r/infj • u/kagedrage INFJ • Jun 05 '14

INFJ / INFJ couples?

Curious to know if anyone's tried it. Thoughts of all kinds are welcome.

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u/themorningmoon 28/F/INFJ dating 26/M/INFJ Jun 05 '14

I second what others have said - in my experience, it has been WONDERFUL. I don't feel like I have to explain myself; we just kind of get each other. We can have long, deep conversations or just share silence together. Even when we "fight," we've never ended up screaming at each other or even really been truly at odds...we work together to come to an agreement, or peacefully agree to disagree, because we can usually see the other's point of view. I'm a highly sensitive person as well, and he understands that, and helps me talk through my emotions. Or just holds me when I can't.

TL;DR: 10/10, would date an INFJ again (but I certainly hope I never have to find another - I plan on keeping this one!)