r/babywearing 3h ago

Fit Check Fit Check - Preemie 3 Weeks Corrected

How does this look? I think the only mistake I made was he had footed pajamas on this time, but I believe he should be barefoot.

My guy is 9 weeks actual, 3 corrected and 10 pounds. I do have him in the newborn carry with his feet tucked. Thanks!

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u/tertullian321 2h ago

Arms have to be tucked in at this stage, and your wrap looks a bit loose. Think swimsuit tight before you put baby in. Baby needs three layers of wrap over them from knee to knee, shoulder to shoulder, and nape of neck to bum so you need to spread your passes out a lot more. You don't need to tuck their head at all, especially if the wrap is tight enough and the passes are spread, but if you do always keep it from going past their ear. 

Legs out from birth is now considered best practice but this would be a good time to make that transition. 

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u/IncreasinglyPoor 1h ago

Is this too tight now?

u/Impossible-Ship-1442 1h ago

Nope looks nice and tight to me! 

u/tertullian321 44m ago

No, do you see how the fabric is smooth here and full of ripples in your first picture? That's how you can tell it's tightened appropriately. I would adjust the legs though.  This is a good visual: https://youtube.com/shorts/sRIvKtYCuY0?si=L0EDecaooiWDeOWA