r/ESTJ • u/Strawbs_deer • 13d ago
Discussion/Poll Fellow Estjs......
I fear being online is a mistake. My life is so good, im having fun with friends and accomplishing a lot irl. I get interested in this mbti funny business, cause i think the cognitive aspects are cool. Then I go online for discussion, and it just reeks man. I'm glad that theres some nice people! but in general................
Do yall get what i mean. Its kind of expected for the internet but my god is it bad when you say "hey guys im estj"
Cognitively im an estj but i dont fw the stereotype that much cause its so... genuinely outrageous
Do you guys feel the same way? Do people treat you like this? This was a culture shock for me cause i speak the same way i would if i were face to face with someone
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u/omnos51 INFJ 13d ago
I'm not ESTJ but from what I can observe, many people assign strict and/or angry people they meet as ESTJ and form a bias. I had a chance to work with an ESTJ irl and it went great. Even when we had conflicts or I made a mistake, everything was resolved quickly and professionally. I really wish I had that level of straightforwardness. It would make things so much easier for everyone.