r/hypersexuality NO DM's 10d ago

Advice wanted Getting chat requests NSFW

I recently made a post and soon after got chat requests out of nowhere. One was asking how am I and how old I was, and the other was more inappropriate. I chose not to accept the requests and just move on.

It seems this is a recurring issue within this subreddit. I feel a bit angry, but also sad. I'm angry because of how predatory it is to target specifically people in this subreddit. I'm also sad because it sort of reminds me of my own past creepy behavior. I kind of feel like I deserve it and don't deserve to have an issue with it

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u/ASK_66 DM's open A/S/L 10d ago

You do not deserve the creepy ppl here and this sub is not a safe space at all because of them. I am very sorry you are experiencing this

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u/Dangerous_One_9597 NO DM's 10d ago

Thank you. The messages didn't phase me that much. It sort of just gave a reflection of how my past actions could've made others feel.

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u/ASK_66 DM's open A/S/L 10d ago

That is fair. I also have a issue reflecting sometimes about my „horny behaviour“ ig I just don’t worry about theory of mind that much then..