hi ^_^ I’m a midwestern belle with a balance of being a city girl, who’s looking for her CF partner in crime.

About Me
•cardiac ultrasound student (3rd semester) - this will be my 2nd degree and then i will be working towards my third within the next 1-2 yrs.
•sterilized (got my bisalp at 24)
•server
•avid lover of the arts, music, architecture, and literature
•democratic socialist/left leaning
•i love video games
•cat lover (must ❤️ cats!)
•i love to write and sing
•lover of travel (i have my first solo trip coming up in july)

What I Am Looking For
I’m looking for a partner, who will understand it’s us vs the problem - not us vs. each other. someone who’s kind, considerate, intellectual, holds depth, has the capacity to handle me. Someone who has worked through their shadow and made friends with their demons, as I have. I also date older so i’m looking for someone 30-35+.

Your qualities would include:
-stability
-intelligence
-generosity
-kink friendly
-left leaning (aligning politics is a must for me)
-mutual attraction
-not a stickler for height, but please be taller than me still because i love heels :)
-as stated before, a cat lover.
-please have a vasectomy.

Though i’m busy throughout my week, i enjoy slow saturday and sunday mornings :) i wish to have a beautiful garden where i can sit and talk to my love over a cup of hot coffee with our cats running around and traveling to any and every place our little heart desires. this is such a long shot, but i’m willing to give it a try. Though i try to stay away from certain gender roles, i do like men who enjoy providing for their partners (i understand that’s not everyone’s cup of tea 😊).

the rest you will have to find out!

Looking for a long-term relationship, it ain't easy out there when everyone on the apps has or wants kids. I'm pretty active, touch rugby season just ended and I'll be moving onto volleyball soon. I go to the gym regularly and run with my dog while out adventuring together. At home I spend most of my time playing games on my PC. I dabble in a bit of creative writing for the tabletop RPGs I run or play. When I have the time I go camping or do a bit of kayaking with mates. I'm a mental health worker, and successful enough in my career to own my own home which in Australia's fucked housing market is a blessing. Naturally I'm a progressive Greens voter. I'm living a pretty happy life, but it could be better! If I had someone to share it with.

I am 25 years old Male looking for a female relationship in eastern maryland(near Annapolis). Looking for in person. I'm pretty introverted but also chill. Send me a message and I hope to hear from you!

Hi everyone,

I’m a 25-year-old guy from Kerala, India, looking for a meaningful connection with someone who shares a genuine interest in Buddhist practice—especially Vajrayana, or at least openness toward a contemplative and spiritual life.

I’m here with sincere intentions: to date with the hope of building a long-term partnership and, eventually, marriage.

A little about me:

• 25M, 5'9", medium build, simple aesthetic (I enjoy Indian and Chinese-inspired styles)
• Calm, introspective, creative, and trying to live with more discipline and awareness
• Minimalist at heart—drawn to simple living and intentional choices
• Vegetarian, interested in sustainability and living gently
• Practicing mindfulness and meditation, with a deep interest in Vajrayana Buddhism and inner transformation
• I enjoy reading, drawing, healthy cooking, contemplative conversations, and spending time in nature
• Working in design & research at an Indian MNC

I value kindness, depth, emotional maturity, and sincerity. I’m not looking for casual dating or endless talking without direction—I’d love to meet someone who is genuinely interested in growing together and building a peaceful, meaningful life.

Hoping to meet someone who:

• Has an interest in Buddhism/spiritual practice (especially Vajrayana, though openness matters more than labels)
• Values compassion, mindfulness, and self-awareness
• Is interested in a serious relationship with marriage in mind
• Appreciates a simple, intentional lifestyle
• Ideally aligned with being childfree (important to me)

I believe relationships can be a path of practice too—growing in compassion, patience, honesty, and shared understanding.

If this resonates, feel free to say hello 🌱

I honestly don’t really know how to go about writing one of these, so forgive the rambling.

Apps like Bumble and Tinder have been disappointingly hollow for me, and a “quick fix” is the last thing I’m looking for. I want a real companion, someone who’s genuinely all in, especially for the difficult parts of life. And I promise I’ll show up the same way in return.

About me:

I'm an MBBS doctor, currently in my final year of specialization. (The field I’m specializing in is not related to patient care, which was an active choice I made after empathy fatigue during housejob.)

I’m also childfree by choice, and I want to be transparent about why. I don’t believe it is responsible to bring children into a world that feels increasingly unstable, demanding, and emotionally exhausting. At the same time, I don’t see motherhood as something that would align with my capacity, temperament, or the kind of life I want to build. I prefer honesty over expectation, and intention over social default.

That said, I still want marriage because I value partnership in its own right. I want companionship, emotional safety, shared life structure, and someone to grow alongside through both stability and difficulty. To me, marriage is not about producing a family in the conventional sense, but about building a deeply committed, intentional bond between two people who choose each other fully.

Green flags: Loyal to a fault, humble, giving

Personal flaws: A little insecure and definitely too much of a workaholic, but I’m actively working on both because growth matters to me.

About my family:
A close knit nest of 4.
Dad’s retired from the forces, mother teaches English literature, brother’s in university

What I’m looking for in a partner:

I want to feel safe with someone. Chosen. Loved fully and intentionally. And I’ll reciprocate that with everything I have.

Someone who:

• Means what he says
• Doesn’t make grand promises he can’t keep
• Financially stable
• Is grounded and kind
• Loves animals
• Has a good sense of humour
• Is emotionally consistent
• Is loyal and serious about commitment
• Is genuinely childfree and certain about it
• Understands that if we’re investing in each other, we should both be fully present in that

I know some of my views may seem old-fashioned in 2026, but exclusivity and loyalty matter deeply to me.

And lastly, please don’t contact me if you’re manipulative, cruel, dishonest, or emotionally reckless. I’ve already spent enough time learning those lessons the hard way.

Good morning, or good evening, whenever this post reaches you. I've been through most of the normal and not so normal dating apps with childfree stated clearly. I even swipe on some "not sure" but stating up front my decision won't waiver even though 99% of the time there is no conversation started. We all know it's hard meeting someone else childfree out there. With that being said I have been browsing here for a bit. I figure if you don't try everything you won't have anyone to blame but yourself and forever will ask "what if?" I've been single for six years now not for a lack of trying. My previous relationship lasted over 10 years so commitment isn't an issue for me. There are many times I enjoy being alone but it's the times that I don't where I wish I had someone to make running to the grocery store an adventure. I miss cooking together. I also miss just waking up next to someone.

Here's my about me section and sorry it's boring but lists are easier to type and for people to skim through to see whether they are interested.

-Childfree obviously. This is ultimately what ended my previous relationship. I thought the feeling would come later that I would want kids but when the time came to discuss it with my partner I couldn't lie to my best friend saying I truly wanted them. It wasn't long after that we parted ways.

-I don't talk to any of my exes.

-Non-religious

-Monogamy. I don't like sharing. Sorry.

-Looking for something on the long term of things.

-Introverted and pretty homebody but would love a road trip. You might have to pick where we go though. I'll enjoy the trip regardless.

-It'd be hard for me to cheat because that would require two women to like me. Yes, I will tell bad jokes but in all honesty this is true.

-Love languages are physical touch, quality time, and words of affirmation

-Just bought my first home in 2021 and love it.

-830 credit score

-Just a mortgage currently for debt.

-I'm a maker which includes the machines I use for the projects. lol I have 3d printers, a co2 laser cutter, and a CNC wood router I've built.

-The photo attached (arcade cabinet) is my most recent finished project and my most recent photo(about a month old). It's my own design and I'm very proud of that build.

-I'm 6'0" and fluctuate between 220 and 230 lbs.

-I enjoy a variety of music. My taste doesn't stray too far into country or rap though. That's not saying I won't listen to some of it but I usually don't actively play any.

-I have been told I'm very generous, kind, polite, and well mannered.

-I keep a small friend group and am ok with that.

-I have a small social battery that when I need a recharge I'm trying to be polite while trying to make an exit at social gatherings. I still will go to musical concerts though and would love for someone to accompany me.

-I have two tv's in my house but they only get used for movies or binge watching a new season of a show like two or three times a year.

-I work at a government based facility so you know I have a clean record because they are running background checks on me randomly. I've been there 8 years now and really enjoy my job.

-I don't drink or smoke anything. We get randomed at work too so even if I wanted to smoke weed or do drugs it's not worth my job.

-I have one cat Vincent, who is 8 and is a tuxie. He is very loving and chill.

-I'm not into politics or much of the news. It's all depressing really.

-I have not had a vasectomy but have zero issues getting it done for my partner as I know it's more difficult for them to get their procedure approved/done.

About you section Childfree..duh Hopefully located near Missouri. It'd more rare but if we felt a connection I'd probably help someone further away move here. Hopefully a maker or creative in some regard. Yes, you could use my machines...just please don't burn the house down. lol

And finally the big reveal photos if you made it this far or like most just scrolled to the bottom to view the spoiler then clicking to the next post.

https://imgur.com/a/iOSSTJP

https://imgur.com/a/5tI4p6w

https://imgur.com/a/xvcAtsy

No kids. Don’t want kids. Never married. Looking for a DINK relationship!

Interests:

sports

concerts

comedians

science

anything outdoors

gardening

home projects

reading, movies and tv

trivia

politics

history

birding

Looking for other people who are looking for genuine, non- platonic connections. Not looking for someone who’s just passing the time at work!

If you write me a book as an opening message, I probably won’t read it.

Very dominant.

Please lead with pertinent information about yourself so we can get the ball rolling. Everyone has their someone but some of us are not for everyone, and that’s okay. Keep it positive!

Not sure how this is going to go but here are some starters:

name three people in history you’d like to meet for dinner and discuss today’s issues?

If you were stranded on AN island, name 3 things you’d bring with you.

I am looking for a partner that will join me in creating a truly wonderful monogamous relationship filled with joy, laughter, and shared memories.

My love languages come with a caveat that is important, I am demisexual. That means I am not looking for one night stands or anything quick. I want to know you and what drives you first and foremost. That said, my love languages are Physical Touch and Quality Time. This chart really does explain it well:
https://www.reddit.com/r/coolguides/comments/1hns3vq/a_cool_guide_to_love_languages/#lightbox

I am happy to discuss demisexual for me in further DMs as I do prefer to be open about myself from the start.

I show affection through acts of service. My birth sign Cancer describes me well as someone who's deeply nurturing, loyal, and emotionally aware.

About me:

• 6'4", 195 lbs, average build
• Enjoy Anime, D&D, Gaming (board, pc, console), and Programming
• Love to get out to town events on weekends during the summer
• Organize hangouts for friends (weekly and monthly)
• I've done my healing and will continue as needed
• ☕️/🍵 ✅
• Sober (never drank), ok if you do casually
• Workout 3-4 times a week
• Financially well set and own my house, a rental property, and strong 401k.
• Liberal
• LGBTQ+ rights
• Never ever Trump

Looking for:

• Doesn't smoke or use drugs
• Prefer light to no 420 use, edibles only
• Ready to put in the effort to make a friendship and relationship work

Interested?

Feel free to DM me with a description of yourself and a picture.

For anyone online... I really do prefer local due to my love languages. If you're still curious and/or are looking to move to Colorado, you can DM. ❤️

"Hello There!" — General Kenobi

Are you here for attention, to pass the time, a distraction from life, or are you actually hoping to find your person?

For me, I'm probably somewhere around 4 out of 5. Im here to meet someone, get to know them, and see where things go.

I'm naturally curious and ask a lot of questions, so if you enjoy talking about your interests, passions, random thoughts, or niche facts, I'm all ears.

I love conversations that flow naturally—easy, funny, engaging, and sometimes a little flirty. If that's your kind of vibe, we're already off to a good start.

While I can be a little reserved, once I'm comfortable I can talk for hours about life, random nonsense, weird hypotheticals, or whatever deep topic decides to show up at 2 AM. I've always imagined talking to someone late at night in a dark room, with nothing but the sound of our voices and laughter.

I'm an adventurer at heart. I love late-night drives, music turned blastimg, empty streets, city lights in the distance, and finding a lookout spot overlooking everything. Plus some urban exploring

I go to the gym about 5x times a week. recently started hiking more, and I walk my dog every day. The walks are mostly for him though—I let the little guy lead the way while he checks his daily sniffmail. If you know any good hiking spots, I'd love recommendations.

I've been getting leaner and stronger. During my fitness journey, I've realized that beyond being healthy, fit, and strong, I want to see what my genetics are capable.

Am I a nerd for being into video games, anime, manga, and light novels? I enjoy reading a good book.

Music-wise, I've had these on repeat lately:

• Djo — End Of Beginning

• Sombr — Back to Being Friends

• Vicente Fernández — Estos Celos

• Clean Bandit — Rather Be

• d4vd — Here With Me

• The Stranglers — Golden Brown (Slow + Reverb)

• Jaden ft. Kid Cudi — On My Own

• Lola Young — Messy

• Clean Bandit - Rather Be

•"That French Song"

So that's me—chill, curious, sarcastic , and easily distracted Come say Hi...Best Case, we exchange a few messages and share a laugh.

Worst case, we try to figure out what to have for breakfast.

Bonus:

• Favorite color: Phthalo Green

• Favorite reptile: Jackson's Chameleon

• Favorite marine animal: Mantis Shrimp

VoiceNote:

https://voca.ro/1XapYxJVqtaY

https://voca.ro/1gul0hCxK4IH

Hello! My name is Thomas and I am a demisexual guy looking to find someone I could have a life with for the long haul. What I am looking for is a best friend I could see myself being around all the time and sharing anything with. I really desire a very close intimate relationship where the love and admiration is genuine.

About me:
((First things you should know about me is that I am an atheist, never want to have children at all in my life, and only am interested in people who live in the United States and are actually serious with wanting a relationship with me. I also prefer communicating over voice chat instead of texting all the time because I am not entirely the best at expressing myself that way.))

I will say I have a slightly more introverted personality that focuses on a few really close relationships with friends and family above all else. I live alone and going to be moving fairly soon to a new place because my landlord is kicking me out so this will be fun…haha. I currently work as a delivery van driver for Amazon but I do have a bachelors degree in finance/accounting. I am an organized clean freak type which means I stay on top of chores or maintenance of anything like my car as an example. I collect movies and tv shows on disc and cycle on a bicycle as some of my hobbies. I do enjoy pets like my parents’ two standard poodles. Cooking and meal prepping are activities I am actively improving on to help me lose weight which is one of my main goals at this moment due to me being on the chubbier side besides finding a partner. Traveling is something I’ve always enjoyed since I’ve been to places like Alaska before (I will share pictures). Lastly, having fun and being dumb/stupid/goofy is part of who I am so I hope you enjoy that sorta thing.

Other things about me:

◦ Height is 6’0 feet              
◦ Eye color is hazel               
◦ Zodiac sign is Scorpio (if you care about that sorta thing)              
◦ Fav food is sweet potato               
◦ Fav color is maroon              
◦ My fav video game of all time is the original 2004 Star Star Wars Battlefront              
◦ I have all the current game consoles and a nice gaming pc              
◦ One of my fav all time YouTubers is Robbaz              
◦ Thanksgiving is my fav holiday because of the food

Hello everyone, my name is Aaron (pictures of me). I'm 33 and I currently live in the Quad Cities area, Illinois. I'm a hopeless romantic who is looking for a serious long term relationship. I'm going to try and keep this positive as I feel like online dating these days has become quite negative. I'm being completely open and honest about myself here so I hope you won't judge me. I'll start by saying I have no issues with a LDR to start with as long as there is a plan to close the gap. I'm childfree. I do not have nor ever want children. I have felt this way since my early teens and don't plan on changing my mind.

I love cozy nights, deep conversations, shared laughter, and those simple moments that somehow mean the most. I would describe myself as incredibly kind, caring, loving, respectful, affectionate, and loyal. I'm a bit more on the reserved and quite side but open up to those I feel comfortable with. Physically I'm 5'6" and around 150 pounds. I give 100% in a relationship and I expect it to be reciprocated in return. Quality time is very important to me in a relationship. I do not use social media really as I believe it has had an overall negative impact on society. I'm also not the "travel the whole world" type. Now, that doesn't mean I don't get out at all. I aim for at least one major vacation each year and several long weekends in between as time and finances allow. I'm non religious, but I do not mind if you are. I feel like I'm going to receive a lot of flak and downvotes for this but I'm politically conservative. But honestly, in day to day life and in a relationship I prefer to just not talk about politics. I feel much happier just living my life and doing my thing than constantly obsessing over politics. I'm open to dating someone from any political background as long as you respect my thoughts and opinions.

Some things I really enjoy are video games. I would say my top 3 games of all time are probably The Elder Scrolls, Pokemon, and World of Warcraft. I play a wide variety of games though and it would be great to have someone to play with but it is not a requirement. I also love watching movies, documentaries, and TV series. Fun fact I renovated my basement last year to include a home theater. I would say my favorite movies are John Wick, Saving Private Ryan, and Star Wars. Some other things I enjoy are concerts, history, astronomy, aviation, DIY projects, and rockets.

What am I looking for? I'm looking for a woman ages 20-40ish who is also childfree. It would be awesome if you lived nearby but I realize that most likely won't be the case. I'm open to dating someone from anywhere to start as long as we close the gap. I'm looking for someone who will be excited to see me. Excited to hear my voice. Someone who will cherish the time we spend together and miss me when we are apart. Finally someone who is attracted to me. In a relationship I value effort, consistency, loyalty, honestly, kindness, affection, reciprocation, communication, and peace.

If you're interested send me a message with a little bit about yourself and a picture please and thank you. I won't answer messages without a picture. Yes, I know you can't attach a picture anymore to your original message. Use something like imgur.

What I’m Looking For

Heya! I’m a 29M in the GTA/Durham area seeking a serious child free LTR. Monogamy preferred. I’d describe myself as a laid-back, nerdy, soft boi and introverted guy. I post here every week or two seeing if there’s anyone serious I’d vibe with out there.

I'm romantically a bit on the shy side, so I'm looking for a partner who’s into that and would want a more equally led kind of relationship. You hold me in your arms, I’ll hold you in my arms, and we’ll protect each other in exchange for all the kisses, cuddles, and headpats. A pretty good deal I would say. ♥

I also really want someone to bond with me over similar interests. I'm talking gamers, animation lovers, and weebs. If you're seeking a laid back, nerdy, and cute bf to watch stuff or game with, I might be the guy for you.

That’s the short version of it. Now I’ll list out some more details in bullet point form :P

Interests

• Gaming
  • Nintendo stuff (Mario, Zelda, Kirby, Pikmin, Metroid, Animal Crossing, Fire Emblem, etc.)
  • Rougelikes (The Binding Of Isaac) Sandbox games (Minecraft or Terraria)
  • RPGs (Final Fantasy, Delta Rune, Bravely Default, or Paper Mario)
  • Survival Horror (Resident Evil or funny co-op stuff like Lethal Company)
• Watching TV Shows
  • Animated stuff (Steven Universe, The Owl House, Bojack Horseman, Hazbin Hotel, indie shows like Digital Circus, etc.)
  • Anime (Hunter x Hunter, Dragon Ball, FMA 2003 & Brotherhood, Sailor Moon, or Violet Evergarden)
  • Occasionally watching live action stuff (The Umbrella Academy, The Mandalorian, or The Boys)
• Scifi movies like Alien, Blade Runner, Star Wars
• Occasionally reading manga (usually One Piece)
• Going for walks, or occasionally hikes
• Trying to get more into reading or at least trying listening to audio books a bit
• Game dev, developing indie games

About Me

• Appearance: 5'8", thin (a bit over 130 lbs), white, dark blue eyes.
• Here's a couple cute selfies. If you message me it’d be nice if you send me a selfie too! Show me your pretty face!
• Occupation: Software Developer, though the tech job market sucks right now. I’ve been laid off previously and I’m currently job searching or sometimes taking courses, but I’m still financially stable for dates.

Compatibility Things

• Age Range: Going for an age range of 21–36 years old. The closer to my age the better.
• Must Be Child Free: I don’t want kids and I’m not interested in dating anyone that does or is undecided.    
• Activity: I exercise via daily walks and around once a week I do a bit of cardio playing Ring Fit Adventure. I’d like a partner that’s down to walk a lot or maybe even go for a hike.
• Smoking: I don't smoke and at the very least wouldn’t want someone smoking in the same room as me.
• Drinking: I drink very occasionally socially.
• Pets: I think I'm more a cat person. Though I’m not living with them right now, my family has 3 lovely black cats. We also used to have 2 cute dogs, so doggos can be great too.

Intimacy Related Stuff

• Kinks: I have a mildly kinky brain lol. Turn ons of mine would include feet, abs, fit tummies, sucking on boobs, and soft elements of gentlefemdom
  • Of those feet is the one kink that I would call a main turn on, so I’d want someone who’s open to the most common and tame kink out there, as in be open to sexual things directly or indirectly involving feet.
• Health Things To Keep In Mind: I have pelvic floor issues that can make my lower body a bit sore after orgasming, but I do physiotherapy stretches to work around this and make it a pretty minor issue nowadays.
• I’ll desire all the kisses and cuddles above all else. Feeling safe in a partner’s arms is super sexy ;)

Location & Meeting

• Location: You must be in Ontario (ideally the GTA).
• I’d want to meet someone online first, then meet in person. Ideally visiting each other would be easy and at least possible every two to three weeks.
• I'm an hour from Toronto by the Go Train. If you’re an hour or two away by train then that’d be my go to way to meet up with someone.

TLDR; Cute nerdy guy, a bit on the romantically shy side, seeking an equally led relationship (child free), with someone who has similar nerdy interests like gaming, shows, anime, and such.

Ty for reading my walls of bullet points. If this catches a genuine woman’s eye then now's your chance to slide into my reddit chat DMs and date me.

It’d be super sweet if your intro message included, your age, your location, any shared or unique interests, and confirm whether or not you're looking for something serious. A pic of yourself after the first message would be nice too. If the stars truly align and you think we’ll click, and we can put in the work, maybe we can get an actual nice relationship going. ;)

Hi everyone

I’m 34 years old, 5’9 with brown hair and brown eyes. My ethnic background is Turkish, I lean towards agnosticism. I speak 3 languages and trying to perfect my Spanish so I can confidently say I speak 4 languages. I have a therapist who I see on a biweekly basis.

I work logistics/supply in the aviation industry. I have an associates degree in business administration.

My hobbies are the typical hiking and solo traveling including international (15 countries), cross country (22 states) and road trips. I’m a car guy, I’ll go to car shows and work on my own car. I go to the gym regularly(down 26 pounds) I also enjoy building legos, puzzles and listening to audiobooks. I like keeping an open mind and I’m hoping to find someone who also is. So I’ll try new foods or activities once just so I know if I like it or not.

What I look for in a partner is someone open minded, who can actually communicate, take accountability for their actions and has time management skills. While I’m not a gym rat by any means, someone who takes care of their physical health as much as their mental health is what I prefer.

Finally someone who does not have a criminal record (past experience now require this mention)

I’m open to anyone in South and central NJ, Philly area and even the DMV. I’m not trying to board flights so anything further than that is not something I desire.

Freshly minted 44 year old. I live in Brooklyn, NYC. I had a tubal ligation in 2019 and am 100% CF. I'm looking for a connection that could develop into a serious, monogamous relationship.

Putting this at the top to save you time if it applies to you: AI messages will be ignored - it all sounds the same, and it shows the lack of effort you put in. Also won’t accept messages from lockdown accounts or ones newer than 3 months.

Some things about me: Atheist, introvert or maybe otrovert, very politically left-leaning. Hearing loss sufferer, so I wear hearing aides.

I’m responsible yet spontaneous, serious yet silly. I love to laugh and have fun. I swear a lot, and have no problem speaking my mind. That means I can be blunt; unfortunately I speak before thinking sometimes. I’m very laid back in general, but I am not a pushover 🙂

I have six tattoos. I am trying to learn German. I don’t drink often, don’t smoke.

I put on some weight during covid and have been working on losing it. I am 5 ft 3 and currently 140 lbs.

Things I like to do include exploring neighborhoods, museums, concerts, standup comedy shows, Yankees games, road trips, traveling, street fairs, antique and oddity stores, bowling, air hockey, occasional camping and stumbling upon random things going on.

I am one to travel for concerts. I listen to music more than I watch tv. Favorite musicians: Bob Dylan, Neil Young, Vampire Weekend, Muse, Modest Mouse.

Favorite TV show: Better Call Saul (but not really a BrBa fan lol).

More of a dog person than cat. Over-user of emojis 🫣

I am more of an early bird, but have insomnia so kind of on a spectrum.

I'm not into anime, cosplay, Star Wars, harry potter, Indian food, sushi or most fish :)

You: Age 34-54 (not negotiable), someone that sees the value in their vote and is not a non-voter, republican or moderate. Prefer not religious. Non-smoker, no hard drugs, and no heavy drinking; occasional cannabis use is okay. Communicative, dependable, and puts in effort. Someone that controls his emotions and not through anger.

I prefer someone local, as I love NYC, but may be open to someone in another major city in a liberal state (CA, CT, MA, WA), or some EU countries. Sorry, I’m not a small town girl :(

I am NOT looking for casual hookups, so please do not contact me for them. I am here with intention. If we haven’t met yet, and you’re talking about kissing, touching, etc, look elsewhere. You don’t know me, so it shows you’re looking for something else.

If you're interested, please send an intro message, along with age and location, and a recent pic.

Looking to exchange pics within the first few messages. Even though I value an emotional connection, physical attraction also matters, so neither of us should waste time if we aren’t interested. No hard feelings if I am not what you’re looking for.

Hi there nice to meet you will send a picture if i end up getting a message i'd rather just not put one on a public post. before we get into anything you should probably know Im disabled and use a wheelchair so dancing will be a bit of a challenge you will have to hold me pretty tight haha although i will say I don't look disabled if you don't see my wheelchair anyway. i do believe i can provide good company and be an amazing partner i do have self confidence and at the end of the day you gotta play with the cards you are dealt. but the decision is yours so if you want to stop reading here I understand and wish you all the best.

First of all you should know that I am looking for a long term relationship where we can talk about life and just chill and watch movies together im into card games and strategy games.

So first of all let's go over my apperance I'm 175cm wear glasses have have short hair and no facial hair and im skinny i'd say around 70kg.

In terms of personality I'd say I'm an introverted extrovert if that makes sense. mostly enjoy the company of those close to me not really the one to strike up a random conversation with a stranger at a cafe if that makes sense if I'm with the right people I can't stop talking.

So let's go over my hobbies first. I love going out on small coffee dates and yap just randoom walks it's my favorite but obviously all of my hobbies involve stuff I can do inside I love gaming (mostly single player games i pirate all of them lol if you are with me im nkt letting you spend a cent on streaming services ). used to watch anime altough ive kind of outgrew since i finished highschool. but there is deffenetly some dimonds in the dirt even tough 95% of it us garbage to be quite honest. . (my favorite is death note I recommend it even if you don't like anime it's 10/10)

Also play cardgames like yu gi oh snd pokemon but i just play them online since there isnt really any local game stores near me.

As far as music goes im mostly into metal but its not a rule and ill listen to anything that sounds good.

Also im currently in my 3rd year of 5 years of law school I shloud be a lawyer at 25.

As far as you go I mean obviously looks matter a bit can't say they don't matter at all right at end of the day we both gotta find each other attractive but considering I'm disabled that tends to be way less important just looking for someone thats a straight shooter honest and loving.

I do believe a relationship that lasts a lifetime is a marathon not a sprint and I'm willing to run the marathon and build a perfect life with a special girl.

Also a bit randoom but I'd like to own a cat at some point it wloud be awesome if my future partner has or wants to own a cat in the future.

Also i can pirate pretty much anything no more wasting money on streaming services if you are with me .

Also i'll answer any questions ya might have about my disability as well. so feel free to ask wanna make sure you know what you are getting into.

Also considering a lot of my peers ive met have not decided on children yet i am willing to date an older girl.

P.S. I im kink frendly but did not talk about Kink in my post i think trust needs to be build before those kind of conversations start and i feel like in order to turly be yourself in this kind of space you need a deep emotional connection.

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I’ve tried all the dating apps at various points in time and they just haven’t really worked for me. So, I figured I would try this in the hope that maybe I would meet someone simpatico.

I’m 42 and based in Virginia. I work full-time in an office job that I like (but if I won the lotto, I’d definitely be out). :D

Aside from being childfree and wanting the things that are important in relationships (communication, emotional intelligence, shared values, honesty), the thing that is most important to me is finding someone who has a good sense of humor/loves witty banter and understands sarcasm. I joke that my love language is memes. I love to laugh. Life is too short to be serious all the time.

**About me:**

-5’6.5” (had to add that half lol ), spiritual, left-wing, childfree, non-smoker, don’t do drugs, drink socially, plant-based, cat lover (allergic to dogs).

-Love going to comedy clubs, musicals/plays/live performances of any kind, grabbing dinner with friends, going to a happy hour every so often, reading, a good binge-watching session, kayaking, sitting out on a patio when the weather is lovely, going to veg fests and having friends over for dinner and game nights.

-As an introvert/ambivert, I love my alone time. I love being at home and enjoying my own company. I like to play violin, listen to music while I cook and just relax with some tasty food and a good show at the end of a long day.

-I’ve reached that age where I’m feeling a little restless. I have a good career, fabulous friends, a place that I love, etc. However, I’d be lying if I said I wasn’t feeling ready for a new adventure. I’m seriously considering a change of locale. I’m ready for a new challenge and if the right job opportunity presented itself, I’d definitely be up for a move (even though moving is the WORST). Ideally, I’d like to live in DC or move back up North (I love Philly and Boston. Would love to hear your thoughts on these places if you’ve ever lived in them.)

-An abuser of “lol” in text messages. With that said, I much prefer sending voice notes or having a good, old-fashioned conversation in-person or on the phone.

-My goal (which I am always starting tomorrow) is to start working out and get back in shape. If you used to hate exercising and now love it, I’d love to hear your tips.

**I’m looking for:**

-A serious long-term and monogamous relationship. I am not interested in hearing from anyone that is looking for hook-ups or short-term situationships.

-35-47 (ish) male, childfree.

-US-based, preferably Northeast or Mid-Atlantic.

-Non-smoker and no drugs. Not a heavy drinker.

-Politically left and not super religious.

-Someone emotionally available, kind, honest, mature, communicative, similarly independent, and knows what they want. Someone who has a real interest in meeting in-person and going on dates.

-Someone that enjoys learning and is curious about the world. Someone that enjoys deep conversations.

**What I would love to know:**

-If you could change one thing about our country right now, what would it be?

-If the apocalypse happened tomorrow, what is one skill that you have that would aid in our survival?

If this sounds like you, feel free to send me a DM with a bit about yourself, answers to my questions and a picture or two.

Thanks!

Hello!

I'm here looking for my person. That special someone that I click with where everything feels effortless. Someone that I can get to know better than anyone I've ever known before, the good the bad and everything in between. Someone who I know will be there for me on those rough days, and someone I can be there to support in the same way. Someone who enjoys the simple things: a cosy night in with a movie, a takeaway and some cuddles on the sofa under a blanket; or a rainy day playing a boardgame or working on a jigsaw puzzle together while we listen to the rain tapping on the window, or a random adventure to a new place. You could say I'm looking for my soulmate

A little about me:

• I'm 29, and I live in the south of England with my two cats. I'm around 6'2, slim, with brown hair and brown eyes. I'd be happy to exchange photos, it's always good to put a face to a name! And will of course pay the cat tax too 😋

• If it wasn't already obvious from the above (and I guess the fact that I'm posting on Reddit!) I'm an introvert through and through - I feel much more comfortable and relaxed either at home or with a small group of people. I've never been much of a party person.

• I love baking, especially bread - I have a massive sweet tooth but I don't have enough willpower to not binge eat if I make anything sweet, so bread it is

• I got back into one of my childhood hobbies in the last couple of years, building Lego. It's very relaxing and nostalgic, but my bank account doesn't thank me 😭 I'm also really enjoying painting by numbers, very relaxing.

• I love reading when I get the time and have a fairly big book collection which is ever growing. A mix of everything from non fiction history to fantasy or murder mystery. I love gaming too. Robin Hobbs Farseer trilogy is probably my favourite of all time, the characters feel so real I can really lose myself in it.

• I love going for long walks, and I've been trying to get into running with the help of couch to 5k but it's hard work 😬

Ideally you're between 23 and 35, a little nerdy and a hopeless romantic at heart 🥰

If you're interested, drop me a message and tell me a little about you!

I'm 21 and based in Devon. Lately I've been feeling pretty isolated and realised I need to get out more and meet some new people.

I'm quite introverted, so I'm not really into clubs or big social scenes, but I enjoy going for walks, exploring new places, grabbing a coffee or pint, road trips, days out, and having good conversations.

Looking for people aged 18–30 who would be up for chatting and eventually meeting up. I'd like to build some genuine friendships and have people to do things with rather than spending all my time on my own.

Not looking for anything sexual at the moment. Friendship is the main goal, and if something develops naturally with the right person further down the line, that's fine too, but there's no expectation.

If you're nearby and think we'd get along, send me a message and tell me a bit about yourself.

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Hey Ya’ll, I'm hoping to find someone who believes the best relationships are something you build together. Looking for someone nerdy, kind, emotionally mature, and willing to put in effort even when life gets busy.

A little about me: I'm 36, childfree, work full-time, in school, volunteer, and somehow still find time for anime, bookstores, creative projects, parks, and collecting little moments that make life feel special (maybe because my sleep schedule is horrid😂) I'm short, chubby, brunette, brown-skinned, and definitely the type to send you memes, cheer you on through hard days, and ask how your meeting went because I care and also who else would you share the work tea with lol!

I've been told im playful, affectionate, curious, and enjoy both silly conversations and meaningful ones. I appreciate consistency, communication, gentle encouragement, and the kind of connection where two people become each other's safe place. Bonus points if you enjoy routines, words of affirmation, and taking care of the people you love.(Spoiler, i do too)

I'm looking for a fellow childfree human who wants something intentional. Someone who enjoys growing together, communicating through the awkward parts, and building a relationship that's equal parts romance, friendship, support, and adventure. If there is some distance, sounds like some trips will be made and eventually closing the gap

If we click, maybe we're future best friends, become each other's favorite person, or gasp🫪, even each other's emergency contact! Either way, I'd love to find out.

Tell me, what's the nerdiest thing you're passionate about or your hot take? :) Goodluck everyone🥰💗

Hello! So my name Lay and I know my soulmate is out there. I am a twenty seven year old Native American woman that’s extremely nerdy. My favorite thing to do is costume and if you were my partner then I would love to dress you up too!

Other hobbies include roleplay in the written form. I love to cook together with people and I love a good movie night with friends too so to have one with a partner with be even better. I’m also a big fan of traveling and seeing new places. Some day I will visit a bunch of places in like New York City and La!

Personal about me, I want to meet someone that I can move to me if we do long distance for awhile. I am building a cabin for all our lesbian cottage core dreams! I also would adore to have someone to help if they are close to make it perfect. I also have a knack for being to provider so I’m working hard to get us a place that’s perfect!

Feel free to ask me any questions and my dms are always open!

25 [F4M] Orlando, FL/Orlando, FL - Looking for that someone…

Hi, I’m Bonnie, Im 25, black female, 5’5 | 102lbs, and if I were to describe myself in one word, it would probably be “soft,” though that’s just the beginning. I’m someone who finds joy and comfort in the small, delicate details of life, the things that make each day feel intentional and a little bit magical. I adore quiet, cozy spaces like small cafés and bakeries, wandering through little shops with hidden treasures, looking up at the night sky or simply enjoying a bouquet of flowers that catches my eye. I love the tactile, comforting things that make the world feel gentle: soft cardigans, stuffed animals, comfort shows/movies, bows and hair clips that add a playful feminine touch, and little strawberry themed surprises that bring a smile. I notice the details, the subtleties, and the moments that many people might overlook, and I think that’s part of my charm.

At the same time, I have a small, wild streak. I love activity, adventure, and new experiences that let me feel alive. Roller coasters, museums, science exhibits, hiking, and exploring are all things that make my heart race with excitement. I’m not interested in the typical “dinner, coffee, or movie” dates; I crave experiences that are interactive and engaging, where we can genuinely connect and share energy. I love movement and spontaneity as much as I love stillness and quiet reflection, and I think the balance between those sides of me makes life richer.

I take boundaries, comfort, and consent very seriously. For me, a relationship is about trust, mutual respect, communication and emotional safety. I am not here for casual texting or low-effort planning or even the “lets see where things go” energy; I want someone who is thoughtful, intentional, and willing to invest the time and energy it takes to build something meaningful. Communication matters deeply to me, and I appreciate partners who are clear, considerate, and confident in themselves. I believe that love and connection flourish when both people are genuinely present, attentive, and willing to put in effort. However with that i am looking for a long term relationship but not ready to have children, i love being CF (Child Free) and that is really important to me, i value my freedom and not being tied down daily having to take care of a small human. I believe it is possible to want a committed relationship but not be ready to settle down; Sometimes, two people simply share a meaningful connection, whether it lasts a few years or just a beautiful chapter. There’s something deeply romantic about two separate lives intertwining for a time before continuing their own paths.

I consider myself naturally soft and quiet. I’m drawn to men who are confident, Dominate, grounded, and know how to lead with care and thoughtfulness. I’m not interested in bottom men (or men with mommy issues. I do not have daddy issues myself) or those who expect me to take control; I feel most fulfilled when I can relax into softness and trust someone to guide our relationship down the right path and ofc with my help so we can grow together. For me, softness isn’t about weakness, it’s about connection, trust, and intimacy. The most romantic and meaningful relationships I can imagine are ones where I feel safe enough to let go, be soft, and explore the full range of my emotions and desires without fear or judgment or being used.

When it comes to who I’m attracted to, I tend to gravitate toward single men who are East/Southeast Asian, or white, latino and don’t have children (100% Childfree). Non-Smoker/vaper but drinking is fine just dont be an alcoholic (been through that). No crazy Exes. Aged 26-50(no one older or younger). Permanently living in Orlando, FL (Very important, I am NOT open to long distance/Online). Knows how to dress and basic hygiene. Knows how to have a conversation aka won’t leave me to ask all the question or say “feel free to ask me questions” when none have been asked of me. Loves theme parks and movies. Have self control, self respect and discipline. Have hair on their head (no baldness but a buzzcut is fine). Emotional intelligent/mature. Confidence is key! I admire someone who knows themselves, is comfortable in their own skin, and carries themselves with self-assurance. I appreciate a partner who prioritizes health, whether that’s staying active, eating thoughtfully, or simply taking care of their well-being. I prefer men who are fit, slim, or average in body type(noone unhealthy obese), someone whose lifestyle complements mine without pressure or judgment. Height isn’t everything, but I’m drawn to men who are taller and carry themselves in a way that inspires quiet confidence and stability, height is not a dealbreaker though I have dated men who have at least been 5’7. I’m most comfortable when I’m with someone kind, protective, and intentional. I bring loyalty, affection, and steadiness, I just need to feel safe and chosen first. I would say i have an average/slim body, but to clear up that im not the average-overweight pipeline, im 105lbs.

I love a lifestyle that feels mature, grounded, and intentional. I enjoy healthy routines, cooking at home, and staying active walking, or home workouts. I value thoughtful living, where every choice, big or small; reflects care for yourself and those around you. For me, again the little things matter: the scent of fresh flowers, the comfort of a soft cardigan on a rainy day, the quiet thrill of discovering something new in a museum, or the tactile satisfaction of a small DIY project. Life feels richer when you notice the details, and I take joy in these moments every day.

Romance, for me, is soft, tender, and deeply intentional. I crave connection that’s playful yet grounded, adventurous yet comforting. I love giving and receiving affection, cherishing moments where we can simply be together without distraction. My ideal partner values these things too: someone who can plan thoughtful, activity-based dates, who enjoys shared experiences rather than just passive moments, and who delights in the simple but meaningful gestures that show care. I want a relationship where laughter, exploration, and softness are all woven together, a life that feels full and alive while still honoring calm, gentle moments.

I want to build a relationship that’s focused and intentional from the start. I’m looking for someone who can embrace both the playful and serene sides of life, who understands that romance doesn’t need to be loud or flashy to feel profound. I value someone who can lead with strength but also sensitivity, someone who can take initiative in planning our time together while respecting my boundaries and comfort and i do the same for them. I want a partner who sees the beauty in both quiet moments and bursts of adventure, someone who can make almost everyday life feel like something special.

There’s a balance in me that I hope to share with the right person. Together, I imagine a relationship that’s warm, exciting, and deeply connected: moments of quiet reflection curled up together, intertwined with spontaneous adventures that make us feel alive. I am a spiritually grounded Catholic and love my calm soft faith, i dont force my religion upon anyone and i dont even talk about it to avoid making people uncomfortable. It doesnt matter to me what religion or spirituality you are just come with acceptance and peace. I am LGBTQ+ friendly and myself is Pansexual. However i do not support the poly/enm/open lifestyle when it comes to my relationships. I dont smoke or drink. I have a chronic illness and take care of myself to make sure my health stays in check.

I am not into casual culture but have tried it out once before realizing and talking to my therapist that it is not for me and something i dont enjoy and not comfortable with. I take my mental health very seriously and let go of anything that will cause me great stress or put me in a negative mindset.

I have healed through my trauma and continue to heal far beyond, i want my partner to also prioritize their mental health and can communicate their thoughts and feelings for anything good or bad, i hear and see my partner and make sure to provide my support and feedback, even in disagreements. I would consider myself slightly traditional in relationships following behind my partner and keeping quiet when needed (i do have rules/boundaries myself and dont tolerate any type of disrespect to my character). I believe in equal rights for all not only one type of person. I am not a liberal or conservative and consider myself of the far left and moderate but to be safe on dating apps i do label myself as liberal as its closer to what i agree with. I prefer to date someone who is moderate/left and also not a conservative(republican)/liberal. I enjoy gloomy weather, slice of life anime’s, horror movies, journaling, shopping, nature, animals, dressing very dolly and/or comfortable, and collecting stuffed animals (no squishmellows). I own a cat and dog and live with roommates. I dont drive as i dont meet florida requirements for a DL (passenger princess). I play video games (PS 4/5). I enjoy also dressing modest/alt/punk, a small bit of baking and naps. Im prochoice. And i dream of moving to the PNW and opening up a bakery and having my own greenhouse vegetable and fruit garden in the backyard hehe. I like listening to nu-metal/rock, mitski and Billie eilish. I am not a fan of RnB/hip hop music but I did grow up listening to it. I have Autism and adhd. I work Full Time. Free Palestine, congo, and sudan.

I want someone who understands that relationships take effort and attention from both sides, and who is willing to create a connection built on trust, playfulness, and connection. I want a partner who can inspire me, challenge me gently, and hold space for me while allowing me to be my full, authentic self. And i do the same for them. However we must agree that neither of us are eachother therapist/psychologist and should not put mental pressure/stress on eachother to solve our own problems. We are not eachother caretaker, lets not romanticize emotional labor. Confusing love with responsibility for someones else growth is not the way to go, its unhealthy.

If you’re someone who enjoys activity-based adventures, who values thoughtful planning, and who appreciates both softness and subtle sparks of wildness, we might just click. I’m looking for someone confident, grounded, and intentional; someone who respects boundaries, takes comfort seriously, and understands that love is nurtured through care and presence. With the right person, I imagine a life full of warmth, trust, laughter, and connection, moments where we explore the world together, savor the quiet times, and let the soft, tender side of life bloom fully.

\*\*Note\*\* None of this was made with AI. I worked on this for a couple of months before posting. Occasionally coming in to make changes and added information as I develop and grown and learn more about myself and the world. Im really grateful for the oxford language and proper talking when making a first impression on someone.

Hi! It's been a week, so I thought I'd try my luck again in the hope that this reaches the right person. I’m Marc. I’m 29 and I live in England. I’m 6’2 and skinny. I’m looking for a woman aged between 24-39 to be my lifelong companion.

I’m seeking a woman who is of a similar physical type as me, is child-free, pet-free, and won’t need me to go on 3+ hour travel journeys due to a health-issue I have. I’m open to a long-distance relationship provided you’re interested in moving here within like a few years time.

I’m very open, fun, caring, sometimes smart, nerdy, introvert-leaning, talkative, generally polite, and honest. I’m not religious, but it’s OK if you are, so long as you don’t try and convert me. I’m politically moderate. A former coworker described me as 'chaotic good' 🤪

I enjoy going for walks sometimes, both around town but also in green places. I like places with lots to do, but I’m also drawn to remote and abandoned places. I have various stories and a video-game project on hold. Currently, I’m playing my way through Fallout 4 after 8 years of not touching video-games. You could say I’m very picky lol. I also like all things computers, late 20^th century retro aesthetics, retrofuturism, near-future settings, solarpunk, post-apocalyptic, neon, ruins, and rustbelt. I enjoy worldbuilding. It’d be great to have somebody to roleplay and cosplay with! We could have a costume chest at the end of our bed :o

I’ve been saving for years for a place of my own. I prefer cool-cold weather. I'm the only Brit who does 💀

I have OCD, mild anxiety, and a chronic GI issue. I worked for 6 years as a software-engineer, but I'm currently unemployed. So basically I'm perfect housewife material 🤣

If you think we might be a match made in Reddit (see what I did there?), send me a brief intro to you with 2+ photos as soon as you can! If we hit it off, I'm happy to move over to Whatsapp =)

Thanks!

Marc

Disclaimer: I am severely allergic to cats. I love dogs though and have one!

With that out of the way, hello cf peeps!

My names Tim, I am a 39 year old male.

5'11" ~190 lbs.

I am staunchly left leaning (fuck this government) and not religious.

https://imgur.com/a/OLA4lNy

I am here in search of maiden (or at least a brain piloting their flesh prison, im not picky), and im excited to not have children.

I live in the Twin Cities, MN and would prefer local but hey shoot your shot.

I am a hybridization of degenerate gamer and athletic. I like to stay active but wouldnt blink an eye at a 12 hour gaming session on a saturday 🫣 (or the LOTR extended editions). I am not outdoorsy aside from walking my dog, dont ask me to go camping lol. If I am leaving my residence it is to go inside somewhere else (mostly).

On my gamer side, I mostly play PC games: path of exile 1&2, dota2, slay the spire, and will play story/puzzle games when the mood strikes. E33 was astounding, I love Zelda games! There are other misc games but thats the gist. I also like to play board games at social gatherings.

I would probably prefer someone who games but if you tolerate it and have your own personal hobbies to fill that time I am open to it.

As far as staying active goes, I play hockey multiple times a week year round and kickball in the warm months, if im not playing sports I try to go to the gym to lift a couple days a week. (I do not watch sports)

My media interests tend to lean very nerdy. I love fantasy and sci fi, and watch some anime as well. I love going to the movies.

I tend to only drink at social gatherings and I dont smoke anything but dont mind if you smoke weed.

Creatively I dabble in playing piano, I didnt play instruments growing up but got into it a couple years ago and would like to get better. I love me some music! Pretty much like something in every genre except country, but i love 2000s pop, punk pop, alt rock, video game/anime soundtracks. Any piano music really.

Career wise I am solidly type B. With all above said hobbies it is merely a tool to afford them. I am not super ambitious but you gotta work to play. I am gainfully employed.

Send a DM if youd like, hope to hear!

Hi, I’m a 29 year old trans woman in Washington, DC, and I’m childfree. I do not have kids, do not want kids, and I’m looking for someone who is also confidently childfree.

I’m hoping to meet another trans person who wants a real connection that can grow at a comfortable pace. Local to DC/DMV would be wonderful, but I’m open to talking first if distance is manageable. I like coffee, books, movies, museums, the zoo, long walks, and baseball games when the weather is friendly enough.

Personality-wise, I’m drawn to people who are thoughtful, kind, curious, and a little silly once they feel comfortable. I like conversations that can move from everyday details to deeper things without feeling like either person is auditioning. I’m not looking for perfection. I’m looking for warmth, effort, and a sense that we actually enjoy each other.

An ideal first hangout would probably be coffee, a bookstore, a museum, or a walk somewhere pretty. Something simple where we can talk and notice whether the energy feels easy.

If you reply, tell me where you are, what childfree means for you, and what kind of first hangout you usually enjoy.