r/TwentiesIndia • u/Acceptable_Novel_725 • 8h ago
Ask Twenties What have you all decided for future?
I'm 22F and just graduated idk what to do with my life or anything nothing interests me anymore i feel tired and useless mostly
Have any of you been like this?
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u/toogoodperson 7h ago
I will eat chole bhature tomorrow is the only clarity that I have about my future.
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u/IncreaseVirtual3524 7h ago
Dont forget lassi
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u/TemperatureJunior918 28 7h ago
Why not today?
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u/toogoodperson 7h ago
Aaj chole kulche kaungi
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u/Friendly-Jacket914 25 7h ago
Papa Aaj me karke aya Hu❌ Papa Aaj me pel ke aya Hu, chole bhature ✅
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u/TemperatureJunior918 28 7h ago
Waah ye hui na sorted plan. Pura week ka set hai Ek momo meri traf se
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u/toogoodperson 7h ago
Ek momo
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u/TemperatureJunior918 28 7h ago
Kitne plate chahiya?
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u/Kenta_07 somewhat alive 7h ago
itni clarity bhi nhi h mujhe to🤧
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u/toogoodperson 7h ago
You can do it , make a strategy what will you eat and be consistent about it , you will succeed
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u/Kenta_07 somewhat alive 3h ago
I cant, what i will eat is not in my hands(i am eating mess food for the past 3 years, 1 more year left 😞)
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u/Momo_Smuggler Nalla Berozgar Association(NBA) Chief 3h ago
Nhi yaar phir next day mood change ho jata hai 🫠
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u/SerDuncantheGreat I need moral support. 22 8h ago
I was like this 6 months back. Trying to make a career in music. Then i decided to be just another man in corporate. One month back i joined a good corporate. Now i have to start gym and reignite some hobbies.
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u/NewInteraction679 6h ago
what kind of job you have currently? which field
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u/SerDuncantheGreat I need moral support. 22 5h ago
I am in IT, did btech in CSE. Job part wasn't hard as college reputation helped.
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u/NewInteraction679 5h ago
Oh ,okay
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u/SerDuncantheGreat I need moral support. 22 5h ago
What about you
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u/mansicantsee its just a bad life, not a bad day 8h ago
For me i don't know what to do
What i wanted to do was to become a doctor. But my family didn't let me, ended up pursuing commerce and finance against my will & now i feel so lost because i don't even like it that much
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u/Small_Station5941 7h ago
I am a dr and commerce/finance is wayy better field dude
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u/mansicantsee its just a bad life, not a bad day 7h ago
You're right
But still i would've loved to do something that i wanted instead of doing something i don't even like :)
Besides finance also has a hugeeee competition these days and its a game over if you're not well informed and knowledgeable with hell lot of certifications
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u/Small_Station5941 7h ago
Merse career exchange krlooo
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u/AwaaaraSoul 21 7h ago
Hey don't be like this, I hope you understand and will work further down the lane to strengthen your future!
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u/mansicantsee its just a bad life, not a bad day 7h ago
Thanks, you forgot to add an image of your idol
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u/AwaaaraSoul 21 7h ago
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u/mansicantsee its just a bad life, not a bad day 7h ago
Mai yu miss karu apko 😔
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u/chala_toh_chaand_tak 20 7h ago
Ahh it's okay girl, finance is kinda good too, too much domains to explore
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u/mansicantsee its just a bad life, not a bad day 7h ago
Yes yes i know but idk if i will end up liking it because its already causing me alot of stress anz i am so tired of keeping up with my peers.
They've done tonnes of certifications in finance already.
They are doing it because they like it but i am doing it because i didn't have another choice 😭 thats why i can't seem to find the motivation these days
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u/chala_toh_chaand_tak 20 7h ago
Lol certifications help to a certian extent itself. Tell me, what course are you doing and in which year
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u/mansicantsee its just a bad life, not a bad day 7h ago
Mba kar rhi hu 😔🥀 wo bhi ghatiya clg se
I have few nism certifications but idts they will help much people are doing cfa and all and i cant do those because of financial constraint
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u/chala_toh_chaand_tak 20 7h ago
You're senior to me, but I wish you were doing from a good clg after taking drop, also you can try applying for scholarships until and unless you receive one
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u/Short-Salt-9229 7h ago
i realized it too late to,that i didn't like what i pursed,lost in life myself too🥲
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u/livinghuman2 8h ago
Doing mbbs just waiting for love ,career is most ptobably set
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u/KameenaInsaan 8h ago
iske baad md bhi hai, pyaar chodo neend na milegi tumhe
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u/Small_Station5941 7h ago
Ig you are in 1st or 2nd prof lmao?
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u/livinghuman2 7h ago
Nope final...
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u/Small_Station5941 7h ago
Yaar mbbs ke bad kya hee career set hai if we dont give pg or your dad owns a hospital
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u/livinghuman2 7h ago
That's a myth bhai ye youtubers ne zyada krdiya h and rhi baat competition have some guts and ego....
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u/terimaakababyy 7h ago
where is this photo taken btw?
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u/OwlTrick6098 6h ago
Spidy women 🌼🌼🌼 chole bhature khaegi
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u/Acceptable_Novel_725 5h ago
Khilado
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u/OwlTrick6098 5h ago
Bhyi abhi to tumhri flight thi 😭😭🙏🏻🙏🏻
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u/Acceptable_Novel_725 5h ago
Abhibhi h
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u/OwlTrick6098 5h ago
Phir bilori bina chatni kese bani 😭 apun n to bola tha fast catchup k liye aap hi ko packing krni hogi and all
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u/KameenaInsaan 8h ago
You lost the spark
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u/Acceptable_Novel_725 8h ago
😞 perhaps
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u/KameenaInsaan 8h ago
try new things, meet new people, let your mind reset
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u/IncreaseVirtual3524 7h ago
Bhaiya ek spark plug lga do
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u/KameenaInsaan 7h ago
Bilkul bhaiya baitho 2 second abhi lagata hoon
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u/IncreaseVirtual3524 6h ago
2 cutting chai aur samosa bhi lga dena chotu
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u/KameenaInsaan 6h ago
laga toh denge lekin tumhare me fit kaise karenge ... ruko 7 number paana leke aata hu
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u/thalaraj 21 8h ago
Me too graduated Will turn 22 in less than a week Have decided what to do (govt jobs) just because I don't wanna spend that much time and also have job security
Wanted to become a cricketer ,but didn't get parents support ,also got diabetes at age 11 genetic Wanted to join Indian army but yeah got to know diabetes is an issue
So yeah , I just want a job to earn money come home and keep mental health intact
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u/Over_think_life 21 8h ago
Same here i graduated 2 days ago too and don't know what to do or go my only short term goal is get a internship or a job but i don't have it figured out what i will do in long term
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u/detective_potato_ In my 20s but a Toddler by heart 7h ago
earn as much money as I can. If I get a partner and have kids in future then move to abroad, if not then give everything to my brother before I dye.
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u/Profile-Complex 25 7h ago
I just quit my Job... idk what I'm gonna do now... I'm gonna try creating video essays... hopefully that pleases me.
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u/Southern_Mud1029 22 7h ago
I have studies and exams till 30 or even after it & and a lifetime career. It's less about wnat I've decided about my future & more about what the future holds for me 😮💨
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u/seektradercrypt 7h ago
I’ll have fun. Will take every opportunity to do smth new, learn new skill, explore and happy , spending time with loved ones….
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u/Automatic_Set_5797 21 7h ago
Start something of my own which solves a real world problem and makes life of people easier
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u/naune_paw 7h ago
Just stuck between locking in for jobs or trying to pursue my passion. (Also just graduated)
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u/chala_toh_chaand_tak 20 7h ago
I've got this 5 year goal set for me, I'm just searching for a relevant job role for me to go all in
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u/Friendly-Jacket914 25 7h ago
I’m guessing you graduated from engineering and you’re clueless ? Stay at your job if you’ve got a placement, take some experience and then start higher studies or just start studying for ms or mba.
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u/Unique-Structure3773 No Disco only Dard 7h ago
I don't know what I'll be doing in a couple of hours so yeah
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u/New-Secretary6688 26 7h ago
The backless is hot.
Um I am clueless too, due to my visa uncertainty no idea what I'll do when I come back if the situation is not sorted out.
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u/Any-Inflation-396 7h ago
Assuming you aren't employed I would say just find a way to earn money on your own, doing whatever you're good at. It's just not about money it's about the feeling you know you are good enough, also makes you start respecting yourself more I guess.
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u/Electronic_Still_330 22 7h ago
22M and just graduated a few days ago from one of the top NITs. I have a campus placement not great, but enough to survive in this market. I'm planning to prepare for CAT alongside my job and pursue an MBA after gaining 2 years of work experience. So I'm targeting CAT 2028. Let's see. Wish me luck I hope I can make it to an IIM(hopefully.....!!)
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u/Much-Comfortable-832 7h ago
worst decision of my life was not doing btech , did fucking b.sc and now b.ed and now i feel i'm done with my career , now just preparing for govt. exams that is the only way i can live in this society unless my future is gone
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u/starbhakks 7h ago
ykw, it's completely okay to be clueless, to have no plans, and to feel lost sometimes, nobody really has everything figured out, no matter how it looks from the outside. finding meaning to the life is too filmy sometimes, not everyone has to search for it. I turned 26 last week, and while I do have a few dreamsI'm currently sitting in an office that might end up being a completely irrelevant detour with no impact on any of them whatsoever.
I'm writing this hoping it helps you or someone else, but it might not. That's kind of the point: plans don't always work, advice doesn't always land, and life doesn't happen everyday. People will tell you that you've got plenty of time to explore, make mistakes, and find what excites you again, and while it's true, it's not a guarantee. not a fairytale, sometimes life feels ordinary for long stretches, and nothing clicks for a while. That's alright too.
You made a post here today which might bring you new people, new perspectives, or a thought that sticks with you or maybe not. Neither of us knows. But it's worth giving it a shot, right?
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u/Ok_Spend3925 7h ago
About to turn 23 in a couple of months and seriously I don't know what the fuck am I doing feeling completely stuck and lost
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u/yanpinax 7h ago
I will be graduating this year...but I started focusing on skill like video editing cuz someone said that you have to learn one freelance skill that can be helpful in future....and yeah it's actually paying me and it interests me so I am considering it for the future.. Hope this help
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u/Legitimate-Wave2942 6h ago
I'm 23M currently doing an internship along with my masters, and yeah idk what I want to do either. But I think I'll take some time off and think about it.
What's your grad program if you don't mind
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u/Complete_Fig_5486 6h ago
Graduated last year and currently working in the corporate world. I plan to stay in it until I’m around 35. After that, I will be only DJing, touring, and playing festivals and gigs however far it takes me, So I’ve got about 14 more years to prepare for that journey
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u/commissioner_billii 25 6h ago
chill dude M25 finished mbbs still unhappy coz i dont think this is for me , i write along with it and learning filmmaking . i feel i have wasted my years in this profession where everyday i feel running away from world . you take your time 6 mon to an year dont rush on things
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u/TroubleSufficient515 6h ago
I want to be your husband (house husband to be precise ).. 😄
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u/OrdinarySloth- 6h ago
Paise kmata hu aur udata hu :p So far no issues as such, I wish I can do this forever🤞
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u/adeppressedguy 6h ago
I am thinking of taking a job and thinking of creating an movie watching meetup group in which for every saturday or sunday we all together go watch some movies.
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u/Reuii_saan 5h ago
We're in the same boat, i want to start working but my mom insists I take up 1 year masters since I've already completed 4 years BA under NEP. I'm so lost and i can't even go against my mom.
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u/bigsmokesceejay 5h ago edited 5h ago
Get a job in your domain first and then try bunch of different shit to see which one you like to do, as barrier to entry is the lowest it's ever been. As for me I am happy with my corporate job and I'm learning investing on the side as I enjoy it. In my free time I just watach tv,go to gym,travel a few times and play pc games.Overall my future plan is to make my passive income equal to or greater than my salary so I have the option to retire from IT if things go south.
And don't think you're useless as you will become what you think.
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u/kichusan 23M, delusional 5h ago
I am currently working for an Australian startup on a contract basis and also working on my startup on weekends (will be launching this june)
I still don't know what I will be doing once i turn 25 😭
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u/Acceptable_Novel_725 5h ago
How do you join these startups 😭
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u/kichusan 23M, delusional 5h ago
Rare talent lol
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u/Acceptable_Novel_725 5h ago
Must be nice ig
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u/kichusan 23M, delusional 5h ago
Definitely, changed my life
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u/Acceptable_Novel_725 5h ago
Koi advice?
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u/kichusan 23M, delusional 5h ago
If you don't ask, the answer is always a NO, connect with people, shoot your shot
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u/Butwhyexplain 4h ago
Do you have a job? Else, do an MBA from a good college lol. That way you get 2 free years of time to think without any external pressure
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u/TheSleepy-Avenger 4h ago
Well just to delay my unemployment a bit, I did MBA. Now it's also ending 😔, if anyone has referral then pls hehe 🙏😭🥀
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u/eviltwin7648 3h ago
economy ki condition dek ke, chatai and tel on roadside seems like a pretty good option for me 🥀
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u/themightybishop 2h ago
I've been the exact same bud. Nothing interests me, I'm always tired and sleepy. I'm easily irritated and get angry alot.
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u/AwaaaraSoul 21 8h ago
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u/mansicantsee its just a bad life, not a bad day 8h ago
trying
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u/AwaaaraSoul 21 8h ago
For what?
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u/mansicantsee its just a bad life, not a bad day 7h ago
trying to please parents by scoring good marks never really had time to think about career as such
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u/No-Assignment8665 24 7h ago
Company jump karte karte, mountain se jump kar lena hai.