r/hypersexuality • u/Dangerous_One_9597 NO DM's • 10d ago

Advice wanted Getting chat requests NSFW

I recently made a post and soon after got chat requests out of nowhere. One was asking how am I and how old I was, and the other was more inappropriate. I chose not to accept the requests and just move on.

It seems this is a recurring issue within this subreddit. I feel a bit angry, but also sad. I'm angry because of how predatory it is to target specifically people in this subreddit. I'm also sad because it sort of reminds me of my own past creepy behavior. I kind of feel like I deserve it and don't deserve to have an issue with it

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u/Enigmatic_writer DM's open no sexting. 10d ago

Use the "NO DMS" flair. You'll get a few less, but in the end you're always gonna have that in lotsa NSFW subreddits.

Especially if people think you're a woman / you tell them that. The week I had my gender in my flair I got ambushed by like 50 people in a few days lol.

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u/Dangerous_One_9597 NO DM's 10d ago

Thank you. I didn't realize that was an option. I'm sorry that happened.

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u/myinnerhoe DM's open 10d ago

Don’t be surprised if it still happens. People stumble on the sub all the time, assume the wrong thing and don’t read the rules.

But hopefully it happens less for you now

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u/Dangerous_One_9597 NO DM's 10d ago

Thank you.