am i overreacting??

[u/Nice-Community-4611]

so i (21 F) never met my dad since i was born and last month he reached out to me the first time over instagram. i feel like he has been very pushy to meet up and i told him i’m not trying to rush things. tonight he was asking me questions to get to know me & this was one of the questions.. i never really grew up with a close male figure in my life but isn’t this question weird? i didn’t even answer the question when he asked i just skipped over it. it’s not his or anyone’s business about my first kiss and it’s weird to ask anyway to me.

[u/Life-Syrup-653]

Hi! NOR! My sperm donor is like this too! He was mad that I had a (ex)girlfriend; and was wondering if he could live with us, and why he couldn’t date her or me? It was so fucking nasty….

Genetic sexual attraction, is real. I’ve experienced it as a 19 y/o and I’m now 23… literally learned about this the day after it happened from A LAW AND ORDER EPISODE. And I was flabbergasted, that my sperm donor had just talked to me that way before… it’s so weird, block him honey. My daddy issues went away after the interaction I had, now all I feel is anger. I still don’t feel peace but whatever