People don't like being called rapists and murderers and they don't invite me to social functions, boohoo

[u/CaffeineFueledLife]

[u/ShinyTinyWonder38]

Even if they were invited they would spend the whole time complaining about how there were no vegan options

[u/CaffeineFueledLife → u/ShinyTinyWonder38]

And how disgusted they were by watching people eat corpses and secretions.

[u/Cargobiker530 → u/ShinyTinyWonder38]

That or delivering an endless monologue about how great it is to be vegan, all her fantastic vegan recipes, and how evil non-vegans are, at a near shout.

One vegan ruins a social gathering because one way or another they will make it all about them.

[u/Jaded-Difficulty5397 → u/ShinyTinyWonder38]

you know, in hebrew when someone nags me about something over and over we slang it as "he's eating my head".

so basically we say that vegans don't eat meat but eat heads. very common joke here

[u/The-Devil-Cat]

https://giphy.com/gifs/UXIhcrnqBH7di8tz63

them

[u/AutomaticGrape9263]

Join the cult AND live the life of a cultist? Who could've expected that.

[u/FeistyKing_7]

Well, if OP had been complaining and telling their friend why she should be Vegan.. Than it shouldn't be surprising for OP that it ended up pushing her away, along with family.

[u/CaffeineFueledLife → u/FeistyKing_7]

And you know she was. They always do.

[u/shannibearstar]

The world does not cater to vegans. Vegans think it should and have a tantrum when they aren’t the center of attention. They want all food and drink around them to be vegan even when it is not a vegan event.

I’m not going out of my way to make something vegan when it’s better nonvegan.

[u/Ancient-Bat8274]

Being vegan isn’t why they’re excluded. They’re likely the insufferable type who suck to be around. I have some friends who are private vegans (meaning they don’t make it their entire personality or push onto me their lifestyle). I still invite them to things out of courtesy and they’re fun people, but it need not be said I don’t typically serve vegan food aside from snacks like a veggie tray or chips and salsa. They usually bring their own food or some other dish that’s shareable. It’s called being polite if you give respect you will get respect. I would bet that the poster has a shitty personality and vegan is a better excuse to exclude them.

[u/maarshiexcry]

If they were invited theyd complain that there is no vegan food for them.

Not everybody will buy special food just for you. I will say what my mom says: the world wont cater to you.

[u/prisoner70482]

Bet their insufferable & preachy and that's why not invited

[u/Eatingchickeninbed]

The comments are about how it's not hard to throw vegan options on the grill, as though most vegans wouldn't oppose sharing a grill with meat. 

A barbecue is literally a meat-eating event lol

[u/CaffeineFueledLife → u/Eatingchickeninbed]

Yeah, they'd demand a separate grill that has never had meat on it, and then they would complain about having to see and smell corpses, and on and on.

[u/BrandosWorld4Life]

Friend is damned if she does and damned if she doesn't. Either she invites the vegan who complains about there being nothing vegan at the barbeque, or she just doesn't invite the vegan at all. Either way turns out unhappily.

[u/Jaded-Difficulty5397]

yea.

and my co-workers didn't invite me to id el-adkha celebration because i'm not muslim. so i'll cry on it.

vegans don't understand that BBQ is, well, about meat.

and the best cakes (in every country!!!) are the dairy ones. even the non-dairy must have eggs.

[u/Open_Mortgage_4645]

Thanks to vegans, nobody wants to hang out with vegans. They're neck and neck with Christians for most insufferable group of the planet award.

[u/SaulGrandMan]

Always complaining

[u/Additional-Main6241]

They are truly unreasonable. Once I was eating some burger, and got into an argument where I said factory farming was bad, and that the USA should try to embrace local farming and hunting again because they are more moral, and thats not even enough for this person. They said “How are you different than Jeffrey Dahmer” and I wish I was making that up. I would NEVER invite one of these performative assholes to a BBQ. The whole BBQ they would call everyone a serial killer like some total dipshit. They do not care about animals, they care about moral posturing on non vegan people.

[u/flamingdragon62]

“We’re not invited “

No she didn’t wanna make things awkward by inviting you when she knew you wouldn’t of eaten anything

[u/InNedOfUsername]

"People actually didn't invite me to an event were I was going to do absolutely nothing but be a pseudo-intellectual moral high ground virtue signalling asshole so they could actually enjoy themselves instead of getting the Bill Gates propaganda that I fell for shoved down their throats."

[u/PandaBear905]

You chose to be vegan. It’s not like you have a health condition or an allergy that prevents you from eating certain foods. You chose to not eat certain foods and then try to force others to make that choice. If you don’t want to be excluded either learn to cope or stop being vegan.