assuming someone who is very clearly joking is a TERF because of experiences you've had with unrelated TERFs is what I am saying is the problem. She's kidding and it doesn't matter if some other asshole is being hateful... you dont get to take her joke as face value because others have been hateful.
And, you are rebutting with something entirely different. If an individual says something racist, dimiss them. That makes sense! But if someone tells the same joke as a racist, but has otherwise not been racist, you dont declare the joke racist too.
So you think it's your job to police lesbians joking about a very common lesbian experience in a way that does not offend cis men?in defense of trans women, an entirely different group who have nothing to do with butch women and cis men and do not present on a way that would be confused otherÂ
This is the worst most homophobic advocacy ever. You're defending nobody but falling over yourself to attack lesbiansÂ
No. Youâre just a bad person who looks to defend shitty behaviour hiding behind a joke.
If a guy âjokedâ that men shouldnât have long hair because they get them confused for a woman Iâd say the same thing. Which is something Iâve seen happen and is actually very much something men have been harassed for.
Youâre just trying to hide behind jokes to push and reinforce gender norms. Which btw very much would have to do with cis men and ESPECIALLY butch women which is LITERALLY an example of pushing against gender norms.
Youâre admitting you think long hair is a feminine trait and therefore itâs okay to joke about men doing it. Then turn around and claim people who donât feel pushing gender norms should be something to joke about are attacking groups whose identity is tied to breaking those very gender normsâŚ
You think itâs okay for a guy to joke about butch women are men? I donât. But you seem to think going the other way is fine.
Whatâs funny about the original video is their over reaction, not necessarily the content of their joke. I donât think the person in the original video actually cares that much about whether men have long hair.
No it's just funny when you see someone from behind and get excited that they look just like the type of person you're into and when they turn around they are completely not. Lighten the fuck up, the people harassing you are assholes, she isn't harassing anyone she is just giving an obvious overreaction to that feeling a lot of us have had.
She isn't actually telling people what to do with their body you lunatic. Chill the fuck out.
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u/AllsWellThatsNB 11d ago
Who says I am? I judge them by their own actions.
Typically, when a stranger makes a sexist comment, it's reasonable to dismiss them. It's not any less pathetic because she's queer.