I do find it interesting that some lesbians are attracted to masc women and want to be pounded by a strap-on but are not attracted to masc men with actual dicks.
No offense intended just genuinely think itās interesting.
As a gay man who is into all types of men, including feminine men, it's just different. Gender is more than just your sense of style. A feminine man is still a man, and a masculine woman is still a woman.
Because they are masc WOMEN. Guess whatās under their clothes? Hint: itās not a dick. It might surprise you, but most lesbians donāt even use ārealisticā looking dildos. They find them DISGUSTING.
Straight men canāt fathom that there is a group of women who would rather die then sleep with a man. And thatās why you end up with āinnocentā or ānot offensiveā line of thinking/question.
I mean sometimes lesbians have natal dicks too and thats fine as well. Lesbians don't find them disgusting as a rule, that's just people who find dicks disgusting.
I mean most sexual dimorphism isn't super visible from behind, espeically as humans have gotten chubbier.Ā If the person turns around and they immediately want to nope out, then clealry they're not attracted to men.Ā
Also strap on and dicks are not really similar, and there's nothing that the "real" thing really has doing for it? People are generally going to be into their partners genitals, but outside of the fact it's attached to their partner..... I've never gotten the impression women are into dicks the way men are.Ā
Lesbians have significantly higher rates of orgasm than straight women. A lot of straight women openly lament being straight because of the gap. As a group....men are not remotely perceived as being good at sex among women.Ā
Attraction is complex! And a masculine woman with a strap-on (or an actual penis) is just different to a man. I'm a lesbian married to a trans woman (who hasn't had surgery), plenty of transphobes and/or TERFy lesbians would say I'm not really a lesbian, but I've never been attracted to people who identify as men. It just is what it is! I do agree that it's interesting, and it's not offensive as long as people don't jump to weird conclusions about other people's sexualities or genders just because they don't 'get it.'
Thank you itās all kind of an enigma for me because when I was a kid it was just like āpeople are either straight, gay, or biā which is obviously a massive oversimplification of a nuanced topic.
Obviously theres more to attraction than naughty parts, that being said I'm sure some of them are like straight men who go with any holes the goal when horny enough.
I think it's statically uncommon enough we shouldn't be implying to men there's a chance, espeically since sexual harassment of lesbians is not anywhere remotely as rareĀ
Thinking about it a more apt way to have said it is, that some people regardless of other factors are situationally Bi-sexual. People will sexually harass one another regardless if they have a chance or not.
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u/enchiladasundae 11d ago
Well theyāre masc, could be hot and they might like women. Tick a few boxes