r/TwentiesIndia 8h ago

Ask Twenties What have you all decided for future?

Post image

I'm 22F and just graduated idk what to do with my life or anything nothing interests me anymore i feel tired and useless mostly

Have any of you been like this?

56 Upvotes

188 comments sorted by

32

u/No-Assignment8665 24 7h ago

Company jump karte karte, mountain se jump kar lena hai.

6

u/toogoodperson 7h ago

Spiderman ❌ Corporate man ☑️

2

u/rebelbunny10 7h ago

The leap of switch

2

u/Usual-Obligation3786 BALD DAWG WITH NO BRAIN 🫪🫪 7h ago

WITH GREAT JOB COMES GREAT MENTAL STRESS

1

u/IncreaseVirtual3524 6h ago

Mountain dew darr ke aage doosra dar hai

30

u/toogoodperson 7h ago

I will eat chole bhature tomorrow is the only clarity that I have about my future.

4

u/Acceptable_Novel_725 7h ago

Save some for me

1

u/IncreaseVirtual3524 7h ago

Dont forget lassi

0

u/[deleted] 7h ago

[deleted]

2

u/IncreaseVirtual3524 7h ago

Uske baad ki behoshi

1

u/Small_Station5941 7h ago

How can you not have meethi Lassi with chole bhature 🥲

0

u/toogoodperson 7h ago

Ewww I hate meethi lassi , only masala lassi

1

u/TemperatureJunior918 28 7h ago

Why not today?

3

u/toogoodperson 7h ago

Aaj chole kulche kaungi

1

u/livinghuman2 7h ago

Ek plate mere liye bhi.. 😋

1

u/Friendly-Jacket914 25 7h ago

Papa Aaj me karke aya Hu❌ Papa Aaj me pel ke aya Hu, chole bhature ✅

2

u/toogoodperson 7h ago

Don't joke about chole bhature, main offend ho jaati hun

2

u/Friendly-Jacket914 25 7h ago

V mid dish tbvh

1

u/TemperatureJunior918 28 7h ago

Waah ye hui na sorted plan. Pura week ka set hai Ek momo meri traf se

1

u/toogoodperson 7h ago

Ek momo 

1

u/TemperatureJunior918 28 7h ago

Kitne plate chahiya?

1

u/toogoodperson 7h ago

Being a Delhite there is no limit for momo

1

u/TemperatureJunior918 28 7h ago

Too good person

1

u/Kenta_07 somewhat alive 7h ago

itni clarity bhi nhi h mujhe to🤧

2

u/toogoodperson 7h ago

You can do it , make a strategy what will you eat and be consistent about it , you will succeed 

1

u/Kenta_07 somewhat alive 3h ago

I cant, what i will eat is not in my hands(i am eating mess food for the past 3 years, 1 more year left 😞)

1

u/Momo_Smuggler Nalla Berozgar Association(NBA) Chief 3h ago

Nhi yaar phir next day mood change ho jata hai 🫠

7

u/SerDuncantheGreat I need moral support. 22 8h ago

I was like this 6 months back. Trying to make a career in music. Then i decided to be just another man in corporate. One month back i joined a good corporate. Now i have to start gym and reignite some hobbies.

1

u/NewInteraction679 6h ago

what kind of job you have currently? which field

1

u/SerDuncantheGreat I need moral support. 22 5h ago

I am in IT, did btech in CSE. Job part wasn't hard as college reputation helped.

1

u/NewInteraction679 5h ago

Oh ,okay

1

u/SerDuncantheGreat I need moral support. 22 5h ago

What about you

1

u/NewInteraction679 5h ago

I Just finished my final year (Bcom hons) exams

1

u/SerDuncantheGreat I need moral support. 22 5h ago

Okay, good luck ahead

3

u/mansicantsee its just a bad life, not a bad day 8h ago

For me i don't know what to do

What i wanted to do was to become a doctor. But my family didn't let me, ended up pursuing commerce and finance against my will & now i feel so lost because i don't even like it that much

3

u/Small_Station5941 7h ago

I am a dr and commerce/finance is wayy better field dude

2

u/mansicantsee its just a bad life, not a bad day 7h ago

You're right

But still i would've loved to do something that i wanted instead of doing something i don't even like :)

Besides finance also has a hugeeee competition these days and its a game over if you're not well informed and knowledgeable with hell lot of certifications

1

u/Small_Station5941 7h ago

Merse career exchange krlooo

1

u/mansicantsee its just a bad life, not a bad day 7h ago

What kinda doc are you

1

u/Small_Station5941 7h ago edited 6h ago

No speciality lol just mbbs

1

u/Small_Station5941 6h ago

I hope this wasnt a taunt tho

1

u/AwaaaraSoul 21 7h ago

Hey don't be like this, I hope you understand and will work further down the lane to strengthen your future!

1

u/mansicantsee its just a bad life, not a bad day 7h ago

Thanks, you forgot to add an image of your idol

1

u/AwaaaraSoul 21 7h ago

Miss krney lag gaye ho mujey!

1

u/mansicantsee its just a bad life, not a bad day 7h ago

Mai yu miss karu apko 😔

https://giphy.com/gifs/wyz7DsIBcvniw

1

u/AwaaaraSoul 21 7h ago

Hn tum kyu krogi,

Tumko aata hi nahi hai,

Tumko pata hi nahi hai,

Tumse hota hi nahi hai,

1

u/chala_toh_chaand_tak 20 7h ago

Ahh it's okay girl, finance is kinda good too, too much domains to explore

1

u/mansicantsee its just a bad life, not a bad day 7h ago

Yes yes i know but idk if i will end up liking it because its already causing me alot of stress anz i am so tired of keeping up with my peers.

They've done tonnes of certifications in finance already.

They are doing it because they like it but i am doing it because i didn't have another choice 😭 thats why i can't seem to find the motivation these days

1

u/chala_toh_chaand_tak 20 7h ago

Lol certifications help to a certian extent itself. Tell me, what course are you doing and in which year

1

u/mansicantsee its just a bad life, not a bad day 7h ago

Mba kar rhi hu 😔🥀 wo bhi ghatiya clg se

I have few nism certifications but idts they will help much people are doing cfa and all and i cant do those because of financial constraint

1

u/chala_toh_chaand_tak 20 7h ago

You're senior to me, but I wish you were doing from a good clg after taking drop, also you can try applying for scholarships until and unless you receive one

1

u/Short-Salt-9229 7h ago

i realized it too late to,that i didn't like what i pursed,lost in life myself too🥲

1

u/prettyplease101 6h ago

Bruh thank your family

3

u/listnerPlusYapper In my 20s but a Toddler by heart 7h ago

Same situation here OP.. 🥀

5

u/livinghuman2 8h ago

Doing mbbs just waiting for love ,career is most ptobably set

7

u/KameenaInsaan 8h ago

iske baad md bhi hai, pyaar chodo neend na milegi tumhe

3

u/livinghuman2 8h ago

Itna confidence to h mil jaegi

2

u/KameenaInsaan 8h ago

yeh confidence acha lagaa

1

u/Acceptable_Novel_725 8h ago

That seems nice

1

u/Small_Station5941 7h ago

Ig you are in 1st or 2nd prof lmao?

1

u/livinghuman2 7h ago

Nope final...

1

u/Small_Station5941 7h ago

Yaar mbbs ke bad kya hee career set hai if we dont give pg or your dad owns a hospital

1

u/livinghuman2 7h ago

That's a myth bhai ye youtubers ne zyada krdiya h and rhi baat competition have some guts and ego....

2

u/terimaakababyy 7h ago

where is this photo taken btw?

1

u/OddMiddle3 🐸🐸 7h ago

Pinterest or probably Ai

1

u/Acceptable_Novel_725 7h ago

Albert hall museum jaipur

1

u/terimaakababyy 7h ago

ohh i thought this was in delhi

1

u/whyouallhateher 7h ago

Albert hall museum, Jaipur

2

u/ahir_devta 7h ago

Highway ke kinare hotel ya mba ya jaise taise kisi first world country mea jana

2

u/Aanya_in 24 6h ago

An mba abroad is my only hope now

2

u/OwlTrick6098 6h ago

Spidy women 🌼🌼🌼 chole bhature khaegi

1

u/Acceptable_Novel_725 5h ago

Khilado

1

u/OwlTrick6098 5h ago

Bhyi abhi to tumhri flight thi 😭😭🙏🏻🙏🏻

1

u/Acceptable_Novel_725 5h ago

Abhibhi h

1

u/OwlTrick6098 5h ago

Phir bilori bina chatni kese bani 😭 apun n to bola tha fast catchup k liye aap hi ko packing krni hogi and all

1

u/KameenaInsaan 8h ago

You lost the spark

1

u/Acceptable_Novel_725 8h ago

😞 perhaps

1

u/KameenaInsaan 8h ago

try new things, meet new people, let your mind reset

1

u/Acceptable_Novel_725 8h ago

I don't feel like doing anything

2

u/KameenaInsaan 8h ago

you have to look for water when you are thirsty yk

1

u/IncreaseVirtual3524 7h ago

Also not feeling things as intensely as I used to be🫠

1

u/IncreaseVirtual3524 7h ago

Bhaiya ek spark plug lga do

1

u/KameenaInsaan 7h ago

Bilkul bhaiya baitho 2 second abhi lagata hoon

1

u/IncreaseVirtual3524 6h ago

2 cutting chai aur samosa bhi lga dena chotu

2

u/KameenaInsaan 6h ago

laga toh denge lekin tumhare me fit kaise karenge ... ruko 7 number paana leke aata hu

1

u/kushhhu 8h ago

I'm 20m and I feel clueless just after 1st year.... I scored 7 cpi and I don't know if I'm made for btech or not

3

u/SweetuRasmalai 7h ago

Wo sabko beech btech hi pta chlta h ki nhi krni thi

1

u/kushhhu 7h ago

😔😔

1

u/icedlattewithcaramel 20 8h ago

Pata nahi, papa ne aaj 10 ke kurkure dila diye💅🤚

1

u/sunaura_19 डिल्यूजनल पेंगुइन 7h ago

Bade log

1

u/thalaraj 21 8h ago

Me too graduated Will turn 22 in less than a week Have decided what to do (govt jobs) just because I don't wanna spend that much time and also have job security

Wanted to become a cricketer ,but didn't get parents support ,also got diabetes at age 11 genetic Wanted to join Indian army but yeah got to know diabetes is an issue

So yeah , I just want a job to earn money come home and keep mental health intact

1

u/NewInteraction679 6h ago

banking exam?? or ssc

1

u/Over_think_life 21 8h ago

Same here i graduated 2 days ago too and don't know what to do or go my only short term goal is get a internship or a job but i don't have it figured out what i will do in long term

1

u/khatta_aampapad 23 7h ago

Just to survive

1

u/[deleted] 7h ago

[deleted]

1

u/Acceptable_Novel_725 7h ago

That sounds so good i hope you both work it out

1

u/Dhondu_justchill 23 7h ago

Haha thanks. Hope you get what you are looking for too!

1

u/Environmental_Mark94 7h ago

Everyday it gets worse dw you are on just starting phase of it

1

u/detective_potato_ In my 20s but a Toddler by heart 7h ago

earn as much money as I can. If I get a partner and have kids in future then move to abroad, if not then give everything to my brother before I dye.

1

u/Iamahumanbeing_tryin Shit figures out me. 23 7h ago

1

u/InevitableBoard8946 21 7h ago

Ohh albert hall museum?

1

u/Easy_Independent9123 7h ago

i don't trade in future , only stocks

1

u/Profile-Complex 25 7h ago

I just quit my Job... idk what I'm gonna do now... I'm gonna try creating video essays... hopefully that pleases me.

1

u/Southern_Mud1029 22 7h ago

I have studies and exams till 30 or even after it & and a lifetime career. It's less about wnat I've decided about my future & more about what the future holds for me 😮‍💨

1

u/stonedmind_ 7h ago

Being an owner of multiple businesses.

1

u/seektradercrypt 7h ago

I’ll have fun. Will take every opportunity to do smth new, learn new skill, explore and happy , spending time with loved ones….

1

u/Acceptable_Novel_725 7h ago

What skills you learning rn

1

u/seektradercrypt 7h ago

Equestrian, Two foreign language ATM

1

u/Automatic_Set_5797 21 7h ago

Start something of my own which solves a real world problem and makes life of people easier

1

u/Express_Sky0091 I care 7h ago

I don't decide for future, act today and let future decide

1

u/Harshitweb 7h ago

What is this place... checking it out is what I have decided ;P

2

u/Acceptable_Novel_725 7h ago

Albert hall jaipur

1

u/naune_paw 7h ago

Just stuck between locking in for jobs or trying to pursue my passion. (Also just graduated)

1

u/chala_toh_chaand_tak 20 7h ago

I've got this 5 year goal set for me, I'm just searching for a relevant job role for me to go all in

1

u/Friendly-Jacket914 25 7h ago

I’m guessing you graduated from engineering and you’re clueless ? Stay at your job if you’ve got a placement, take some experience and then start higher studies or just start studying for ms or mba.

1

u/Unique-Structure3773 No Disco only Dard 7h ago

I don't know what I'll be doing in a couple of hours so yeah

1

u/New-Secretary6688 26 7h ago

The backless is hot.

Um I am clueless too, due to my visa uncertainty no idea what I'll do when I come back if the situation is not sorted out.

1

u/Secure-Requirement48 7h ago

I'll take it slow. One moment at a time.

1

u/Fun-Pay1399 23 7h ago

It's Albert Hall Museum, right?

1

u/Any-Inflation-396 7h ago

Assuming you aren't employed I would say just find a way to earn money on your own, doing whatever you're good at. It's just not about money it's about the feeling you know you are good enough, also makes you start respecting yourself more I guess.

1

u/FlatwormThink8682 7h ago

Is this national museum???

1

u/poikilothermic_frog Ms. Froggie this side!! 7h ago

NEET crack karne ke baad batati hu

1

u/zxve2 7h ago

which degree bro? i need some college advice if any from your side

1

u/Amaldudezzz 22 in Alien Ages 7h ago

Rajnithi.

1

u/Electronic_Still_330 22 7h ago

22M and just graduated a few days ago from one of the top NITs. I have a campus placement not great, but enough to survive in this market. I'm planning to prepare for CAT alongside my job and pursue an MBA after gaining 2 years of work experience. So I'm targeting CAT 2028. Let's see. Wish me luck I hope I can make it to an IIM(hopefully.....!!)

1

u/Much-Comfortable-832 7h ago

worst decision of my life was not doing btech , did fucking b.sc and now b.ed and now i feel i'm done with my career , now just preparing for govt. exams that is the only way i can live in this society unless my future is gone

1

u/starbhakks 7h ago

ykw, it's completely okay to be clueless, to have no plans, and to feel lost sometimes, nobody really has everything figured out, no matter how it looks from the outside. finding meaning to the life is too filmy sometimes, not everyone has to search for it. I turned 26 last week, and while I do have a few dreamsI'm currently sitting in an office that might end up being a completely irrelevant detour with no impact on any of them whatsoever.

I'm writing this hoping it helps you or someone else, but it might not. That's kind of the point: plans don't always work, advice doesn't always land, and life doesn't happen everyday. People will tell you that you've got plenty of time to explore, make mistakes, and find what excites you again, and while it's true, it's not a guarantee. not a fairytale, sometimes life feels ordinary for long stretches, and nothing clicks for a while. That's alright too.

You made a post here today which might bring you new people, new perspectives, or a thought that sticks with you or maybe not. Neither of us knows. But it's worth giving it a shot, right?

1

u/New_beginning0310 7h ago

White collar corporate job after mtech

1

u/Ok_Spend3925 7h ago

About to turn 23 in a couple of months and seriously I don't know what the fuck am I doing feeling completely stuck and lost

1

u/royalfatkid 7h ago

totally lost, will be 26 in 20 days

1

u/Demolt_ 23 7h ago

Doing a job I hate to get the the money to do things I love

1

u/HawasKaPujari_ モッズは geistig behindert です 7h ago

Government job ig

1

u/Short_Somewhere_8035 7h ago

Ek lota Lelo, mandir ke samne baithenge sath me🤑

1

u/yanpinax 7h ago

I will be graduating this year...but I started focusing on skill like video editing cuz someone said that you have to learn one freelance skill that can be helpful in future....and yeah it's actually paying me and it interests me so I am considering it for the future.. Hope this help

1

u/Bulky-Extent1911 7h ago

Just want to retire by 40 and go somewhere peaceful never to return

1

u/CostAgreeable4192 7h ago

What is the painting in the picture?

1

u/ExerciseTime7649 23 7h ago

50 tak maut

1

u/Cool-Tradition8002 a dead soul 7h ago

W*rcriminal like him

1

u/Legitimate-Wave2942 6h ago

I'm 23M currently doing an internship along with my masters, and yeah idk what I want to do either. But I think I'll take some time off and think about it.

What's your grad program if you don't mind

1

u/Boring-Hawk-7 6h ago

Subha subha chinta mai daal dia

1

u/Complete_Fig_5486 6h ago

Graduated last year and currently working in the corporate world. I plan to stay in it until I’m around 35. After that, I will be only DJing, touring, and playing festivals and gigs however far it takes me, So I’ve got about 14 more years to prepare for that journey

1

u/commissioner_billii 25 6h ago

chill dude M25 finished mbbs still unhappy coz i dont think this is for me , i write along with it and learning filmmaking . i feel i have wasted my years in this profession where everyday i feel running away from world . you take your time 6 mon to an year dont rush on things

1

u/SpecialistSeaweed244 6h ago

All that i want is happening

1

u/PeanutSignificant754 6h ago

Found a mommy like you

1

u/Comfortable-Mine-729 21 6h ago

Sonaaa hai

1

u/NewInteraction679 6h ago

neen puri krna is imp✅️

1

u/NaturalVegetable280 6h ago

Go on some mountain open a shop and chill

1

u/Objectivecode389 6h ago

What's your field (in a same situation btw)

1

u/Spiritual-Spare9342 6h ago

Jalid marnaa pdega!

1

u/Indian_Toji 6h ago

Midlife crisis khte h bhaii chill n explore wt u wanna do parallel to ur job

1

u/TroubleSufficient515 6h ago

I want to be your husband (house husband to be precise ).. 😄

1

u/Acceptable_Novel_725 5h ago

Tankhwa kitni h apki

1

u/TroubleSufficient515 4h ago

As of now, Zero (That's why I mentioned House husband 😭 )..

1

u/OrdinarySloth- 6h ago

Paise kmata hu aur udata hu :p So far no issues as such, I wish I can do this forever🤞

1

u/adeppressedguy 6h ago

I am thinking of taking a job and thinking of creating an movie watching meetup group in which for every saturday or sunday we all together go watch some movies.

1

u/HistoryForAI 6h ago

take up a remote job and travel for next 3 years

1

u/Reuii_saan 5h ago

We're in the same boat, i want to start working but my mom insists I take up 1 year masters since I've already completed 4 years BA under NEP. I'm so lost and i can't even go against my mom.

1

u/bigsmokesceejay 5h ago edited 5h ago

Get a job in your domain first and then try bunch of different shit to see which one you like to do, as barrier to entry is the lowest it's ever been. As for me I am happy with my corporate job and I'm learning investing on the side as I enjoy it. In my free time I just watach tv,go to gym,travel a few times and play pc games.Overall my future plan is to make my passive income equal to or greater than my salary so I have the option to retire from IT if things go south.

And don't think you're useless as you will become what you think.

1

u/kichusan 23M, delusional 5h ago

I am currently working for an Australian startup on a contract basis and also working on my startup on weekends (will be launching this june)

I still don't know what I will be doing once i turn 25 😭

1

u/Acceptable_Novel_725 5h ago

How do you join these startups 😭

2

u/kichusan 23M, delusional 5h ago

Rare talent lol

1

u/Acceptable_Novel_725 5h ago

Must be nice ig

1

u/kichusan 23M, delusional 5h ago

Definitely, changed my life

2

u/Acceptable_Novel_725 5h ago

Koi advice?

1

u/kichusan 23M, delusional 5h ago

If you don't ask, the answer is always a NO, connect with people, shoot your shot

1

u/chai_filled_balls 27 5h ago

I've decided I need a rich wife

1

u/Butwhyexplain 4h ago

Do you have a job? Else, do an MBA from a good college lol. That way you get 2 free years of time to think without any external pressure

1

u/Skrrt_Altra 4h ago

Gym jaunga fir so jaunga

1

u/TheSleepy-Avenger 4h ago

Well just to delay my unemployment a bit, I did MBA. Now it's also ending 😔, if anyone has referral then pls hehe 🙏😭🥀

1

u/eviltwin7648 3h ago

economy ki condition dek ke, chatai and tel on roadside seems like a pretty good option for me 🥀

1

u/goan_gambit 21 2h ago

I think I'm gonna eat lunch

1

u/themightybishop 2h ago

I've been the exact same bud. Nothing interests me, I'm always tired and sleepy. I'm easily irritated and get angry alot.

1

u/AwaaaraSoul 21 8h ago

How can people nowadays have no goals in their life what were you guys doing for the whole 15to 21 erra!

1

u/mansicantsee its just a bad life, not a bad day 8h ago

trying

1

u/AwaaaraSoul 21 8h ago

For what?

2

u/mansicantsee its just a bad life, not a bad day 7h ago

trying to please parents by scoring good marks never really had time to think about career as such

2

u/AwaaaraSoul 21 7h ago

Nah man! This shit is quite personal!