Hello everyone,
My wife and I just welcomed our daughter Elena into the world 10 days ago, and honestly, we are still trying to process everything that has happened.
During a 34-week ultrasound, Elena’s measurements looked a little unusual. Her arms and legs were around the 50th percentile, while her head and belly were measuring around the 90th percentile. We asked questions at the time, but no one seemed overly concerned.
My wife ended up needing an emergency C-section because Elena wasn’t tolerating contractions well and labor wasn’t progressing. My wife was incredibly strong and brave through all of it.
Right after Elena was born, I could tell something was wrong from the expressions on the doctors’ faces. She needed emergency surgery shortly after birth for what I understand was jejunostomy or jejunal atresia??/meconium peritonitis related to a bowel obstruction. Thankfully, we were already at a hospital with a NICU and pediatric surgeons who could operate immediately. She’ll likely be in the NICU another 8–10 weeks while she recovers and eventually undergoes a second surgery.
We recently learned Elena carries two copies of the DF508 mutation, and the doctors are evaluating her for cystic fibrosis. I’ll admit I knew very little about CF before this happened, so I’ve been reading as much as I can and trying to learn quickly.
Right now she’s doing well in the NICU, and we’re incredibly grateful for that. But as a new dad, I’m also scared and overwhelmed about what the future could look like.
I wanted to ask this community:
- What do you wish you had known in the early days after diagnosis?
- What helped you or your child thrive physically and emotionally?
- What questions should we be asking our CF clinic right away?
- For parents of younger children with CF, what treatments or routines made the biggest difference early on?
I’ve also been reading about medications like Trikafta and some of the side effects people have experienced. I know treatments have changed CF outcomes dramatically over the years, but as someone who tends to be VERY cautious about vaccines/medications/etc in general, I’m trying to learn from real experiences and understand how families make these decisions.
I’m also interested in hearing if there are supportive lifestyle habits, nutrition approaches, therapies, or other things that helped alongside standard medical care.
Mostly, I just want to do everything possible to give Elena the healthiest and happiest life we can.
Thank you to anyone willing to share their experience or advice.