I shouldn't have posted maybe. Update about the beaten up by father post.

[u/dumb_little_bug]

My wound has become swollen, nothing to clean with as of yet, cleaned with water. Other than that my father begged me to open the door, he apologized, I asked him to stay away from me. I asked him why he did that, he just kept on repeating one like "all i have is you".

I have been taking random jabs that how can a person be this violent without any escalation. A little bit of back story. He has always been abusive. He would beat us at the slightest of anger he felt. If the fan didn't work. If any monetary issues. We have been going through monetary issues this month, which was one of his stresses. From what I think that made him angry.

That day or that week. We didn't have a fight, even before I started playing i had dinner and no conversation with them. So when he started beating me out of nowhere I got scared and actually took a back why and what happened. Nor did my mother answer why he spiraled into this. I haven't eaten since yesterday and my brain is fuzzy.

I wanted to update people who were supportive of me. Though I can't go to the police even though I should, I mean I want to but right now I want things to be the least bit complicated. Why I posted was because my friend asked me to use her throwaway account to leave a digital imprint. To actually see there are strangers out there to help. And i don't know if it's a bittersweet feeling when people justify getting beaten up, that I had a boyfriend when I shouldn't, i shouldn't play games. I was karma farming. It's one side of the story. Ig i'm mentally very affected that I can't take the negativity out here.

Maybe there will be no Tomorrow for me, and I'll not be updating you. Thanks to the people who helped and asked me how I am every hour checked up on me. And thanks to the people who didn't believe me I'm aware that the world is indeed a cruel place.

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[u/Mean_Investigator188]

Your dad's a narcissist, don't worry as he grow old he will loose his power financially and physically. And then you will be the one incharge and no one will be able to hurt you just few years if you can't leave him now

[u/Due_Minimum_7582]

I was just thinking about you & your story. my friend,we all are anonymous here, and so first thing first you are not alone. Secondly, don't give up on yourself, I know there are problems in your life but remember you are God's favorite child. Stay strong💪✨

[u/DeliciousCookie5692]

I just hope you find a way to lead a peaceful and happy life. I have nothing more to say.

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[u/PuzzleheadedBlood612]

More courage and patience to you Queen

[u/LightYagami8299]

Aise logon ko dekhke lagta h mere gharwale to lakh guna acche h

[u/LightYagami8299 → u/LightYagami8299]

Kuch saal baad ye aadmi wese bhi kuch ni kar payega tab tum isko sunana ki isse ghatiya aadmi ho ni skta tab ise aayegi akal abhi to narcissism ka keeda ghusa h iske andar (sorry for the bad language but is aadmi pe gussa aari)

[u/AutoWalaBatman]

And i don't know if it's a bittersweet feeling when people justify getting beaten up, that I had a boyfriend when I shouldn't, i shouldn't play games. I was karma farming. It's one side of the story. Ig i'm mentally very affected that I can't take the negativity out here.

Anyone who's justifying this is a fool. You don't deserve to be treated like this. Try to leave that house asap. Crack your exam, get into a good government college. Once you get into a good college, you will have easy life through scholarships.

[u/GorillaWolf2099 → u/AutoWalaBatman]

Exactly, especially this part "Anyone who's justifying this is a fool. You don't deserve to be treated like this."

Edit: Whoever keeps downvoting me for defending OP is honestly pathetic. She just posted that she is locked in her room, starving, with a swollen wound, and trying to process why her own father brutally attacked her. Imagine seeing a kid in that much despair and your first instinct is to hit downvote because she mentioned playing a video game or having a boyfriend. Get a grip.

[u/UnfairSoftware3772]

Stay safe! You should post this pic to Claude and GPT and follow the steps.

[u/Google_100]

[u/VR0987654]

Hey don't say like this that you will have no tomorrow, you have to fight girl and contact me if u need any help

[u/Suitable_Beyond_4707]

You're gonna be okay. You are strong

[u/Boring_Abies_4396]

Imyou know it is kinda your mother's fault that situation became this bad every one goes through some tough financial situation but smthis is not justified this is text book abuse

[u/-AsHxD-]

dude fuck that pos who was justifying it. he was a low life. just block him.

there are tons of people who would go beyond lengths to help you out.

Stay safe

[u/Low-Dig-4021]

It's actually good that he lashed out you then asked sorry,he's a textbook narcissist , his true colours came out, open your wings , free fly, break the shackles and never look back at him, wishing and hoping you get peace and happines,you can easily move on from him with no guilt pondering whether he was good or not, mostly these people don't change, if you think you can adjust, you will get more instability and pain later in your life, please move on to a faraway job.

[u/Bunnyslade]

Omg I hope youre okay now

[u/Hydertrate]

Pit do didi.... Father nahi rakhsas hai 🙏. Ek bar unke power trip se utar do aur kabi nahi karenge (experience from slapping a teacher who used to beat us for no reason)

[u/JPMoreGuns]

Lots of love to you!!! Home is supposed to feel safe. I'm sorry for you. I don't wish this upon anyone. As for your father, I can only say that treating a child this way is a crappy thing to do. He needs to own up to the fact that you are a good kid and maybe he lacks something. But as for you, you shouldn't think of no tomorrow. You must live to see better day.

Maybe I got it wrong about the S word. But if I got it correct, please don't go ahead with it. To see good days, one muat first be living. Much love to you! More power to you!

[u/Psychological-Plan48]

all children deserve parents.
but all parents don’t deserve children.

[u/kiraaaaaa__]

It's fine, take care

[u/icedlattewithcaramel]

I was telling your story to my dad. You already know what you've to do henceforth, lots of love and luck

[u/Boring_Card_99]

Hope you're okay OP. My heart breaks for you and all others undergoing abuse. Hope you'll be out of this soon.

[u/StraightHorror9743]

Parents can be abusive but really regret to core on hurting their kids, and this episode I suggest you not to forgive for few days but open the door and get out somewhere. Dont stay locked in. I used to do the same. Sneak some snacks too when you get back

[u/No_Fox_8023]

"How can a person be this violent without escalation."

Oh yes they can be, i am "they". Presumption fks, fking rtrds

[u/justelling]

Why do you expect people to believe everything they read or heard from unknown people?
Handling criticism is inevitable especially in the field you’re trying to get into.

[u/BNBC-7771]

It hurts I know - get a job & escape this hell yaar

[u/ExploreBeyondHorizon]

Hey

Wishing you peace and happiness.

The decision to not report your father is a complicated and sensitive one - irrespective of what you choose - both require great courage! Be strong, very soon you can come out this mess and can be a self made woman from here on in life.

Support in such times is absolutely required and good you have good friends and people here are helpful. But honestly - you don't need anyone's validation or opinion to decide you are right and strong. You are enough - and all the fellow friends are rooting for you.

Involve yourself in good activities. And if you feel you are in danger - from father or even your own thoughts - take professional help please.

Take care.

[u/Emma_watsonlover]

U have to cut all connections with him forever after getting job, Only way to punish him

[u/caramelconsume475]

Godddd some parents don’t deserve to be parents, he’s acting like the fking loser that he is, i bet if in any way your mother or family member does better than him in life,financially or anything he’ll be the kind of person to start hating them or spiting them, thats just because of jealousy and internalised hatred and girl i swear the things that happen to you are because of things that he has internalised, he has a hatred for himself for seeing the world this way, it’s not your fault in any way, it’s all on him for living his life this way. Every one, almost everyone goes through financial hardships and points when they feel like nothing is working out from them but you dont fking hit your daughter about it. He is the fking problem and omg i can imagine how it must be for you because my dad was kinda like this in a sense my heart goes out to you 🥹🫂 i hope you’ll just apply a job anywhere and move out, i think i saw a comment in your other post about job offers, you should take it. As long as it sustains you, it’s better than being stuck in a place with him. Keep fighting this🫂

[u/Affectionate-Run2738]

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[u/Vanvaasi]

Please take care OP.

I wish and pray you get out of there as soon as possible.

[u/imightlarp]

ts looking like a aloo 

[u/Designer_Heart_ → u/imightlarp]

Flair m hi likha h "no jokes"

Gawar h kya?

[u/-AsHxD- → u/Designer_Heart_]

his flair checks out

[u/caramelconsume475 → u/imightlarp]

Can you stfu for one second and know when to joke around

[u/JellyfishCritical968 → u/[deleted]]

One of the many people who waste their lives with competitive exams while doing nothing alongside it. ¯⁠\⁠_⁠(⁠ツ⁠)⁠_⁠/⁠¯

[u/Mysterious_Parfait49 → u/JellyfishCritical968]

areyy read the room gaandmarike ಠ⁠◡⁠ಠ

[u/CuummRAG → u/[deleted]]

No need to put a man down, 22 is still early.