Bad friend

[u/Negative-Analyst-620]

My friend got engaged to a guy that is so icky and I’ve literally lost respect for her. I know I don’t know the whole story and people can be sneaky or whatever but I feel like the warning signs are laid out in plain sight. I try to live by the ‘not my circus not my monkeys’ but now I just don’t really respect her or care about the problems she keeps coming to me with because you picked it

[u/regular_john2017]

That’s fair. You’ll eventually lose touch with this friend anyways and none of these opinions will matter.

[u/warlikefunction9 → u/regular_john2017]

Might matter more than you think when she needs you after it falls apart, though.

[u/Negative-Analyst-620 → u/warlikefunction9]

Also true, people have to live their own lives but coming to me to complain all the time (about valid things) is exhausting and then ask if I want to go out with the two of them …. I don’t think some people hear themselves sometimes