Indian society needs a change

[u/midnightAbrocoma331]

Why is public affection still treated like some kind of crime in India?

Every time my partner and I meet, something as simple as sharing a kiss or hugging each other tightly turns into a mission. Instead of just enjoying the moment, we're constantly looking for a private corner where we won't be judged, stared at, or interrupted.

And even when we finally find a quiet spot, there's always that one random uncle who suddenly appears out of nowhere and decides it's his responsibility to monitor our lives. We're not bothering anyone, we're not hurting anyone, yet somehow our existence becomes everyone's concern.

What's frustrating is that basic affection between two consenting adults is still seen as "inappropriate" by so many people. Meanwhile, staring, moral policing, and invading other people's privacy are somehow considered acceptable.

It's 2026. Maybe it's time we stopped acting like a couple sharing a kiss is a threat to society and started teaching people to mind their own business.

Not every hug is indecent. Not every kiss is obscene. Sometimes two people just miss each other and want to be close for a moment.

That's it. Let people live.

[u/Ecstatic_Hospital_47]

If u act normal or lovey dovey ,people will still have a problem regardless. Being an introvert , even I used to feel judged by other people around if I was involved in some pda,just a normal hug would make me nervous fearing what other people would think. But honestly,i don't give a damn now about others opinion or judgement. If a hug or small kiss makes your and your partner happy,then just go for it. It is these little gestures of love that make our day and you should not let anyone decide otherwise. Also as far as ik ,decent acts of pda are not illegal too in india ,just don't go too overboard might get you in trouble unnecessarily.