r/confessions • u/Negative-Analyst-620 • 1d ago

Bad friend

My friend got engaged to a guy that is so icky and I’ve literally lost respect for her. I know I don’t know the whole story and people can be sneaky or whatever but I feel like the warning signs are laid out in plain sight. I try to live by the ‘not my circus not my monkeys’ but now I just don’t really respect her or care about the problems she keeps coming to me with because you picked it

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u/orbitthrowawayv2 1d ago

You are basically just watching a slow motion car crash and waiting for the inevitable insurance claim at this point. It is honestly exhausting to watch people ignore red flags that are large enough to be seen from orbit.

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u/Negative-Analyst-620 1d ago

I put a lot of effort into supportive responses to these problems, which I know she can see if she’s bringing them up. I hope I’m not right, but marrying someone youv known l for half a year max and never lived with that does all these red flag things is really stupid. I hate to be mean but it’s just dumb