r/alcoholicsanonymous • u/Additional-Yak4659 • 5d ago

Consequences of Drinking Relationship issues

I had a 8 month binge cycle of drinking that evolved into hiding it and lying about it and being caught and my fiance gave me an ultimatum and idk how or if I'll ever earn their trust back

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u/ALoungerAtTheClubs 5d ago edited 4d ago

One question worth considering is whether you want to be sober or just don't want these relationship problems. Because if you truly want sobriety, and are willing to do the work, you can have it, but whether your partner trusts you is entirely up to them.