r/infj • u/kagedrage INFJ • Jun 05 '14

INFJ / INFJ couples?

Curious to know if anyone's tried it. Thoughts of all kinds are welcome.

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u/Tubazilla INFJ M Jun 05 '14 edited Jun 05 '14

It. Is. So. Much. Fun! She is my soulmate. She instantly "knows" what I "mean", and visa versa. It's a match made in heaven. We can talk about a huge range of topics. I don't have to explain my thoughts. Well... sometimes we make large leaps the other couldn't follow. It's really nice having someone to share silence with. So yeah... I can't wait to marry this woman. :) (I might be able to explain this better after I have some sleep.)

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u/electric_dolphin Jun 05 '14

How long have you two been together?

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u/Tubazilla INFJ M Jun 05 '14

2 years now? We've known each other for a total of 8.

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u/Instinct1230 INFJ Sorcerer Nov 06 '22

Should be a decade now, no? Hope all is well. What more insight could you give us? Did you both eventually get married? How do you reflect back to origins of your relationship and were you both were at in life at the time? Do you agree with the "modern" "self-love first" advice that commonly gets thrown around, or do you think that can blindside you/us of being vulnerable and humble?