple paragraphs reminding people that you can just say words for body parts, not everyone of the same AGAB has the same anatomy, etc, AGAB is social and shouldn't be used to talk about anatomy anyway. Good post, respectful and nuanced]
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u/f7go gender blender 🤹♀️🦄🌽🛸🥊🪇✂️🧪🧽⚧️ 11h ago
It makes me really uncomfortable when people like you try to erase a part of my identity that's really important to me
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u/eldritchpussymaggots sexterrorist hermaphro-cannibal 11h ago
Yeah like fr this is just being the identity police..
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u/spooklemon theycab 11h ago
It's transphobic when you suggest I not refer to other people as afab/amab
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u/DeliciousAnt9096 10h ago
Going on estrogen gave me an AFAB chest
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u/RebelGirl1323 10h ago
It gave me like 3 AFAB chests worth. These bastards could flatten an Amazon warehouse.
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u/eldritchpussymaggots sexterrorist hermaphro-cannibal 11h ago
But what if I want to identify as AFAB
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u/LenaSideways 10h ago
This is a good post, the other thing we really have to bare in mind is that male socialised and female socialised people are just inherently and immutably different and that's why we need to respectfully and non transphobically airways view people primarily based on their gender assigned at birth. Hope this addition helps!
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u/eldritchpussymaggots sexterrorist hermaphro-cannibal 11h ago
What are you supposed to say at the doctor's office
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u/Yes_Its_Really_Me 11h ago edited 8h ago
Here in Australia they've adapted to asking for your ASAB first, while including an optional write in field for your pronouns and gender identity, which I think is a really great and inclusive way of balancing the need for medical accuracy with respect for people's chosen gender.
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u/RebelGirl1323 10h ago
If I have the flu they need to know if I’m a pussy or a hypochondriac. The two sexes.
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u/Zacharytackary 11h ago
/uj i really enjoy using passive voice past perfect modified ‘[organ]’ed people’
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u/eldritchpussymaggots sexterrorist hermaphro-cannibal 11h ago
This is stupid. What else are you supposed to say so everyone knows your sex?
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u/spooklemon theycab 11h ago
If I don't know what your genitals looked like as a newborn, how will I be able to interact with you?
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u/cornunism 4h ago
Right? Like what do they want me to do? Explode? That happens to me sometimes when I don't get to know if someone has (I guess had, if you want to force me to recognize bottom surgery exists) a peenar or vagina
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u/spooklemon theycab 11h ago
Why not just say male or female
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u/eldritchpussymaggots sexterrorist hermaphro-cannibal 11h ago
But I only want to date AMABs, how do I say that?
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u/f7go gender blender 🤹♀️🦄🌽🛸🥊🪇✂️🧪🧽⚧️ 11h ago
easy, just say you're a straight theyfab like I do
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u/The_Modern_Monk 8h ago
ooooo i love this triggered event
have yall updated it to include theymab as well or are we still pretending that the only nonbinary people who are ever invalidated are the ones who do TME-only housing exclusion?
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u/The_Modern_Monk 8h ago
good job! yall fixed it!
this place is officially better for nonbinary people than every other trans subreddit
kind of sad, actually
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u/spooklemon theycab 11h ago
Say you like males (including trans women, bc sex isn't gender)
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u/RebelGirl1323 10h ago
It’s not bigotry to have a preference and reduce people to nothing but my preferences and ignore everything about them as a person outside of my preferences.
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u/spooklemon theycab 7h ago
It's not bigoted to have a preference for REAL men. Just because I want a REAL PENISED MAN instead of some LARPing troon doesn't mean I hate them. Stop forcing us to have sex with you
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u/GingerAndTime Former Cardassian Oppressor 8h ago
That's a lot of words you typed. I didn't read all of them, but I got the gist.
My response is simple: How other people identify is none of your business.
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u/eldritchpussymaggots sexterrorist hermaphro-cannibal 1h ago
/uj jerk so good I almost downvoted it
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u/fireflies315 assigned intersex AFAB AMAB at convenience 3h ago
You’re erasing the language I use to talk about my body and my identity! No I don’t care that the language I’m using doesn’t acknowledge your existence, body or experience. That’s different.
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u/fireflies315 assigned intersex AFAB AMAB at convenience 3h ago
Yeah we shouldn’t have to account for edge cases. You’re too rare. You can’t expect the world to bend to you. *I* can still police your language. But you can’t police mine. Rare rare tiny percentage uncommon outlier rare
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u/eldritchpussymaggots sexterrorist hermaphro-cannibal 1h ago
Yeah this seems like bean soup theory tbh tbh
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u/Hindu_Wardrobe assigned cringe at birth 27m ago
that's great and all but
are you a boy nonbinary or a girl nonbinary
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