I love the thought that others desire my partner.

[u/SinghAwayLion]

Honest in a relationship is top for me. I think we all have desire, thoughts, fantasy which most suppress. The fear of judgement.

I a open relationship we are free to explore, express our thoughts. That for me is strength and foundation that can't be destroyed.

Although I don't have those feelings of jealousy, attachment, control which sometimes makes me look cold and she feels like I don't love her. This is far from the truth.

By the way I am a one woman one life guy but I understand the makeup of human life. Which destroys us slowly. This also hurts her

[u/Platterpussy]

I don't understand what you are looking for with this post. Does your wife want to date others but finds your lack of jealousy uncomfortable?

[u/Akatsuki2001]

If your partner is being destroyed by this, and can’t accept / doesn’t like it. It’s not a “foundation that can’t be destroyed” it’s you doing what you want at the cost of weakening the relationship.

It takes no strength to do as you have done. It’s the opposite in fact.

[u/roryleary]

You are cold and you don't love her

[u/SinghAwayLion → u/roryleary]

I'm just free from the things that destroy things, I love buy showing that she is the only one I desire. Deep down she knows but would to hear it.

Fair point you made

[u/SinghAwayLion]

Mediation is my answer to any thoughts of ever destroying anyones life. I have no expectations, judgemental thoughts towards our openness.

We have our roles in our family structure top of the list is respect.

However like your view.

[u/Additional-Owl7216]

Other guys lusting after one's wife is hot. No doubt about it. It is indicative of high mate value and suggests you chose well. When I suggested my wife persue her romantic options she said "Watch out, I'm the sort who is exclusive to only one man", which was enough to cool me down on the idea.

[u/SinghAwayLion]

Never searching, Im at peace with things... Sharing thoughts isn't a crime