They way they’re saying “I have two of my own.” Is straight up bull shit because I have friends that adopt and they treat their adopted son the same as their biological son. Fuck these shit faces
Notice the way they laugh and act inconvenienced by the very idea of adoption too? These ladies will beg you to keep a kid, then the second it pops out they tell you it’s your fault you can’t feed yourself or the kid. My mom is pro-birth. I told her I have always wanted to adopt, thinking she would be proud of me. She pitched a fit she will never have a “real grand baby”. These people don’t care about kids, they care about making sure a woman is punished for having sex. They want impoverished single mothers to turn their noses up at because it makes them feel holier than thou.
Also I don’t understand why parents have the audacity to ask for grand children. This is not about them, its about you as a parent and the kids. I could not care less about you wanting grand children.
Or what is the grandma and grandpa going to raise the child? Feed them? Clean them? Pay for all the stuff they need? I assure you they will be the first to say that’s your responsibility. It is. But don’t come asking me for grand children when they wont be your responsibility. They don’t want grand children, they want a new toy to play with and then give back to the owners when they are bored with it.
The bride and groom should start replying with “are you going to give me money to provide for them? Are you going to raise them? What’s that? No? Then kindly stop asking questions about things that are none of your business”
Then it turns into “why can’t you get your degree while being a good single mother” which then turns into “ why’re you in so much debt, your dad paid for all of our family with just a high school degree.” There’s always something you’re doing wrong in their eyes.
You know what my mother told me she would do to me if I got pregnant too young? Throw me out in the streets with only “my” belongings (things I bought without her help). I said so you’re going to leave a kid and a newborn in the cold with nothing? What if we froze to death? Doesn’t matter, it’s my fault. This is the “pro-life” crowd. They don’t care about you or the potential child, the point is they want you to suffer [for having sex].
It's fine if someone is pro-birth, I'll honestly admit i am more pro-birth but the morals should be clear, if the women is not comfortable with getting pregnant then don't do it like if my wife wants adoption, i am fine with that coz I love her and wouldn't put her through a 9mo pain but if she's fine with getting pregnant, there's no problem then, understanding that adoption shouldn't be seen in a wrong light, it's a responsibility like any other
….just kind of want to point out I say “pro-birth” because I’m mocking “pro-life”. The pro-life crowd isn’t actually pro life, they are pro forced birth. I think if the same people that claimed to be “pro-life”, as I hope you meant to, want to actually stop abortions, they would support policies and programs that helped mothers and their children once they are born. They would support sex education and birth control would be easily accessible for anyone. They would NOT stand outside planned parenthood’s and scream at vulnerable women in need of healthcare.
I totally took that wrong and didn't realise it was so complicated in the country, i am not from U.S. and was not that aware, i was just referring to one's choice of birth kids or adopted kids and not hinder the morals for other one
Maybe you see more of the people outside the planned parenthood because reddit is pro choice and the most obnoxious will always be more prominent than normal people. I remember a time when my local catholic church passed out baby bottles to be filled with spare change for a charity for young mothers, but that wouldn't make reddit's front page, would it? Neither would the church passing out letters to Santa for poor families. (I think one year it was actually for adult immigrant families, but more classically for children) Would you click on that reddit link?
Does your Catholic Church that’s filling baby bottles with nickels and dimes offer the community safe sexual education? No? Only abstinence programs? Do they hand out condoms or birth control? No? They believe that’s a sin? When the child is born, do they provide free childcare so the mother can work/pursue a career? Then gee, I guess they do absolutely nothing to prevent these vulnerable women from having children in the first place, but good thing they have some change! Do they let them keep the bottle it comes in too?
Look at every single one of their facial expressions. They are ashamed of themselves because they know they are caught being hypocrites. How is being pissed at them not warranted here?
I think I'm not understanding what is going on in this video. They are "protesting" (advocating) to "choose adoption". Yes they are Boomers with children but that doesn't negate the fact that ever increasing population will continue to have a severe detrimental effect on the earth while at the same time the foster system is in shambles and it's just about impossible to adopt a child unless you're wealthy.
So they are trying to get ppl more aware that adoption should be a choice.
Idk it just seems like a big "much ado about nothing" to me? But Reddit loves that shit so oh well..
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u/Euphori333 Jan 27 '22
They way they’re saying “I have two of my own.” Is straight up bull shit because I have friends that adopt and they treat their adopted son the same as their biological son. Fuck these shit faces