r/Salsa 9d ago

Skill level

I am convinced, and I will die on this hill, that the number, quality and frequency of strangers coming to ask you out for a dance is a strong solid indicator of how good you are at dancing.

I do not mean a random ask. I mean where strangers search for, will wait and beeline for you.

For example, the fact I rarely get asked by strangers (when they do it is a random ask) and I only dance with people I know, is a clear indication that my dance is lucking.

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u/dondegroovily 9d ago

But not truly strangers, but regulars at your dance scene that you don't know well

Genuine strangers have no idea how you dance

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u/Gnomeric 8d ago

I am pretty sure many experienced dancers regularly scan the floor to see if there are good dancers they don't recognize.

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u/Own_Affect_7931 8d ago

It's true, I do this.