r/infj • u/DeadMage INFJ/M/25 • Oct 21 '13
The extremely rare INFJ-INFJ relationship.
Currently, I am pseudo-seeing (because its complicated) a girl who happens to be an INFJ, just like me.
This match is almost unheard of due to a variety of reasons; the extremely low population statistics from INFJs being the rarest type, how it contradicts the idea of "opposites attract," and how INFJs commitment tendencies make them even more difficult to come by on the dating market.
Upon meeting eachother, we quickly realized that we are EXTREMELY compatible. Its the type of compatibility where you almost immediately feel like you've known the other for years, being able to talk about almost anything together and intuitively understand what the other is feeling or thinking.
Has anyone else had any experience with INFJ-INFJ relationships? Is it possible that this pairing may actually be the best for INFJs in general? What's YOUR opinion on the matter?
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u/rubaaaaa Aug 28 '23
I just asked my best friend today what MBTI she was because I recently started getting interested in the traits system and she is an INFJ. To say I was fucking surprised is an understatement. We barely talk to each other because we enjoy our personal space, but whenever we do hangout, there’s no tension, it’s like we know everything about each other. I always feel so comfortable with her and it just made me realize how special INFJ pairings are if you both share the same interests. I know the main thing I kept hearing was if you have different views, it can be hard to get over that hurdle if the topic means a lot of the both of you. But as you said that you guys seem to be so similar, I think this is the best outcome!