r/infj • u/DeadMage INFJ/M/25 • Oct 21 '13
The extremely rare INFJ-INFJ relationship.
Currently, I am pseudo-seeing (because its complicated) a girl who happens to be an INFJ, just like me.
This match is almost unheard of due to a variety of reasons; the extremely low population statistics from INFJs being the rarest type, how it contradicts the idea of "opposites attract," and how INFJs commitment tendencies make them even more difficult to come by on the dating market.
Upon meeting eachother, we quickly realized that we are EXTREMELY compatible. Its the type of compatibility where you almost immediately feel like you've known the other for years, being able to talk about almost anything together and intuitively understand what the other is feeling or thinking.
Has anyone else had any experience with INFJ-INFJ relationships? Is it possible that this pairing may actually be the best for INFJs in general? What's YOUR opinion on the matter?
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u/neversaynever0304 infj Oct 22 '13
I met an INFJ male several years ago and it was a remarkable connection for as brief as it seemed. Several years later our paths cross and we find ourselves divorced. Dilemma? Introverts are lousy on initiating conversation and both of us find ourselves too much alike in this area to connect easily. We've been working at this for months to no avail and I believe he may have given up completely at this point:( I believe it would be the most amazing relationship. 'Sigh'