r/monodatingpoly • u/AltruisticChard3998 • 8d ago

Asymmetrical non-monogamy? Struggling with this as a mono

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u/PurpleIsAWayOfLife 8d ago

Yeah, it's not an easy thing. We have to do all the same work, with none of the "benefits" and the additional work isn't always easy and it's not like monogamy. Is there something specific you are struggling with?

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u/n0damsel 8d ago

I can't see your post ma'am (I think you're a ma'am?). But looking at the comments, the situation is bad. If what you wrote aligns with a gross, one sided, harem building, then I agree with most of the others.