r/r4rmontreal Oct 31 '25

Moderator Updates F4M Telegram bot notice NSFW

62 Upvotes

Hi all,

There's been another uptick on telegram bots flooding the channel. We've been banning them as they appear, so far about a dozen or so accounts.

A few tips to spot them:

  • They typically use stolen accounts that are 2-4 years old. They also have a post history in bug subreddits.

  • They have an AI vibe about how they're written. They are vague in what they want or offer. It's never the same so we can't filter for them.

  • They never tell you where they are, not even a vague idea. And if they can host or not. That's the biggest red flag.

Please flag these posts as you spot them. We are taking them down as we spot them.

Thanks.


r/r4rmontreal Oct 11 '25

Virtual 31 F4M - Reflections on using R4R as a F4M poster NSFW

80 Upvotes

I’m writing today to share my personal experiences and thoughts about r4rmontreal as a F4M poster. I’ve asked the mods to lock the comments and instead link the discord for anybody wishing to have further conversations.

For context, I posted an ad about a year ago now. I’ve since deleted that account but here are some screenshots.

Initially when I posted it I was just being pretty honest about what I wanted to find. I knew it’d probably be popular but what I didn’t expect was for it to become one of the top posts on the subreddit of all time nor was I expecting to find such a high success rate in terms of the connections I found. It was also a big learning experience for me that really changed how I see this platform as well as modern dating/hookup culture in general.

I hope by writing this I can share my observations from the past year since then and pass on some tips that I think were crucial for finding good matches in the process. I’ve met up with three guys since that post. Each of them has been, in my opinion, a success. All of them came from the one post.

I think especially for women posting here it can be very intimidating and there isn’t much advice on how to manage especially since even just posting here at all is so stigmatized you probably can’t just turn to your bestie and admit you posted on r4r. I’m writing it as a guide but please understand these are just my thoughts & opinions based on my experiences not a one size fits all approach.

I also wanna acknowledge what I write might sound like common sense especially in some sections. That’s because it should be. But it took me until my 30s to find it so I have to guess I’m not the only one.

I’m also writing this as a thank you for all the guys who wrote very nice responses (NOT the guys who wrote terrible or low effort responses) to my post but never got a reply. We’ll get into it later but suffice to say the response to a F4M post is overwhelming. I can’t fix the imbalance on this platform as one person so instead what I’ll say is I came back to share so that maybe other women can benefit and become more comfortable here while staying safe.

Because it’s so fucking long I broke it up into separate posts on my profile, hope someone finds it helpful:


r/r4rmontreal 2h ago

Friends with benefits 29 F4MM i want a threesome with two older men NSFW

5 Upvotes

Looking for 2 older strong men to take care of me
Im 5"1,petite build, long brown hair
I can host depending on the day and time so please be able to host or get us a hotel.
I drink and i smoke so I'm sure we'll have a good time
When u msg me plz give me a description of yourself instead of just saying "hi"


r/r4rmontreal 1h ago

IRL today 39 M4A fun in Vaudreuil today NSFW

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Looking for have some fun today. I’m off work and can host in Vaudreuil area
I’m in the mood for a nice anal session so if you want to get your ass fucked by a nice 7” cock no strings. dm me.
Open to femboys and trans F aswell


r/r4rmontreal 2h ago

IRL today 23 M4M nouveau à montréal NSFW

2 Upvotes

Je viens d'aménager à Montréal et j'aimerais vraiment me trouver un beau gars musclé avec une grosse queue afin de le worship et le sucer (peut-être plus). Je vais pouvoir recevoir dans quelque jours, mais d'ici là il faudrait que tu sois capable d'host🔥


r/r4rmontreal 3h ago

38 M4F Older thinking for younger to corrupt NSFW

2 Upvotes

Older daddy looking for younger to corrupt. I know you have always been into older men. The confidence, the power dynamic, the nurturing, gentle guiding hand.

20+

You get a mature, accomplished daddy, I get a young, mouldable plaything

Win win


r/r4rmontreal 3h ago

27 CD4A respectful/kinky NSFW

2 Upvotes

Hey 27 yo Crossdresser here , looking for someone that is respectful and kinky/horny to explore and have fun . I can host but prefer if you do . Dm me only if interested please I dont answer “hey” msgs and ill stop answering if i feel you are not interested , I’m a very nice person i just dont like to waste time. You have to be down to 🍺/☘️ or at least fine with me being drunk/stoned.


r/r4rmontreal 23m ago

IRL next few days 31 M4F looking for hot bbw NSFW

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Is it a kink? Idk but I always feel like the curvier the better. Bonus points for milfs.

Be clean respectful and down to talk text and meet for fun if we click. I will do the same

I’m on the bigger side down there I’m sure you ll will enjoy if you re a size queen. And yeah above 6ft tall


r/r4rmontreal 43m ago

Friends with benefits 40 M4F Wanting to have Pornstar Like Sex again NSFW

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About me 40M, semi-active (semi dad bod), educated, working professional, short king. Looking for one woman in a similar situation to the one I'm in...

- Wanting to re-ignite your libido

- Crave sex like you used to in your 20s

- Place max effort like you used to, not cum and go.

- Go back to the days of giving partners the best sex of your life


r/r4rmontreal 59m ago

27 M4M kinky soft safe fun NSFW

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27 M hairy dad bod muscular. Bi-curious and Looking to explore some safe/fun kinks like sniffing, dry humping, mutual jerking, armpits, etc. Looking for someone clean and discreet that can host in Montreal.
Open to all ages 25-55


r/r4rmontreal 1h ago

23 M4F looking for a grandma NSFW

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Looking for a gilf preferably 50+ that would like to ride a young guy. I am 5’10 and fit. I have a thing for older women and would like to explore more that fantasy. They’re just a turn on for me. I can drive to you if we click. Don’t be shy, send me a message 😉


r/r4rmontreal 1h ago

35 M4F Lets Make out somewhere quiet NSFW

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Looking to make out with a complete stranger, we meet up somewhere quiet downtown, passionately make out and part ways.

Open to maybe more if the vibe is there but the fantasy is really making out with a complete stranger.

DM are open.

Im 35, M 250lbs 6ft and have been told i am a great kisser.

Lets chat!

No men please.

All ages welcome ( 18+ ) i have a soft spot for blue or green eyes.


r/r4rmontreal 1h ago

IRL next few days 26 M4F Fist me NSFW

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**REPOSTING BECAUSE I HAVEN’T FOUND ANYONE YET AND THE ORIGINAL PERSON INTERESTED STOPPED RESPONDING**

Hi horny redditors!

Me again!

This time with a very specific request. Im a very kinky individual, i would consider myself really switch, leaning on the submissive side and im looking to achieve a fantasy ive had for a very very long time: being fisted

Im a huge anal play enthousiast: i love pegging, dildos and i can even fist myself, but ive never been fisted by someone else. I tried with someone else before but it never worked and we stopped seeing each other but i would love to renew the experience with someone who will want to take their time with me to warm up, get in the mood and have a good time while doing it!

About me: im 26, im a professional athlete, im a funny, respectful, clean, DDF and down to earth guy that i would say is pretty easy to talk to and have fun with!

About you? : just be a women, have conversation, and want it as much as i do, thats all i ask!

Please dm me, i can’t wait to meet you!❤️


r/r4rmontreal 1h ago

IRL today 28 M4F in need of something,not sure what NSFW

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hey,28M,was dating a girl for the last few weeks,she was amasing,the most beautifull eyes i saw on this earth,lovely as a rose,but there was thorns as well,she ended her last relationship before we met but the ex is toxic and made me death threath that if i was continuing to talk to her,something "bad" could happen to me,and she decided that it would be better if we stopped talking.

i'm not sure what i want after that,do i want a rebound? do i need to talk? or do i just need someone to give me attention? im lost,hurt and yeah dont know what to do...

help me...


r/r4rmontreal 2h ago

38 M4F - Married seeking entanglement NSFW

1 Upvotes

38, tall, dark, and handsome.

The spark disappeared long ago, two great kids, nice house, good friends, hobbies, all that but something is still missing.

The thrill of falling, flirting, getting to really know someone.

Summer is a great time to start something new. Maybe get into a little trouble…


r/r4rmontreal 6h ago

26 M4F Looking for pee play NSFW

2 Upvotes

Hey! Bit of a shot in the dark; I’m looking for pee play/watersports with a woman (trans welcome). Ideally I’d drink straight from the source.

I’m a switch when it comes to pee so I wouldn’t mind what the dynamic would be.

I can’t host so it would have to be at your place. I’m also down to grab a drink and have a conversation before.


r/r4rmontreal 3h ago

32 M4M looking for mutual first time with another guy NSFW

1 Upvotes

Looking for someone who is passing through the city for work or something and staying at a hotel.

I have never been with another guy but always curious. Looking for someone else who is the same. Never done anything else with a guy but wants to explore it too.

Prefer someone 35+ but prefer older. Don't care about height, weight or dick size. Just really want someone who is like me and never done anything.

I would like to touch each other, give and receive oral and anal and just go slow exploring.

DM me if you are interested. Please no one from the city just people passing through.


r/r4rmontreal 9h ago

IRL today 27 F4M Free right now saint hubert NSFW

3 Upvotes

looking for a man to come and use me Infront of my husband right now, were hosting in saint hubert. message me with your height, nationality, cock size and how long it would take you to get to saint hubert, check profile for latest pictures


r/r4rmontreal 18h ago

IRL today 29 TF4A trans girl looking to suck uncut NSFW

7 Upvotes

You MUST be uncut and shaved smooth.

Have good hygiene, be clean and respectful. Prefer younger/twink types. Open to any gender.

Message me with your age, stats, pics, etc.
I will not send pics first - this is for my safety and privacy.

29, white, 5’11”, tattooed, dyed hair, trans girl, single


r/r4rmontreal 8h ago

IRL next few days 24 F4TF/F - looking for ladies to hang out with or frequent NSFW

1 Upvotes

Hello/Bonjour

I was in the village the other day and god you ladies are stunning. I’m a slim, 5’7, black , bi, cis woman and would love to get to know or frequent a trans lady. I love to read, game, rave, do beauty things and frequent nature spots. I’m down to do anything from going for drinks, watching a movie or dolling up together and dancing all night :). Any ladies between 24-36 is welcome.

Please dm me with your stats and we can exchange pictures to see if we vibe.

Je suis bilingue aussi

Thank you :))


r/r4rmontreal 21h ago

26 F4M sub looking for Daddy NSFW

9 Upvotes

Hey!

I’m looking for a Daddydom who could help introduce me further into the BDSM world. I’ve always been really drawn to this kind of dynamic (Dom/sub), but I’ve never really had the chance to fully explore that side of myself.

I’m generally pretty shy and reserved. BBW — so don’t be afraid of curves! 😉

Big weakness for dad bods!

DM me 🥰

Engish/french

Hey!
Je suis à la recherche d’un Daddydom qui pourrait m’amener d’avantage dans le monde du BDSM. J’ai toujours été très attirée parce ce genre de dynamique (Dom/sub) mais j’ai jamais pus exploiter ce côté de moi à 100%.

Je suis généralement quelqu’un d’assez gênée et réservée. BBW, faut pas que tu ailles peur des curves! 😉

Gros faible pour les dadbods!

Dm moi 🥰


r/r4rmontreal 9h ago

41 M4TF Big uncut cock, good looking, seeing sexy 18-29 TF to worship and suck on it NSFW

1 Upvotes

Just as the title says, I'm 41, quite good looking, take great care of myself. I'm looking for a TF who is between 18-29. I am naturally dominant and I want you to be the type to want to be submissive on your knees in front of me, licking, sucking and swallowing as you are told to. I leak a lot of precum, so you need to enjoy milking and sucking it out.

I have a long, thick uncut cock and have a borderline fetish for watching sexy sluts suck on it. Clean shaved, immaculate hygene. I expect the same. Your move.


r/r4rmontreal 10h ago

24 M4TF arabe cute looking looking for night fun with cute tf NSFW

0 Upvotes

hey there 24 yo arabe here arabe asian mix fit and tall cute looking, calm and friendly, well hung mostly into anything, looking for a massage receiveing if its not an issue, also i can’t host so it will be helpful if u do, looking for now if thats possible


r/r4rmontreal 10h ago

IRL next few days 27 M4FB any femboy who wants their ass eat or dick sucked NSFW

0 Upvotes

I have a huge fantasy of wanting to worship a fembou a lot lately and eat their ass give eat and i rub their feet so if any one is interested hit me up

Plz no masc men im not into masc men i will ignore you


r/r4rmontreal 10h ago

22 M4F looking to have someone over during the week ;) NSFW

1 Upvotes

As title says, I host and looking to see if people want to come over, we watch a movie and just enjoy the night. I'm a 22 year old bisexual guy, living in rosemont near Joliette metro, im 6ft, slightly on the skinny side but somewhat average build with a bwc 😉 .

looking for someone that can handle a yapper, just send a dm and we can start chatting, ill send photos in dms, profile is blank