r/infj • u/[deleted] • Mar 07 '16

Question: Any INFJ:INFJ couple here?

Could you please share the good things about your relationship? I just imagine it would be an interesting life journey.

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u/mirror_effect Mar 07 '16

INFJ - INFJ relationships are amazing, or in my case, it was for me. He's a 2w1 and I scored 5w6 and 6w5 (percentages were off by 0.1, so I consider myself both). Our conversations were never dull. We would strongly share our opinions to one another regarding documentaries, films, politics, religion, philosophy, art, existentialism, sex, etc. We strived to understand each other, rather than judge and believed in personal growth. In the beginning, we skipped much of the dating formalities by opening up and sharing details about ourselves that most people would be apprehensive about. In other words, we were mutually straight forward. At times, our passion was intense in respect to how comfortable we were with one another. Surprisingly, we were a good match; however, as much as we had in common, we were also different. I'm a night owl and he's an early bird. This made communication difficult due to the distance and time difference, which eventually caused me to push him away. I felt selfish that I was with a wonderful person who I couldn't hold, kiss, or be there for him when he needed me. I had the feeling that he deserved to be with someone who could. Therefore, I ended the long distance relationship. Shortly after, he began dating and is now in a new relationship. I genuinely hope he's happy; he deserves to be.

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u/[deleted] Mar 07 '16

The compatibility you described was beautiful. I hope this post wasn't a hurtful nostalgia--and if it was, I apologize. Thank you very much for sharing.

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u/mirror_effect Mar 07 '16

Thank you. :)