r/infj • u/DeadMage INFJ/M/25 • Oct 21 '13
The extremely rare INFJ-INFJ relationship.
Currently, I am pseudo-seeing (because its complicated) a girl who happens to be an INFJ, just like me.
This match is almost unheard of due to a variety of reasons; the extremely low population statistics from INFJs being the rarest type, how it contradicts the idea of "opposites attract," and how INFJs commitment tendencies make them even more difficult to come by on the dating market.
Upon meeting eachother, we quickly realized that we are EXTREMELY compatible. Its the type of compatibility where you almost immediately feel like you've known the other for years, being able to talk about almost anything together and intuitively understand what the other is feeling or thinking.
Has anyone else had any experience with INFJ-INFJ relationships? Is it possible that this pairing may actually be the best for INFJs in general? What's YOUR opinion on the matter?
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u/Gabcab Oct 22 '13
I am an INFJ who is engaged to another INFJ, and we have never been happier! We met online, and when I finally visited her it was like we'd always known each other. After three months I proposed, and then we moved in together - we have been living together now for over a year, and we are still very much in love. Yay!
We didn't know we were both INFJs until we had moved in together, if that is relevant