r/Formerfosterkids • u/[deleted] • Mar 14 '26

I need advice

Hi I’m new to reddit so sorry if the formatting is weird. I’m 18F and you can call me Sophie (fake name).

How did you all manage going out into the real world? I am terrified of going through life with no family and no real support. I can’t imagine what my future holds and I am so scared. My foster mom tries her best I got lucky she’s pretty good and supportive most of the time, but she really makes me feel like I’m completely unprepared for when the time comes to move out. I’m really scared for the transition from having people to take care of me and help me through things to having no one. How did you figure things out? Am I just completely fucked and helpless? I’m so scared

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u/ContributionNew2048 Mar 15 '26

This. Student living, loans, and then hopefully find a job before you graduate. It is so hard not having a support system. I am sorry 😞 Maybe there is an Independent Living program near you? It’s like extended foster care but they help you learn independence and you can live in your own apartment. Some states offer free schooling for foster children as well.