r/confessions • u/Negative-Analyst-620 • 1d ago

Bad friend

My friend got engaged to a guy that is so icky and I’ve literally lost respect for her. I know I don’t know the whole story and people can be sneaky or whatever but I feel like the warning signs are laid out in plain sight. I try to live by the ‘not my circus not my monkeys’ but now I just don’t really respect her or care about the problems she keeps coming to me with because you picked it

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u/theboilingstandstill 1d ago

You can't force someone to see what you see, and staying friends while resenting her choices is gonna poison things anyway, so might as well be honest with yourself about where this is headed.

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u/Negative-Analyst-620 1d ago

Yeah I’ve distanced myself from it a lot, I think that’ll naturally happen as lives go their separate ways