r/ENFP • u/Cold_Pomegranate7039 • 8d ago

Question/Advice/Support Does anyone struggle to explain things logically?

It's not a question for the enfps necessarily but I don't feel like asking elsewhere. So people often say they can't understand what I am saying.

I myself don't sometimes. 💀 My answer is coming from 10 different ideas or experiences collectively and I can't point it out easily. It takes time for me to clarify things. Maybe it's being slow to process. And no matter how much I try, half the story is in my mind. The other person has no way to know.

I like to debate but it's hard because of it. Any similar experience or anyone who could overcome it?

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u/Any_Emu4892 8d ago

I do understand, just a matter of connecting the dots. But said dots often vary widely, and may be barely related to the topic at hand. At least thats my experience.

It can be worse though. I know a ESFP who will stop speaking mid sentence and never bring it up again. But i can still fill in the blanks. So she can talk to me and fumble over her words, and ill still know what she wanted to say. I am trying to get her to finish her sentences though.

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u/Cold_Pomegranate7039 7d ago

Yeahhh that's the biggest issue. They can be barely related.

Oh my my, brother👀 Also I used to be like that!