Advice?

[u/rose_feet_life]

I had an old friend message me after seeing my post about my ectopic pregnancy and she responded with oh it will happen one day, you will be a mother one day. And I couldn’t help myself but blow up on her. She had a chemical miscarriage within her first 2 weeks. Which I understand miscarriages are also hard to handle. But she compared my adnexal ectopic pregnancy to her chemical pregnancy and was acting like I wasn’t a mother. Am I in the wrong for blowing up on her and educating her the difference between the two? I was actively bleeding out and the baby had a heart beat of 130bmp and the doctors told me I would have died within a week if I continued to carry.

[u/Glittering_Can4622]

Hola! Siento mucho lo que has pasado. Apesta muchisimo.

Yo estoy TTC, y mi primer embarazo fue una ruptura ectopica y justo despues un aborto espontaneo. Y he de decir que ambas son MUY duras, yo tambien pensaba que el ectopico era peor antes de tener el aborto espontaneo, pero los dos son duros.

No te culpes, tomate tu tiempo 🩵🩵